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Conversations that women rarely have but really should. Here on THE SHE WORD presenter Trudy Kerr hosts open and honest discussions about the topics that affect us as women, but are rarely shared. We normalise topics that affect us as women but we might feel nervous to discuss with each other, even our closest friends. As we sit down together, we share information and experiences. We follow our passion to be informed, to be honest and to empower other women in doing so. The Young Women's Edition is hosted by Sasha Vella. The Mum's Edition is hosted by Nerissa Massa SHE WARRIORS is a 1-2-1 series hosted by Trudy Kerr

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June 10, 20261 hr 30 min

The SHE Word - Women and ADHD, the neurodivergent superpower

ADHD remains a largely misunderstood and often misdiagnosed condition. Despite growing awareness, chronic underdiagnosis has historically hindered millions from getting support.Recent years however, have seen a surge in adult diagnoses. ADHD diagnoses in women aged 23–49 nearly DOUBLED between 2020 and 2022, with 50% of adult women diagnosed with ADHD received their diagnosis in adulthood, often after an average 5-year delay compared to men. Women are significantly more prone to misdiagnoses due to frequently masking their struggles. Three well-known personalities join Trudy for this show to share their own journeys and experiences - the positive, and the very real challenges. Demaris Agius is a much loved content creator and advocate for ADHD, having received her ADHD diagnosis three years ago. Makenda is a Maltese resident, French national model, events producer and brand strategist who first spoke about her ADHD journey on The SHE Word over two years ago. Dr Chiara Frendo Balzan is one of Malta’s most well known Gynaecologists who recently spoke openly at The SHE Talks about her challenges with undiagnosed ADHD through childhood and her journey to become a doctor. These women speak openly about being misunderstood, the feeling of failure, the loneliness that can come from isolation that is associated with ADHD. But the three guests so clearly instantly bond over their common bond, finishing each other’s sentences and nodding at the mention of the traits that define the condition, encouraging each other and referencing the Spiderman Meme that so aptly describes the connection between three women from different nationalities, different backgrounds, but instantly connected. The group also address that whilst social media has helped reduce stigma, it has also led to concerns over the self-diagnosis of common, everyday struggles. Demaris also addresses the impact of digital devices on ADHD men and women, and the significance of screen time in children and the link to childhood ADHD symptoms This show is heartfelt, positive and informative. If you have considered that you might have ADHD, this is the show for you. If you have ever used the phrase ‘I have undiagnosed ADHD’, this is the show for you. If you have a friend or family member with ADHD, this is the show for you. If you are just curious or want to be more informed, this is the show for you!Huge thanks to Brown's, Perrier, Always. Tampax, Satariano, Holland and Barrett, Camilleri Paris Mode, Verdala Wellness Hotel and Spa, Mapfre, BOV and Lindex for supporting these conversations.

May 29, 202613 min

The SHE Word Special: Everything You Wanted To Know About The Opposite Sex - Part Four - James's Questions

n the last part of this The SHE Word Special James pitches the questions to the table on all the most important things concerning the opposite sex: “Why can’t you accept that we’re crap photographers?”“When going out together how many fights could you have avoided, if you started getting ready and hour sooner?” and“When you’re upset, what’s our cue to know if we need to help you fix it, or just listen?”The guest tackle the topics with the same banter, cheeky humour and lighthearted lift along, with a few moments of deep and profound inspiration that they have brought to the previous three episodes. Just what you need to lighten the mood, lift your spirits and give you something to make you really laugh.

May 28, 202626 min

The SHE Word Special: Everything You Wanted To Know About The Opposite Sex - Part Three - Trudy's Questions

Time for Trudy to take the helm and pitch the questions in the third part of this mini series special where The SHE Word brings you a lighthearted look at what women and men really think about the things that are important. In this episode Trudy grills the men on their bathroom habits, asks if men realise we can STILL SEE THEM in the car when they are picking their nose, dives a bit deeper into how men and women react to a friend in need, and sticks with the theme of the week by asking 'What law would you introduce if you were voted Prime Minister'Dive into this short show special to take a well earned and much needed break from the noise of the week to kick back, learn a little but laugh a lot and forget about everything else for 20 minutes.

May 27, 202623 min

The SHE Word Special: Everything You Wanted To Know About The Opposite Sex - Part Two - Frank's Questions

The SHE Word Special: Everything You Wanted To Know About The Opposite Sex - Part Two - Frank's QuestionsIn the second part of this mini series special, The SHE Word brings you a lighthearted look at what women and men really think about the things that are important. In part two, Frank continues with a little 'toilet humour' broaching the subject of gas, whilst also tackling the topic of what women mean when they say 'Im fine', and poses the question 'What would YOU do if you were Prime Minister for the day?'. This conversation is guaranteed to leave a smile on your face and lighten the mood of the week, so take a few moments to dip into this show and laugh along with the guys.

