
You’re Fighting About the Wrong Thing | Ep 102
Love and money make a complicated pairing. Add a border and a country that isn’t the one you grew up in and the conversation gets harder still.Victoria Cantemir and Carlos Garcia of Amsterdam Financial Coaching, are a married couple who help international partners get on the same page about money, as a team. Victoria left Moldova for Amsterdam sixteen years ago, did everything by the book, and still never felt like she’d arrived. What she discovered became their work: money is never really about money. It’s about values, and whether two people are building toward the same life.A conversation about the quiet arguments (yes, the price of cheese), the goals that drift apart when no one’s watching, and why a plan — even an imperfect one — is what makes a life abroad feel like yours. In this episode: Why “it’s never about money” — and what every argument is really about The three layers couples move through, from daily friction to the bigger questions Avoider and chaser: the dynamic nearly every couple quietly plays out How goals fall out of alignment the further ahead you look Building a shared plan when you don’t know how long you’ll stay The couples therapy behind the coaching — practicing on themselves first Find out more about Victoria and Carlos and their coaching at https://www.houseofperegrine.com/podcast/ep-102 House of Peregrine is the network for International life, made by and for people living abroad. Get started with a FREE account today to unlock exclusive content, connections, and opportunities: houseofperegrine.com/auth/signup Join a global circle of thinkers, creators, and doers. We host events, build products, publish guides, run a podcast, offer rewards and curated products — all within a vibrant ecosystem of experts and businesses to support your life abroad. Subscribe: houseofperegrine.com/subscribe Join our WhatsApp Group: HOP Community Explore Memberships: houseofperegrine.com/memberships Install the App: houseofperegrine.com/install Follow us for daily inspiration and updates: Instagram: @houseofperegrine podcast YouTube: @HouseofPeregrineofficial LinkedIn: @company/house-of-peregrine TikTok: @houseofperegrine podcast
