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The Kaya Ramjee Show

The Kaya Ramjee Show

Hosted by Kaya Ramjee

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142

Latest episode

Aug 2026

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About the show

Welcome to The Kaya Ramjee Show. I’m Kaya — Executive Mental Fitness Coach to ambitious individuals who want to reach the top 1% of their industry… and stay there. I’m also a woman who’s walked through grief, growth, reinvention, and the beautiful, messy business of building a life I truly love. This show is where I share what I’ve learned — from coaching exceptional clients, studying the mind and body for over a decade, and living through the kind of heartbreak that cracks you open. Here, we don’t chase perfection. We choose presence. We explore the patterns that hold us back — and the practices that set us free. If you’re ready to do work that actually matters… you’re in the right place, my friend.

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August 13, 202617 min

When Life Falls Apart Ep 141

Growth isn't about avoiding pain. It's about learning how to look at it differently.In this episode, I share the perspective that has shaped every part of my life since losing my son, Luca, and the questions I continue to return to whenever life feels difficult.Rather than trying to think positively or pretend painful emotions don't exist, I explore what it means to consciously choose a perspective that creates peace, resilience and agency.I share why your first thought isn't the problem, why your second thought matters far more, and how asking better questions can fundamentally change the way you experience adversity.These questions helped me navigate the darkest period of my life and discover that meaning is something we actively create rather than something we simply find.If you've ever:Felt completely overwhelmed by something life has thrown at youWondered whether you'll ever feel like yourself againStruggled to find meaning after loss, disappointment or adversityIn this episode, we cover:The questions I ask myself whenever I face adversityHow to stop reinforcing disempowering thoughts and choose a different lensThe unexpected gifts that emerged from losing my sonThe circumstances of our lives will never be within our control, but the perspective we practise always is. The questions you repeatedly ask yourself determine the meaning you create...and ultimately the life you experience.You can find out more about working with me at www.kayaramjee.com

August 6, 202620 min

BICKERING: How to Stop Having the Same Argument Ep 140

What is really happening when you keep having the same conversations and arguments over and over again?My husband and I spent an entire day bickering last weekend. I could finally choose to change the conversation by recognising the patterns of victimisation, judgment and control that I was bringing to the situation.In this episode I take you inside the conflict, including the moment (or should I say moments - there were a few!) I caught myself going into what I call “schooling mode”: patronising, explaining, judging and trying to make my husband understand exactly how he was wrong.It felt like I was taking control of the situation but in reality, I was trying to control him. His emotions, his behaviour, his life. And in doing so, I was escalating the conflict and making it impossible for him to hear me.When I stopped focusing on HIS behaviour and put my attention back on caring for myself and using my energy to build up my own resources, things began to change. And when I was faced with another moment where I could have gone straight back into judgment and victimisation, I was able to choose a different thought...and a different outcome.Changing the way you respond does not mean staying silent and tolerating bad behaviour or giving somebody a free pass.It means being able to discern what's going on and communicate honestly and hold somebody to a higher standard without approaching them from superiority, judgment or the need to be right.If you’ve ever:Had the same argument with somebody repeatedlyFelt responsible for managing another person’s emotionsFound yourself explaining somebody’s behaviour back to themBecome patronising or condescending when you feel hurtWanted to address bad behaviour without escalating the conflictChanging conflict does not begin with finding a better way to explain why the other person is wrong.It begins with recognising the pattern you are bringing into the conversation, cleaning up your side of the street and choosing how you want to respond.You can find out more about working with me at www.kayaramjee.com

July 30, 202622 min

The Thinking That's Ruining Your Life: Perfectionism, Overthinking and Self-Doubt Ep: 139

Perfectionism, overthinking, control, self-doubt and stress are not personality traits. They are automatic thinking patterns...and patterns can be changed.In this episode, I’m introducing CHOOSE, my signature six-week mental fitness training programme, and explaining how you can stop allowing unconscious thinking to run your decisions, relationships, performance and life.What this episode is aboutMost people believe they are the sum of everything that has happened to them. Where they were born. What happened at school. The relationship that ended. The promotion they received. The job they lost. The parent who died.But your life is not determined by what happens to you.It is determined by the choices you make in response to what happens.Many of those choices feel automatic, because they are. You have quite literally practised them for years.In this episode, I explain why patterns such as perfectionism, control, overthinking, hyper-achievement, people-pleasing and hypervigilance are not who you are. They are forms of automatic thinking that I call noise.I share how unchecked noise can sabotage your performance, damage your relationships, destroy your peace and make even significant achievements feel as though they are never enough.I also introduce the three skills that make up mental fitness:Turning down noise.Turning up signal.Choosing to switch from one to the other in real time.These three skills form the foundation of CHOOSE, my signature six-week mental fitness training programme.Why this mattersYou can be highly capable, ambitious and successful while still having an untrained mind working against you.You can achieve your goals and immediately move the goalposts.You can know what would improve your wellbeing: sleeping more, drinking less, reducing sugar, stopping scrolling...and still not do it.You can replay conversations, overanalyse simple decisions, carry problems that are not yours and keep waiting for the next achievement before allowing yourself to breathe.These experiences are not character flaws. They are patterns. Once you can recognise them, you can begin to choose differently.Your first thought is automatic. But your second thought is a choice.When you train your ability to make that choice under pressure, choosing stops being something you hope you will do.It becomes a habit.For more details DM me CHOOSE.@kaya.ramjee on IGKaya Ramjee on LinkedInYou can find out more about working with me at www.kayaramjee.com