May 26, 202622 min

The SHE Word Special: Everything You Wanted To Know About The Opposite Sex - Part One - Ira's Questions

In the special four part mini series, The SHE Word brings you a brilliantly funny, brutally honest, truthfully touching and outrageously entertaining show in which four well known Maltese personalities pitch their questions to the opposite sex on all things important. In part one, Ira takes the 'stand' and grills the guys on gas lighting, ghosting and the all important question 'Why do men leave the loo seat down and then pee on it'. Take a few minutes out of this week to laugh along with the comments and questions, listen to what the guys and girls have to say, and forget about everything else for a moment.

June 4, 20262 hr 6 min

The SHE Word - A Life After Domestic Violence

Domestic Violence affects one in three women in their life time. Let that sink in for a moment, one in three women will experience physical, emotional, mental, financial or sexual abuse from an intimate partner, a parent, a sibling or someone else within the home. But, there is life after DV as Pearl Vella-Harber so publicly demonstrated; there can be courage and closure after abuse.The SHE Word dives into this topic for a third time as Trudy sits down with Pearl Vella Haber, Nancy Abela and Elaine Compagno to take a look at various stages of surviving and overcoming DV, from the acknowledgement of violence and calling it out for what it is, to planning an exit. From sitting with grief and anger, to building a new and complete life.Pearl shares the impact of her own experiences of manipulation, isolation, name calling and threats that shaped her childhood and early adult life; the turning point that helped her build her life again, as well as the breaking point that lead to her taking a stand and facing her perpetrators.Trauma therapist Nancy Abela not only shares her own personal story but the journey that lead her to become and Trauma Therapist, specialising in Narcissistic abuse and how she helps other women as they navigate the after effects of DV and the therapeutic process the will guide them to a full and free life.Elaine is back on her second appearance talking about DV, the sometimes unexpected fall out of recovery, and to offer personal account as well as practical advice.This show is so much more than a podcast, this episode is a source of powerful encouragement and inspiration for ALL women. Watch and be seen, be empowered, and be educated.Huge thanks to Brown's, Perrier, Always. Tampax, Satariano, Holland and Barrett, Camilleri Paris Mode, Verdala Wellness Hotel and Spa, Mapfre, BOV and Lindex for supporting these conversations.  If you are affected by this topic please reach out for help:If you are in immediate danger please call the Police: 112The Domestic Violence Unit Support Line: 179Anonymous Online Support Line Kellimni: Kellimni.comVictim Support: +356 2122 8333, info@victimsupport.org.mt SOAR: +356 2180 9011 / +356 2180 8981 / +356 2767 2367The views, opinions, and statements expressed by the interviewees in this program are solely their own and do not reflect the views, opinions, or positions of the interviewer, the production team, or any affiliated entities.The interviewer assumes no responsibility or liability for any comments made by the interviewees during the course of the program. Viewers are encouraged to form their own opinions and interpretations based on the information presented.

May 6, 20261 hr 34 min

The SHE Word AFTERHOURS - Fiery Conversations About Current Issues - Sp Guest Melanie Kelly

From Madonna and Coachella to Trad Wives and the Manosphere and everything in between, in this edition of The SHE Word Afterhours Host Trudy sits down with regular guests Sue Caruana and Tez Saliba, and special guest Melanie Kelly to thrash out current issues in a fiery conversation. This less censored edition of the show dives into a variety of topics that affect women today. The discussion is lively, honest and at times very personal with the women at the table sharing honest, open and often differing opinions. This show includes a deep dive into women’s roles today, the impact of social media, women as they age, trust and trust issues and of course the Agony Aunt questions we’ve come to love as part of this show. Jump into this show for entertainment , empowerment and a lively chat about the issues that affect us everyday. Don’t forget to let us know what you think about this issues too. Huge thanks to Brown's, Perrier, Always. Tampax, Satariano, Holland and Barrett, Camilleri Paris Mode, Verdala Wellness Hotel and Spa, Mapfre, BOV and Lindex for supporting these conversations.

April 29, 20261 hr 32 min

The SHE Word - Healing From Sexual Harassment and Assault

In the first quarter of 2026 three headlines hit the news ad sparked outrage; CNN published an investigation into a website who’s content included an ‘academy’ that not only instructed men on how to dr*g and r*pe their wives and partners, but also published the footage of these crimes - the website received over 62 million views alone. The UK government introduced new legislation to site public sexual harassment is a standalone criminal offense following research that indicates that 86% of young women (aged 18–24) in the UK have experienced sexual harassment in public spaces.And lastly fifty-two cases of r*pe of women were reported to the police in Malta last year, statistically a case a day. But most data indicates that around 80-90% of incidents go unreported, with factors such as shame, fear of not being believed, and fear of retaliation preventing victims from reporting.All three headlines brought long overdue attention to the crisis of SA and SH, with both men and women speaking out and calling for change but what happens when the algorithm moves on, what happens to the outcry, and most importantly what happens to the women left to face the often long lasting effects of harassment or assault. In this hard hitting, openly honest and occasionally uncomfortable episode Trudy sits down with Beatboxer, songwriter and mindset coach Dana McKeon, empowerment coach Mei Berrit and Counselling Psychology Practitioner from Richmond Marie Noelle Lanzon to share personal experiences, delve into the impact of their experiences - physically emotionally, mentally and relationally - and talk through the topic with a focus on healing. The conversation also looks at why perpetrators do what they do, the sliding scale of inappropriate and harmful behaviour, the culture of shame, and what we can do to change the attitude towards harmful behaviour and make a safer environment. With 1 in 3 women experiencing SA and 85% of young women affected by SH, even if you haven’t personally been affected by the topic, someone close to you - someone you love has. Watch and be informed, be seen, be educated, be influenced. Be Empowered. This show may not be suitable for children. If you are affected by this topic please reach out for help: If you are in immediate danger please call the Police: 112 The Domestic Violence Unit Support Line: 179 Anonymous Online Support Line Kellimni: Kellimni.com Victim Support: +356 2122 8333, info@victimsupport.org.mt SOAR: +356 2180 9011 / +356 2180 8981 / +356 2767 2367THANK YOU to Browns, Perrier, Always, Tampax, Satariano, Holland and Barrett, Camilleri Paris Mode, Verdala, Mapfre, BOV, and Lindex for supporting these conversations.

