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Ranked Top 2% Globally Do you wish that you could lead your team in a way that honours and glorifies God? Are you struggling to overcome self-doubt as a leader and have a desire to be more confident in your role? Do you want the courage to deal with difficult people but don’t want to upset anyone? Well, you’re in the right place! On this podcast, I’ll teach you how to lead like Jesus, even if you’re not allowed to speak of your faith in your workplace. You’ll learn to become bold and confident as a leader, to speak up and say what God wants you to say and to finally know that you are worthy to be in your current role. Because God chose you, not because you are already a perfect leader, but because HE wants to mold you and use you to be an instrument in the kingdom of God. Hey, I’m Rika, and for the past 10 years, I’ve been in middle-management leadership roles, where I have led various teams, from big to small, and experienced my fair share of working with difficult people, having tough conversations, hiring and firing people and managing team dynamics. I thought that I could rely on worldly knowledge of leadership to get me through. I attended various leadership courses and listened to many leadership podcasts, but I was still struggling as a leader. I was feeling frustrated and to be honest, I was not enjoying my leadership role and felt like quitting more often than I probably should have! I finally realised that if I wanted to be the leader that I truly desired to be (which was a leader who wasn’t shy to speak up, a leader who honoured God with her actions and a leader who could build a cohesive team without the drama), I needed to partner with God and find a Christian leadership mentor to guide me and keep me accountable. I committed my leadership journey to God and partnered with HIM. I started working with a mentor and stepped out in faith as I did hard things every single day. And I can’t wait to share what I’ve learned with you! If you’re ready to lead your team in a way that honours God, I’m excited to be your mentor! So, grab your notebook and pen (and don’t forget that Chai Latte), and let’s unlock your God-given leadership potential! Next steps: Head to https://www.womenoffaithinleadership.com where you can: 1. Sign up for our weekly newsletter and 2. Find free resources Head to https://www.womenoffaithinleadership.com/quiz where you can take a free quiz to find out what's holding you back from leading with confidence. Need to contact me? Email me at support@rikawhelan.com

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October 13, 202629 min

185 | How to Stay Spiritually Grounded in a Demanding Season

Demanding seasons of leadership can make it surprisingly easy to drift from the very practices that keep us grounded. When work is busy, people need you, difficult decisions are piling up and your mind is constantly solving the next problem, time with God can quietly become something you'll get to “later.” In this episode, we're talking about how to stay spiritually grounded when leadership feels demanding, without turning your relationship with God into another task on your already overflowing to-do list. We'll explore what it looks like to invite God into the ordinary moments of your leadership, recognise what pressure is bringing out in you, release the outcomes you were never meant to control, and lead from dependence on God rather than trying to carry everything yourself. In This Episode we talk about: Why demanding seasons can quietly shift us towards self-reliance How your relationship with God can become another thing you feel guilty about “not doing enough” Why staying spiritually grounded doesn't require the perfect morning routine Simple ways to invite God into your leadership throughout the day How pressure can reveal what's happening beneath the surface Why prayer can be honest, practical and incredibly simple The importance of preparing yourself, not just your words, before a difficult conversation How carrying responsibility for outcomes creates unnecessary emotional and spiritual weight Why unresolved difficult conversations can take up so much mental space How to create small points of connection with God during an already demanding day Why giving your leadership responsibilities back to God at the end of the day matters A Truth to Take Into Your Week You don't stay spiritually grounded because your circumstances are calm. You stay spiritually grounded because you know where your foundation is when they aren't. Rather than trying to add another elaborate spiritual routine to your schedule, look for ordinary moments where you can intentionally turn your attention towards God. Before you open your laptop. Before the meeting. Before you respond to the email. Before the difficult conversation. And when you finish your work for the day. God doesn't need to become another thing on your list. Let Him be the One you walk through the list with. Freebie - Before the Conversation: A biblical guide to prepare for those difficult workplace conversations. CLICK HERE to access the freebie or navigate to: https://womenoffaithinleadership.com/before When a Difficult Conversation Is Adding to the Weight Sometimes what's making a demanding season feel even heavier is the conversation you've been carrying around in your head. You're replaying what happened, thinking about what you should say, anticipating how the other person might respond and wondering whether now is the right time to address it. The Confident Conversation Blueprint helps you move that conversation out of your head and prepare for it intentionally. Inside, you'll work through the preparation process so you can identify the real issue, separate the facts from your emotions, clarify what needs to change and prepare yourself to approach the conversation with biblical wisdom and calm confidence. You'll also have practical frameworks and ready-to-use scripts to help you find the words when you're unsure what to say. Because you don't just need to prepare the conversation. You need to prepare yourself to lead it well. Get the Confident Conversation Blueprint Stay Connected Subscribe to the Weekly Newsletter Receive practical, faith-based leadership strategies and encouragement to help you navigate the real challenges of leading people. Subscribe to the Weekly Newsletter Have a Listener Question? Have a leadership situation you're navigating or a question you'd love me to unpack on the podcast? Submit a Listener Question Connect with me on Instagram Follow me for practical Christian leadership strategies, biblical encouragement and honest conversations about the realities of leading people. Follow Rika on Instagram @rikawhelan With clarity and grace, Rika

