On 'The Connection' Jay Miralles connects his guests with the world! Listen as we connect the dots. Our goal is to get to the why!Jay Miralles was born first generation in San Francisco, California, after his parents arrived in America. He watched his immigrant parents work hard to support their family. Their actions and life lessons shaped who he is today. He learned first-hand how his parents’ work ethic allowed them to move from a basement in the Avenues to a middle-class suburb. As a teenager, he struggled in school with average grades and was easily bored with the norm or status quo. Jay questioned everything. He realized his independence was so important, he enlisted in the Air Force at the age of 17. His love for country grew rapidly, and he realized many things people take for granted. His deployment to places such as Alaska, Germany, and Saudi Arabia, and more, shaped his perspective on how the world is connected. After ten years in the Air Force, he decided to move to Omaha, Nebraska. Some of the early jobs that gave him valuable experience included ten years in radio, a background in information technology, and teaching at a local college. He also co-founded three professional networking organizations. Eventually, he found a niche in insurance/financial services and real estate. He quickly excelled in sales, which led to coaching and leadership positions. His background has prepared him well to speak on stage, conduct podcasts, author articles, and serve as a go-to for interviews. His passion is more than just inspiring people; it’s working closely with individuals and organizations to help identify the opportunities for them to make the best impact.Jay and his wife Becky are blessed with four children: Aubrey, Jade, Jordan, and Mason. They have a German Shepard named King and a Pekingese Shih Tzu Poodle mix, Chewy, who thinks he is the same size as King. They all call Nebraska, home. WEBSITE https://www.letsgo321.com GET IN TOUCH https://flow.page/jaymiralles BUY MY BOOK https://books.by/jaymiralles PLEASE SUBSCRIBE https://www.youtube.com/@jaymirallestheconnection
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February 5, 2026Episode 581 hr 0 min
Gen Z: 21 and Growing Up!
The conversation delves into the challenges and experiences of young adulthood, exploring themes of comparison pressure, faith and identity, marriage and individuality, and mental health awareness. It provides insights into the overwhelming pressure of adulthood, the heaviness of self-discovery, challenges in faith and obedience, and the surprises and realities of marriage at a young age. Additionally, it discusses the importance of balancing individuality in marriage and the prevalence of mental health awareness in the current generation. The conversation delves into generational differences in emotional expression, the impact of comparison and sources of stress. It also explores relationships, boundaries, and social dynamics, reflecting on purpose and life direction, political engagement, and the value of vulnerability as a strength. The overarching theme emphasizes the impact of comparison and the importance of vulnerability in personal growth and relationships.TakeawaysComparison PressureFaith and IdentityMarriage and IndividualityMental Health Awareness Comparison is the thief of joyVulnerability is a strengthChapters00:00 Generational Anxiety and Honesty48:27 Relationships, Boundaries, and Social Dynamics54:03 Reflection on Purpose and Life Direction01:06:49 Impact of Comparison and the Value of Vulnerability
January 21, 2026Episode 5725 min
ELIMINATE TO ELEVATE
Unleash Your Potential: 5 Bad Habits to Leave Behind for a Thriving 2026 As we step into a new year, many of us find ourselves overwhelmed with goals and resolutions. However, true progress often comes from what we choose to leave behind. In this blog post, we will explore five detrimental habits that can hinder your momentum in 2026, inspired by insights from a recent podcast. 1. Stop Saying You’re Busy The word "busy" has become a common filler in our conversations, often used to deflect meaningful exchanges. When asked how we are, many default to saying they are busy, which conveys little about our true priorities. Instead, try replacing busy with phrases like "I’m focused on a new priority" or simply pause to reflect before responding. This shift not only fosters deeper connections but also encourages clarity in your interactions. For example, rather than saying, "I’m busy with work," share specific projects you're passionate about, like "I’m starting a new franchise and looking for employees." 2. Stop Emphasizing the Grind Talking about how tired and overwhelmed you are is not a badge of honor; it’s a warning sign of mismanagement. The podcast emphasizes that true discipline isn’t about how hard you work but how you respect your time and well-being. If your workload is exhausting you, it may be time to reassess your priorities or systems. For instance, if a salesperson is still asking basic questions after years in the field, they might need to evaluate their methods instead of just pushing through fatigue. 