You’ve Done the Inner Work… So Why Aren’t You Happier? | Carolyn Brouillard
Why does personal growth sometimes stall—even when you've read the books, done the inner work, and tried to become a better version of yourself? In this episode, I sit down with Carolyn Brouillard, author of Your Untamed Truths: Reclaiming Self-Sovereignty, to talk about the gap between knowing what you want and actually living it. Carolyn has taken a fascinating path through life—from riding freight trains as a teenage punk, to building a corporate career, to retiring in her early 40s to pursue her dreams. Along the way, she discovered that even significant personal growth doesn't necessarily mean we've stopped getting in our own way. We talk about why personal growth can plateau, how old stories and patterns quietly influence our decisions, and what it means to live with greater self-sovereignty. Carolyn also shares practical ways to recognize when your actions aren't aligned with what you truly want, including two simple questions she uses to cut through the noise: Is it mine? Does it align? In this conversation, we discuss: • Why personal growth stalls even when you're doing the work • The difference between insight and actually changing your life • Self-sabotage and the patterns that keep us stuck • What self-sovereignty really means • How to leave behind careers, relationships, and identities that no longer fit • Spiritual bypassing and the importance of telling yourself the truth • How to recognize when your choices aren't aligned with who you are • Setting boundaries and dealing with resistance from people around you • How to make more coherent decisions in everyday life • Finding your "life intention" and what you're here to master and share • The powerful question: "How good can it get?" Carolyn's book, Your Untamed Truths: Reclaiming Self-Sovereignty, is available through major book retailers. Learn more about Carolyn and Untamed Truths: https://www.youruntamedtruths.com/ Substack: https://untamedtruths.substack.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/untamed_truths/ If you enjoyed the conversation, be sure to subscribe for more conversations about personal growth, mindset, purpose, performance, and building a better life. #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement #SelfSovereignty