October 5, 202621 min

184 | How Leaders Accidentally Reward the Wrong Behaviours

As leaders, we can say that we value accountability, initiative, honesty and responsibility, but what really shapes our team is what happens when people demonstrate those behaviours... or when they don’t. Sometimes, without even realising it, our leadership responses can reinforce the very behaviours that frustrate us. We step in when someone misses a deadline. We give more work to the person who is already reliable. We soften an expectation when someone becomes upset. Or we spend so much time managing difficult behaviour that the people quietly doing a great job barely get noticed. In this episode, we’re looking at the behaviours leaders can accidentally reward, how those patterns influence team culture, and what we can do differently to encourage greater ownership, accountability and growth. In This Episode we talk about: How leaders can unintentionally reinforce behaviours they don’t want repeated When supporting someone crosses over into rescuing them Why your most reliable team members shouldn’t be rewarded with everyone else’s work How leadership attention can unintentionally reinforce negative behaviour Why what you tolerate teaches your team what is acceptable What happens when we backtrack because someone reacts badly to feedback How to recognise and reinforce the behaviours you actually want to see more of Why consistent expectations create clarity How to reset an expectation when you realise you’ve contributed to an unhealthy pattern Why changing a pattern often requires a clear and courageous conversation A Leadership Question to Take Into Your Week Instead of only looking at the behaviours that frustrate you, pay attention to what happens after those behaviours. Ask yourself: “Am I reinforcing what I actually want to see more of?” Look at who gets rescued, who gets extra work, who receives most of your attention and what gets quietly tolerated. Sometimes changing a team pattern begins with recognising what our own leadership has been unintentionally teaching people. When a Pattern Needs a Conversation Perhaps this episode has brought a particular person or recurring behaviour to mind. You know something needs to change, but you're unsure how to address the pattern without sounding harsh, creating defensiveness or allowing your own frustration to take over. The Confident Conversation Blueprint can help you prepare for that conversation. Inside, you'll work through how to separate the facts from your frustration, identify the real issue, clarify what needs to change and prepare what you want to communicate. You'll also have ready-to-use scripts and practical language to help you approach difficult leadership conversations with clarity, calm confidence and biblical wisdom. Because changing a pattern often starts with changing the conversation around it. Get the Confident Conversation Blueprint Stay Connected Subscribe to the Weekly Newsletter Receive practical, faith-based leadership strategies and encouragement to help you navigate the real challenges of leading people. Subscribe to the Weekly Newsletter Have a Listener Question? Have a leadership situation or question you'd love me to unpack on the podcast? Send it through and it could become a future episode. Submit a Listener Question Connect with me on Instagram Follow me for more practical Christian leadership strategies, biblical encouragement and conversations about leading people well. Follow Rika on Instagram @rikawhelan

