Are We Ruining Youth Sports? The Truth About Travel Teams, Pressure & Burnout
Send us Fan Mail Are we giving our kids opportunities through youth sports, or are we putting so much pressure on them that we're taking the joy out of the game? As my son approaches eight years old, I've been looking at the world of travel sports and asking myself: What in the hell are we getting ourselves into? On this episode of The Keri Croft Show, I'm joined by Kyle Pless, basketball player development coach and creator of Between the Lines, for a candid conversation about the increasingly intense world of youth athletics. We're talking about the pressure to join travel teams, parents spending thousands of dollars chasing opportunities, the obsession with being "elite" at ten years old, and whether playing more games actually makes kids better athletes. Kyle shares some pretty eye-opening stories, including parents treating their 12-year-old like a retirement plan, a young basketball player who lost her love for the sport after a coach told her to "smile more," and his own experience growing up as the son of a professional baseball player. But this isn't an episode about bashing travel sports. There are incredible benefits to athletics, and we both recognize them. This is about asking better questions, examining our intentions as parents, and remembering who this whole experience is supposed to be about. In this episode, we get into: The fear of falling behind if your child doesn't play travel sports Why early specialization may not be the answer The difference between playing games and developing actual skills The financial and emotional toll on families The pressure parents unintentionally put on their kids Why the car ride home after a game matters more than you think How coaches can build confidence or completely destroy it Letting kids fall in love with the game before chasing the next level I want to hear from parents on BOTH sides of this conversation. What's been your experience with travel sports? The good, the bad, and the ugly. Drop your thoughts in the comments because I think this is a conversation worth continuing. Subscribe to The Keri Croft Show for more conversations about life, parenting, entrepreneurship, and everything in between. Keep movin', baby.