May 14, 20261 hr 22 min

The SHE Warriors - Miriana Conte - The Woman Behind Malta's Most Controversal and Celebrated Icon

Miriana Conte is the fantastically flamboyant and often outrageous personality behind one of Malta’s most controversial Eurovision entries, which had gone viral all over the world even before she had won the national competition. ‘Serving Kant’ caused outcry in the UK particularly due to the play on words with Britain’s rudest swear word. English Eurovision host and BBC Radio presenter Scott Mills said on his radio show just before the song contest "We can't talk about Malta's one at all. We definitely can't play a clip of it... ever, on the BBC.” The song also caused a significant stir here at home, with Miriana receiving overwhelming hate comments attacking her on her style, her song, her figure and her family.But behind the public persona is a shy, wise, humble and incredibly likeable young women who is an outstanding vocalist and song writer. In this edition of SHE WARRIORS, Trudy sits down with Miriana for a deep dive into her image, ambitions, challenges, her battles, and the source of her self belief. The two women take the conversation through the journey of Serving Kant and how this epic anthem was born; the inspiration, the response, the encouragement and the outrage. The conversation takes a deep dive into the struggles she has faced with eating disorders, the pain and desperation she experienced as well as sharing the details of her long recovery to health. She touches on her battle with PCOS, also touches on the damaging relationship that could have ended her dream - and the people around her that cheered her to make it happen against all odds. Miriana also delves into the hate comments that attacked her personally, as well as her family, from the Maltese population, the haters and the trollers. She shares her thoughts behind her recent response to one body shaming comment from a well known fitness influencer ‘Keep my name out of your mouth because you don’t know what I have been through’; a powerful message that resonated with women across the country. This edition of SHE WARRIORS is a edgy, funny, honest, moving and inspiring look into the life of one of Malta’s most recognisable icons. HUGE thanks to those that support these conversations and make this all possible: Brown's, Hyatt Regency, Intimissimi, Tampax, Always, Aperol Spritz and Growth Gurus

March 18, 20261 hr 38 min

The SHE Word Special with the MFSA - Avoiding Scams, Understanding Investments and Achieving Good Financial Health

Financial independence and security is a topic that I would suggest we ALL find hard to discuss. Talking about money is often an uncomfortable conversation, let alone discussing scams, investments and our financial security. However, finances and financial health is a topic that affects every single one of us in one way or another. For women particularly, financial security is crucial; over 70% of women are in employment but over 64% of women are also mothers, presenting the ‘career break challenge’ and the financial challenges that are associated with balancing both aspects of life. In this special edition of The SHE Word, Trudy sits down with three women from the MFSA to discuss two main areas of financial health that are particularly topical right now. Firstly Adelina Andreea Nechita from the MFSA Enforcement team tackles the topic of scams with Trudy. Scammers and scamming has become big business and is now a multi-billion Euro global illegal industry. Scamming is a high-tech, high turnover enterprise with one goal; to convince us to part with our money - using a variety of well practiced and effective tactics. None of us are immune to scammers, and with the rise of AI, these criminal networks have become even more convincing. Adelina and the guests share guidelines and tips to be able to spot a scammer in action, how to avoid loosing out and what to do if we are trapped by a scammer. Following up from Adelina, Lorraine Vella from the MFSA addresses financial security before guiding the conversation through the topic of investments and financial futures. Breaking down the terms Capital Markets, Bonds, Stocks and Shares, Lorraine walks through the different investment options, the risks and rewards, and they ‘what you need to know’ before launching into an investment plan. Lorraine also guides SHE-Worders through the do’s and absolute donts of investing and cutting through the jargon and help viewers gain the confidence to navigate today’s financial markets.Bring the conversation full circle, Sarah Pulis from the MFSA leads the topic of general good financial health with tangible tips and helpful hacks that we can all take away and start applying immediately to help us on a journey to better financial freedom and independence. Wherever you are on your financial journey, however ‘healthy’, whatever your age - this show is the episode you didn’t know you needed. Full of practical application and insight, this conversation has something for everyone. The opinions and views expressed are solely those of the individuals and do not necessarily reflect the official policy, position, or views of the MFSA.