
The 4 Box Feedback Model: A Better Alternative to the Feedback Sandwich
The 4 box reflective feedback model is a practical alternative to the feedback sandwich that gets employees talking about their own performance first. Leadership trainer Russell Stratton of Bluegem Learning in Calgary, co-author of I Need to F***ing Talk To You, walks through each box, joins Andrea in a live role play, and shares coaching questions managers can use in performance conversations. Key takeaways: - The feedback sandwich is so familiar that employees wait for the "but," and the manager does most of the talking. - The four boxes alternate: the employee says what went well, the manager adds to it, the employee says what they could do even better, and the manager adds anything they missed. - "What could you do even better?" works for top performers and struggling employees alike. - Expect the first few conversations to feel awkward. Send questions in advance and give it a few rounds. - When there is an urgent problem, address it directly. Do not fold it into a feedback model. - Ask "talk me through what happened" and look at the lead-up to an incident, not only the moment itself. 00:00 Introduction to Russell Stratton 00:57 How this differs from other models 01:01 Problems with the feedback sandwich 02:22 The 4 box reflective model 02:36 Box 1: What went well? 03:57 Box 2: The manager tops up 04:35 Box 3: What could be even better? 05:26 Box 4: The manager adds observations 06:44 When employees don't say anything 08:17 Live role play 11:58 Using the model flexibly 13:31 When the model falls flat 14:48 Urgent problems need a different approach 16:03 Coaching questions for improvement 18:25 Look at what led up to it 20:08 Where to find Russell 21:06 Closing thoughts **Find Russell** Website: https://www.bluegemlearning.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/russellstratton/ Book Titles or other links: I Need to F***ing Talk To You: The Art of Navigating Difficult Workplace Conversations (with Ken Cameron): https://www.amazon.ca/Need-ing-Talk-You-Conversations/dp/1777302609 **Find Andrea** Website: https://thehrhub.ca/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrea-adams1/