September 28, 202643 min

183 | [Guest] When God Uses Your Story to Shape Your Leadership with Zahara McCoy

What if some of the most painful parts of your story became the very places God used to shape the way you lead? Zahara McCoy was born in Uganda and lost her mother during the AIDS epidemic when she was just ten years old. Without a parent to advocate for her, her future became incredibly uncertain. But through sponsorship, Zahara was connected with Marianne McCoy in California, a relationship that eventually led to adoption, education and an entirely different future. Years later, Zahara returned to Uganda and encountered children facing circumstances painfully similar to those she had once experienced herself. It became a pivotal moment in her story: she was no longer the child needing someone to step in for her; God was now giving her the opportunity to step in for someone else. Today, Zahara leads Children of Grace, the organisation her adoptive mother began, supporting vulnerable children in Uganda through education, mentorship and holistic care. In this conversation, we talk about Zahara's journey from Uganda to America, faith, identity, advocacy and how our lived experiences can profoundly shape the leaders we become. A Leadership Truth to Take Into Your Week One of the things that stayed with me after this conversation was Zahara's statement: “Identity precedes performance.” Leadership isn't only shaped in boardrooms, qualifications or positions of authority. Sometimes God uses the very experiences we would never have chosen to develop our compassion, perspective, courage and ability to advocate for others. So perhaps the question to take into this week is: What has God allowed me to walk through that could now help me lead and serve someone else well? Connect with Zahara You can connect with Zahara and follow her work on social media: Instagram: @zaharamccoy X: @zahara_mccoy Children of Grace https://www.childrenofgrace.com/ Sponsor a child https://childrenofgrace.donorshops.com/sponsorship

September 22, 202620 min

182 | Why “We’ve Always Done It That Way” Hurts Growth

“We’ve always done it that way.” It sounds harmless, but when that phrase becomes part of a team’s culture, it can quietly stop people from questioning, improving and growing. In this episode, we’re talking about how to recognise when a long-standing process, expectation or way of working may no longer be serving your team — without falling into the opposite trap of changing things simply for the sake of change. We’ll explore how to honour what has worked in the past while still creating a culture where people feel safe to ask, “Is there a better way?” In This Episode we talk about: Why familiarity can sometimes keep teams stuck The importance of understanding why something exists before changing it How teams can continue solving problems that no longer exist Why your team needs to feel safe questioning the way things are done How defensiveness from leaders can unintentionally shut down ideas and innovation What we can learn from the way Jesus challenged established thinking Why change isn’t always growth — and why good leaders need to know the difference How to listen to the people closest to the work, especially when they see something you don’t Why leading change often requires difficult conversations How to communicate change without dismissing the people or history that came before you A Leadership Question to Take Into Your Week Take a look at something your team has been doing for a long time and ask: “Does the reason we started doing this still exist?” You may discover there’s a very good reason to keep doing it. Or you may discover that it’s simply there because nobody has stopped to question it. The goal isn’t change for the sake of change. The goal is growth. When Growth Requires a Difficult Conversation Sometimes you can see that something needs to change, but the part you're struggling with is how to communicate it without creating defensiveness or unnecessary tension. That’s exactly the kind of leadership moment the Confident Conversation Blueprint was created for. The Blueprint helps you prepare before you walk into the conversation — clarifying the real issue, deciding what needs to be communicated, thinking through the outcome you’re working towards and preparing for how the other person may respond. You’ll also have practical frameworks and ready-to-use scripts to help you communicate with greater clarity, calm confidence and biblical wisdom. Because sometimes the difference between avoiding change and leading change is simply being willing — and prepared — to have the conversation that comes with it. Get the Confident Conversation Blueprint Stay Connected Subscribe to the Weekly Newsletter Receive practical, faith-based leadership strategies and encouragement to help you navigate the real challenges of leading people. Subscribe to the Weekly Newsletter Have a Listener Question? Have a leadership situation you’d love me to unpack on the podcast? Send me your question. Submit a Listener Question Connect with me on Instagram Follow me for more practical Christian leadership strategies, biblical encouragement and conversations about leading people well. Follow Rika on Instagram @rikawhelan