July 24, 202635 min

PERCEPTION: Summer Reading Series For Leaders Pt 2 | Ep 138

In this episode, we continue the Leaders Are Readers summer reading series with three books on an underrated leadership skill...perception.Leadership isn't just about reading a balance sheet; it's about reading people. Each of these books expanded my perception and deepened my understanding of other people.Book 1: Sally Rooney's Conversations with Friends is a masterclass in communication, conflict avoidance and emotional intelligence.Book 2: Lena Dunham's Fame Sick offers a brutally honest exploration of ambition, identity and visibility.Book 3: Gabrielle Zevin's Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow is a highly insightful novel about the complexity of creative partnerships, collaboration and relationships.None of these are leadership books, but each offers a unique insight into the human mind and reveals the challenges of miscommunication, misunderstanding and human behaviour.If you want to:better understand what drives people's behaviourreduce miscommunication and conflict avoidancedevelop greater emotional intelligence as a leaderdiscover great books to read this summerIn this episode, we cover:why reading fiction can strengthen your judgementwhy leaders should read beyond traditional business and leadership bookswhy reading books written by women matters if you want to better understand human behaviourLeadership is about understanding people. The more deeply we understand ourselves and those around us, the better equipped we are to lead with both eyes open.Books mentioned:Conversations with Friends — Sally RooneyFame Sick — Lena DunhamTomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow — Gabrielle ZevinTo enquire about working together, book an exploratory conversation:https://calendly.com/kayaramjee/30_mins_exploratory_conversationFollow me on LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaya-ramjee-thewarriormindacademy/Find out more at www.kayaramjee.com.

July 16, 202629 min

You Have A Choice | Ep 137

For the last 2 weeks I've shared some of the biggest insights I brought home from my 10-day advanced meditation retreat with Dr Joe Dispenza.This week, I want to talk about something simpler.Choice.Recently, I've found myself noticing small moments where I could almost see the fork in the road in front of me. Moments where time slowed down and I could choose...How I responded.How I spoke.What I focused on.And ultimately who I wanted to be.In this episode, I share a few stories about upgrading my environment, recognising when I acted out of alignment and the three emotions I'm intentionally cultivating through meditation. I also share a powerful story of how one leader's honesty created a ripple effect throughout an entire team.If you've forgotten that you have agency, this episode is here to remind you. We always have a choice. To enquire about working together, book an exploratory conversation:https://calendly.com/kayaramjee/30_mins_exploratory_conversationFollow me on LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaya-ramjee-thewarriormindacademy/Find out more at www.kayaramjee.com.

July 9, 202627 min

I Was Tripping | Ep 136

Last week I shared one of the mystical experiences I had during a 10-day advanced meditation retreat with Dr Joe Dispenza.This week, I'm sharing another one.It started with a conversation in a hotel check-in queue and unfolded into a huge realisation about my own pattern of VICTIM. Once I saw it, I couldn't unsee it.In this episode, I talk about synchronicities, the people who unknowingly become our teachers, what happened during one particularly difficult meditation, and the healing experience that unfolded on the other side.If you've ever wondered how people actually change during retreats like this, I hope this gives you a glimpse into what that experience can feel like.To enquire about working together, book an exploratory conversation:https://calendly.com/kayaramjee/30_mins_exploratory_conversationFollow me on LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaya-ramjee-thewarriormindacademy/Find out more at www.kayaramjee.com.

July 2, 202617 min

What Actually Is A Mystical Experience? 10 Days with Dr Joe Dispenza | Ep 135

I’m fresh off the plane from Mexico after a 10-day Advanced Meditation Training with Dr Joe Dispenza, and in this episode I’m sharing one of the mystical experiences I had while I was there.This is a deeply personal episode about meditation, energy, grief, connection, and what it can feel like when an experience shifts something at a cellular level.In this episode, I share what happened when my son Luca appeared to me during meditation, how he showed me my addiction to sadness, and what it revealed about the way I was still relating to separation.I also talk about the energy of retreat environments, what it means to feel someone’s energy, why mystical experiences are different for everyone, and how practice builds confidence in meditation, visualisation and manifestation.So many people are curious about meditation, Dr Joe retreats, and mystical experiences, and this epsiode is one honest window into that.If you’ve ever:Wondered what actually happens at a Dr Joe Dispenza retreatFelt curious about mystical experiences but don't know what they really meanQuestioned whether you’re “doing meditation properly”In this episode, we cover:What a mystical experience can feel likeWhy the energy of a retreat environment can be so powerfulHow meditation, visualisation and manifestation become more familiar through practiceThe experience I had with my son Luca during meditationWhat he showed me about sadness, separation and loveWhat my grandad showed me about receivingThis episode is not about forcing a spiritual experience or trying to do meditation perfectly. It’s about paying attention to what gets revealed when we create enough space to see our own patterns differently.You can find out more about working with me at www.kayaramjee.com

