
Ep 221| How to Turn Your Ask Into a Connection
Send us Fan Mail Heart does that panicked double-thump. Stomach drops. Ohh - there goes gravity! Sound familiar? That's what happens right before most fundraisers call a donor to ask for money… and Britt Stockert , Fundraiser Coach at Donorbox , says that feeling is telling you the opposite of what you think. In this quick, coffee-break episode, Britt shares the four words she scribbled on a sticky note for a burned-out nonprofit leader who needed something simpler than a script. It changed how that leader's whole team makes the ask. This is perfect for fundraisers who want a low-pressure way to build donor trust, especially heading into year-end. Discover: Why the discomfort of asking for a gift is a sign of a healthy donor relationship, not a warning sign A four-word framework simple enough to fit on a sticky note How to open a donor call without mentioning money at all What to say when a donor pushes back on overhead or transparency Why silence after an ask is doing more work than most fundraisers realize How to measure success in donor outreach beyond whether a gift landed that day If you’re ready to refine your ‘Ask’ approach and get on track for Giving Season, schedule time with Britt here . That nervous feeling before asking for a gift isn't proof something's wrong. It's proof the moment matters. Britt's fix isn't more confidence - it's structure: four words on a sticky note that turn a high-pressure ask into a real conversation between two people who both care about the same thing. Chapters: 00:00 - Why Asking for Support Feels Uncomfortable 02:10 - The Trust Gap & the Power of Personal Connection 03:40 - A 4-Beat Framework for Donor Conversations 06:55 - Timing the Ask & Permission-Based Giving 08:15 - Redefining Success Through Small Wins 09:15 - Overcoming Rejection & Closing Thoughts Donorbox is a trusted fundraising platform used by 100,000-plus organizations worldwide, helping them raise over $4 billion collectively. Learn more at donorbox.org. Enjoying the show? Subscribe for more practical fundraising strategies, leadership insights, and tools to help your nonprofit grow sustainably. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not intended as legal or financial advice. Please consult a professional advisor for guidance specific to your organization. Support the show