September 14, 202623 min

181 | What to Do When Everything Feels Urgent

When everything feels urgent, it can be difficult to know what actually deserves your attention. Someone needs an answer. An unexpected problem lands on your desk. A team member is stressed. Your inbox is filling up. And before you know it, the priorities you started the day with have disappeared underneath everyone else’s needs. In this episode, we’re talking about how to lead when everything feels urgent, without becoming reactive, absorbing everyone else’s stress, or taking responsibility for problems that were never yours to carry. We’ll also look at what we can learn from the way Jesus responded to pressure and why calm leadership isn’t passive leadership. It’s learning to discern what genuinely requires your attention and having the wisdom to pause before you respond. In This Episode we talk about: Why feeling constantly rushed isn’t always a time-management problem The difference between something needing your attention and needing your attention right now Why you don’t have to absorb someone else’s urgency in order to care about them How discomfort can make situations feel more urgent than they really are What Jesus teaches us about remaining calm when everyone around us is demanding something Why confident leaders don’t need to have an immediate answer The importance of asking, “Does this actually require me?” How delayed difficult conversations can eventually become emotionally urgent ones Why preparation helps us respond with wisdom rather than reacting under pressure How to prayerfully discern what actually needs your leadership today A Leadership Question to Take Into Your Week Instead of beginning your day by asking: “How am I going to get everything done?” Try asking: “God, what actually needs my leadership today?” Not everything that is loud is important, and not everything that feels urgent requires an immediate response. Prepare for the Difficult Conversation You’ve Been Avoiding Sometimes the thing that genuinely does need your leadership is a conversation you’ve been postponing. If you know something needs to be addressed but you’re unsure what to say, how to approach it, or how the other person might respond, the Confident Conversation Blueprint will help you prepare before you walk into the room. Inside the Blueprint, you’ll find the step-by-step preparation process, practical frameworks and ready-to-use scripts to help you approach difficult conversations with greater clarity, calm confidence and biblical wisdom. Because confidence doesn’t come from personality. It comes from preparation. Get the Confident Conversation Blueprint Stay Connected Subscribe to the Weekly Newsletter Receive practical, faith-based leadership strategies and encouragement to help you lead with greater clarity and confidence. Subscribe to the newsletter Have a Listener Question? Have a leadership situation or question you’d love me to unpack on the podcast? Submit your listener question Connect with me on Instagram Follow me for practical Christian leadership strategies, biblical encouragement and conversations about the real challenges of leading people. Follow Rika on Instagram @rikawhelan

September 7, 20266 min

180 | The Silent Culture Killers Leaders Miss

Have you ever sensed that something is off in your team, even though there’s no obvious conflict? Everyone is still showing up. People are being polite. Nothing major has happened. And yet communication feels different. Frustrations are bubbling under the surface. People seem less engaged, and the culture somehow feels heavier. Unhealthy cultures rarely develop because of one dramatic event. More often, they slowly erode through small patterns that go unnoticed, unchallenged, or unaddressed. In this episode, we’re looking at four silent culture killers leaders often miss — and what you can do before those small issues become much bigger leadership problems. In This Episode We talk about: why culture is shaped by what gets repeated, tolerated, rewarded, and ignored how unclear expectations quietly create frustration and inconsistency what your team learns when problems repeatedly go unaddressed how rescuing and over-functioning can create dependency within your team why gossip is often a symptom of deeper communication and trust issues the connection between healthy workplace culture and courageous conversations why addressing small issues early can prevent much harder conversations later A Key Leadership Truth Culture isn't created by what you say matters. It's created by what you consistently reinforce. Healthy cultures don't happen accidentally. They are built intentionally — through clarity, accountability, shared responsibility, and conversations that leaders are willing to have. Is There a Conversation You Know You Need to Have? Maybe as you listened to this episode, a person or situation immediately came to mind. Perhaps there’s something you’ve noticed but haven’t addressed yet because you’re worried about making it worse or simply don’t know what to say. The Confident Conversation Blueprint was created to help you prepare for those moments. Inside, you’ll find the Difficult Conversations Script Pack and the complete Confident Conversation Sprint training, giving you practical scripts and frameworks to help you: clarify what actually needs to be addressed prepare what you want to say communicate with calm authority approach difficult conversations with both truth and grace Because confidence doesn't come from personality. It comes from preparation. 👉 Learn more at: womenoffaithinleadership.com/conversation Stay Connected Subscribe to the Weekly Newsletter Receive practical, faith-based leadership strategies to help you navigate real leadership situations with wisdom and confidence. 👉 https://womenoffaithinleadership.com/newsletter Have a Listener Question? Submit your leadership question here: 👉 https://womenoffaithinleadership.com/podcast Connect with Rika on Instagram 👉 https://www.instragram.com/rikawhelan