June 19, 202629 min

POWER: Summer Reading Series for Leaders Part 1 | Ep: 134

In this episode, I’m opening a three-part series called Leaders Are Readers with a summer reading list on one of the most important topics for any leader to understand: POWER.This episode is about three books that have genuinely stayed with me because they changed how I think about leadership, influence and power.I share why Barbarians at the Gate is one of the best business books of our time, what The Powers That Be reveals about media, politics and public opinion, and why Dune is far more than a science fiction epic.These books are not obvious personal development books, but they are deeply relevant for leaders. They show us how power actually moves through business, institutions, politics, culture, story, conflict and human psychology.If you’ve ever:• wanted to become a more original thinker• felt bored by generic leadership books• wanted to understand how power really works• been fascinated by ambition, greed, media or mythology• wanted a summer reading list with depth and intelligenceIn this episode, we cover:• why leaders are readers, and how reading gives you a genuine edge• the brutal corporate power battle behind Barbarians at the Gate• how The Powers That Be exposes the relationship between media and political power• how Dune explores power through politics, religion, ecology and internal conflict• why unconventional books can teach leaders more than traditional business booksThe books we remember are often the books that change the way we see the world. These three stayed with me because they each reveal something different about power, and once you see it, you can’t unsee it.Books mentioned:Barbarians at the Gate — Bryan Burrough & John HelyarThe Powers That Be — David HalberstamDune — Frank HerbertYou can find out more about working with me at www.kayaramjee.com

June 12, 202623 min

Spaciousness: The Exact Process I'm Using To Prepare For Two Weeks Off Ep: 133

I’m about to take two full weeks completely off technology and work while I attend a 10-day advanced meditation training with Dr Joe Dispenza in Mexico.No WhatsApp.No emails.No LinkedIn.No Instagram.No being reachable.Full stop.In this episode, I’m walking you through the exact planning process I used in the two weeks before leaving.Not because everyone needs to disappear to Mexico for a meditation retreat, but because the principles behind this process have changed the way I move through pressure.This episode is about planning from spaciousness instead of panic.I share how I brain dumped everything I needed to prepare, separated creative tasks from production tasks, mapped my actual capacity day by day, and created a simple, flexible plan that allowed me to execute without feeling rushed, fried, or overwhelmed.I also talk about why spaciousness is not just about having space in your calendar.It’s about feeling spacious.Space to think.Space to connect.Space to create.Space to actually live your life while still getting important things done.If you’ve ever:• Left everything until the last minute and called it “pressure”• Felt overwhelmed because you didn’t have clarity on what actually mattered• Wanted time off but spent the lead-up exhausted, overstimulated, and resentful• Struggled to balance execution with actually living your lifeIn this episode, we cover:• The difference between planning from panic and planning from spaciousness• Why clarity immediately reduces emotional overwhelm• How to break down large commitments into manageable priorities• How planning supports presence, connection, and spaciousnessThis is not about doing more.It is about creating clarity and clearing enough space to actually live your life.You can find out more about working with me at www.kayaramjee.com

June 5, 202621 min

What's Wrong With Me? Ep: 132

Trauma is not just something that happens in your mind.It changes your body. Your nervous system. Your sense of safety. Your emotional patterns. Your identity.In this episode, I’m talking about how the body remembers trauma and grief, and why what you’re experiencing emotionally is not a sign that you are weak, broken, or failing.I share my own experience of PTSD after the death of my son Luca, including the flashbacks, the physiological shock, and what helped me begin to interrupt that trauma response and create a different reality for myself.I also talk about older trauma, the kind that can sit in the subconscious for decades and quietly shape the way you feel in present-day moments, even when logically you know you are safe.This episode explores the difference between grief and trauma, why traumatic grief exists, and how the nervous system can become conditioned around survival.I also share why healing is not about denying what happened, forcing positive thoughts, or “moving on.” It is about emotional reprocessing, nervous system safety, compassion, and understanding that your body adapted to protect you.If you’ve ever:• Felt unsafe in your body even when logically you knew you were safe• Experienced grief that felt traumatic, shocking, or physiologically overwhelming• Wondered why certain emotions or reactions seem to take over your body• Thought there was something wrong with you because you couldn’t just “move on”In this episode, we cover:• How trauma creates physiological changes in the body and nervous system• The distinction between grief and trauma• What PTSD felt like for me after losing my son Luca• Why traumatic images and flashbacks can keep shocking the nervous system• How emotional reprocessing can begin to change the body’s response• Why healing starts with compassion rather than self-judgmentHealing begins when we stop asking, “What’s wrong with me?” and start asking, “What happened to me, and how did it affect me?”You can find out more about working with me at www.kayaramjee.com

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