
147. Stop Letting the Fear of Being Salesy Cost You Clients.
You know you need to talk to people. Every podcast, every coach, every mentor has told you the same thing. Build relationships. Start conversations. Get out there. And you are not doing it. Not because you do not have time, but because of a feeling. The fear of coming across as salesy. In this episode I am getting honest about the fact that this fear has stopped me too. I will be in the middle of genuinely building relationships, feeling great about the conversations I am having, and then one message comes back with, I already have a business coach, no thanks. And instantly I feel caught. Ashamed. Like I did something wrong. And then I stop talking to everyone for weeks. This episode is about changing that pattern for good. You will learn: Why the shame you feel when someone pushes back on your engagement is not a signal that you did something wrong How to define what salesy actually means so you can stop letting a word stop you from building your business The three-part criteria I use before I ever make an offer so I know I am talking to the right person at the right time The exact script I use when someone pushes back so I can respond with grace and keep going Why you are going to cross the line sometimes and why that is survivable and staying behind it is not How to pick your number and what that actually looks like in practice You are not salesy for wanting to build a business. You are a CEO who has something valuable and is trying to get it in front of the right people. This episode gives you the framework to do that without the shame spiral that stops you every time. Pick your number. Start your conversations. Respond with grace when it gets hard. And keep going. If you want someone in your corner when the hard conversations happen, that is exactly what I do inside CEO Shift. Book a consult.