August 31, 202644 min

179 | [Guest] Choosing the Opposite: Leading Like Jesus in a Divided World with Tammy Melchien

In a world marked by division, pressure, and constant noise, how can Christian leaders lead differently? In this episode, I'm joined by teaching pastor and author Tammy Melchien to discuss her book Choosing the Opposite and the powerful lessons found in Jesus' Sermon on the Mount. Together, we explore what it means to lead with humility, live for God's approval rather than people's praise, and embrace the radically different way of Jesus. In This Episode We discuss: • how the challenges of recent years led Tammy back to the Sermon on the Mount • why Jesus' teachings are just as relevant today as they were 2,000 years ago • why leadership is relational, not positional • the beauty and strength of collaborative leadership • what it means to live for an "audience of One" • how seeking people's approval creates emotional exhaustion • the connection between leadership, identity, and burnout • why healthy leaders create margin and trust God with their calling • how the Sermon on the Mount offers practical wisdom for modern leadership A Key Leadership Truth: The greatest reward in leadership isn't the approval of people, it's hearing "Well done" from the Father. About Tammy Melchien Tammy Melchien is a teaching pastor and writer committed to helping people take next steps with Jesus. With more than 30 years of ministry experience, she currently leads the teaching team at Community Christian Church, a multi-site church in the Chicago area. She holds an M.A. from Lincoln Christian Seminary and is passionate about helping people rediscover the way of Jesus through Scripture. Her first book, Choosing the Opposite, released in 2025. Connect with Tammy 🌐 Website: tammymelchien.com 📘 Facebook: tammymelchien 📸 Instagram: @tammelch 📖 Book: Choosing the Opposite: How the Sermon on the Mount Helps Us Rethink Our Assumptions, Recalibrate Our Instincts, and Rediscover the Way of Jesus Buy now on Amazon

August 24, 202616 min

178 | Are You Helping Your Team Grow or Keeping Them Dependent?

Sometimes what feels like being a supportive leader can quietly turn into doing too much for the people you lead. You rewrite the email because it’s quicker. You solve the problem before they’ve had a chance to work through it. You take something back because you don’t want them to feel overwhelmed. It comes from a good place. But over time, constantly stepping in can leave you exhausted while unintentionally keeping your team dependent on you. In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between supporting your team and rescuing them and how to develop people who can think, take responsibility, and grow without you carrying everything for them. In this episode we talk about: how caring leaders can unintentionally become over-responsible the difference between supporting someone and rescuing them why constantly providing the answers can limit your team’s growth how asking better questions helps develop independent thinkers why allowing healthy responsibility is an important part of developing people how avoiding difficult conversations can create dependence why addressing expectations and performance is sometimes one of the most supportive things you can do as a leader A Key Leadership Truth: You are not called to carry everyone. You are called to lead them. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do as a leader is step back enough for someone else to step forward. Ready to Stop Avoiding the Conversations Your Team Needs You to Have? If you find yourself fixing problems, compensating for poor performance, or carrying responsibilities that belong to someone else because having the conversation feels harder, the Confident Conversation Blueprint can help. It gives you practical scripts, biblical wisdom, and a clear framework to help you prepare for difficult leadership conversations so you know what to say, how to say it, and how to approach the conversation with calm confidence. Because confidence doesn’t come from personality. It comes from preparation. 👉 Learn more at: womenoffaithinleadership.com/conversation Stay Connected Subscribe to the Weekly Newsletter Receive practical, faith-based leadership strategies for navigating the real situations you face as a Christian woman in leadership. 👉 https://womenoffaithinleadership.com/newsletter Have a Listener Question? Submit your leadership question here: 👉 https://womenoffaithinleadership.com/podcast Join the Community for Female Christian Leaders 👉 https://womenoffaithinleadership.com/community Connect with Rika on Instagram 👉 https://www.instagram.com/rikawhelan

August 20, 20268 min

177 | 5 Signs You’re Growing as a Leader

Growth in leadership doesn’t always feel like growth. Sometimes it feels like second-guessing yourself. Sometimes it feels like things are getting harder, not easier. And sometimes it feels like you’re the only one who hasn’t figured it out yet. But what if those moments are not signs of failure… but evidence that something is actually shifting in you? In this episode, we unpack the quiet, often overlooked signs that you are growing as a leader, even when it feels messy, uncomfortable, or uncertain. In This Episode we explore: Why growth often feels like discomfort rather than confidence The subtle signs your leadership is maturing beneath the surface How increased self-awareness is a sign of strength, not weakness Why caring deeply about your leadership is evidence of growth How your responses, not your circumstances, reveal transformation The difference between struggling and staying stuck This episode will help you reframe the tension you’re feeling and recognise the progress you may have been overlooking. If You’re Ready to Grow with Clarity and Confidence If this episode resonated with you, if you’ve been questioning your growth or doubting yourself as a leader, you don’t need to navigate that alone. The Imposter Syndrome Blueprint is a short, Scripture-rooted private podcast designed to help you: understand the root of your self-doubt quiet the internal noise that keeps you second-guessing rebuild confidence from a biblical foundation lead with clarity instead of insecurity Because growth doesn’t come from trying harder. It comes from leading with truth. Access The Imposter Syndrome Blueprint here: womenoffaithinleadership.com/blueprint Stay Connected 1. Subscribe to the Weekly Newsletter Receive practical, faith-based leadership strategies and encouragement for real leadership moments. https://womenoffaithinleadership.com/newsletter 2. Follow Rika on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rikawhelan 3. Have a Listener Question? Submit your question here: https://womenoffaithinleadership.com/podcast

August 11, 202620 min

176 | 5 Things Confident Christian Leaders Do Daily

Confidence in leadership isn’t something you either have or don’t have. It’s something you build — quietly, consistently, and intentionally — through the small decisions you make each day. Many Christian women in leadership assume that confident leaders feel ready before they lead. But in reality, confidence is not a personality trait. It is the result of preparation, clarity, and daily leadership rhythms that anchor you in Christ. In this episode, we explore five simple but powerful daily practices that confident Christian leaders use to lead with calm authority, wisdom, and consistency — even in demanding seasons. In This Episode we discuss: • Why confidence is built through daily leadership habits, not personality • The importance of starting your day anchored rather than reactive • How clarity reduces overwhelm and strengthens decision-making • Why preparing for conversations ahead of time builds confidence • How emotional awareness shapes steady leadership • The role of daily reflection in long-term leadership growth You’ll walk away with practical, faith-based habits you can begin implementing immediately to grow in confidence and lead with greater clarity. Ready to prepare for difficult conversations with confidence? Grab the Confident Conversation Blueprint (previously known as the Difficult Conversation Script Pack) and become the confident leader you desire to be. Grab it here: https://womenoffaithinleadership.com/conversation Stay Connected Subscribe to the Weekly Newsletter Receive faith-based leadership insights, practical strategies, and encouragement for real leadership situations. https://womenoffaithinleadership.com/newsletter Have a Listener Question? Submit your leadership question here: https://womenoffaithinleadership.com/podcast Connect with Rika Instagram https://www.instagram.com/rikawhelan LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/rikawhelan