3. Stop Claiming You Don’t Have Time Many people claim they don’t have time, but this often stems from poor time management. Instead of making excuses, audit your day to see where your time truly goes. Are you allowing distractions to derail your productivity? The podcast suggests tracking your time just like money; if you don’t manage it, it disappears. Instead of saying, "I don’t have time," try saying, "That’s not a priority right now" or, "I’ll check my schedule and get back to you." This approach nurtures accountability and clarity. 4. Stop Overthinking and Waiting to Feel Ready Analysis paralysis can prevent you from taking the first step towards your goals. If you find yourself hesitating to start a project because you want everything to be perfect, remember that progress often requires action, not perfection. The podcast likens this to waiting for all the traffic lights to be green before leaving your house. Instead, embrace imperfection and allow yourself to learn and adapt along the way. 5. Stop Making Excuses Excuses can be a significant barrier to progress. The podcast emphasizes the importance of removing excuses to create space for growth. Rather than rationalizing why you can't start something new, focus on what you can do today. Challenge yourself to take small steps forward, and you’ll find momentum building naturally. It's essential to recognize habits that hold us back. By leaving behind busyness, exhaustion, excuses, overthinking, and the grind, we can create the momentum needed for personal and professional growth. Remember, true progress comes from making intentional choices about what to eliminate from our lives. Take these insights to heart and watch how they transform your year ahead! Takeaways: - Replace "busy" with meaningful descriptions of your priorities. - Respect your time and well-being instead of glorifying exhaustion. - Audit your time and be honest about your commitments. - Embrace action over perfection to overcome analysis paralysis. - Remove excuses and focus on small, actionable steps.
January 14, 2026Episode 5651 min
The TRUTH about Gen Z
In this heartfelt conversation, Jay Miralles engages with his 17-year-old son Mason to explore the complexities of teenage life, including identity, mental health, values, relationships, and the impact of social media. Mason shares his insights on the pressures faced by teens today, the importance of mental health discussions, and the value of supportive relationships. The dialogue emphasizes the need for understanding and communication between generations, highlighting the positive aspects of youth while acknowledging the challenges they face.takeawaysTeens often feel misunderstood by adults regarding their identity and pressures.Mental health is a significant concern for teenagers, yet discussions about it are often avoided.Family support plays a crucial role in a teen's life and development.Teens value relationships and believe in the importance of being supportive of others.Social media can be both beneficial and harmful, affecting communication and self-image.Asking for help is seen as a strength, not a weakness, among teens.Comparison with peers can lead to negative self-perception and mental health issues.Teens desire to be seen as individuals with their own aspirations and challenges.The importance of being open and honest in conversations about feelings and experiences.Teens are hopeful about the future but also fear the unknown that comes with adulthood.Sound Bites"You can't have too many friends.""Comparison destroys people.""There's still good in us."Chapters00:00Understanding Teen Identity and Pressure09:58Exploring Values and Meaning in Teen Life19:32The Impact of Technology and Social Media on Teens26:12The Impact of Social Media on Personal Experiences31:59Trust and Relationships in Gen Z45:04Hopes and Fears for the Future51:08OUTRO WEBSITEhttps://www.letsgo321.comGET IN TOUCHhttps://flow.page/jaymirallesBUY MY BOOKhttps://books.by/jaymirallesPLEASE SUBSCRIBEhttps://www.youtube.com/@jaymirallestheconnection
December 13, 2025Episode 5543 min
You can't do it ALONE!
Jay Miralles interviews Marty Gray, a veteran who transitioned from a 20-year military career to entrepreneurship in real estate. They discuss the importance of networking, vulnerability in business, and the creation of OBO (Our Business Owners), a community for entrepreneurs. Marty shares insights on building a network, the significance of mindset, and the value of commitment in business. The conversation also highlights upcoming conferences aimed at supporting business owners and fostering connections within the community.TakeawaysMarty emphasizes the importance of not worrying about the past and embracing one's journey.Networking is crucial for business growth and success.Vulnerability in business can create a safe space for sharing challenges.OBO focuses on supporting entrepreneurs and fostering meaningful connections.Commitment to a network can lead to significant personal and professional growth.Monthly conferences provide valuable insights and networking opportunities.Building a network starts with reaching out to local businesses and professionals.Mindset is a key factor in overcoming challenges in entrepreneurship.Givers gain: helping others can lead to personal rewards.OBO offers a unique platform for business owners to connect and collaborate.FIND MARTY GRAYhttps://app.ourbusinessowners.com/https://betteromaha.com/directory/agents/martin-gray"How can I make this better?""Givers gain, it's true."Chapters00:00 Introduction and Conference Overview09:16 The Birth of OBO and Its Mission15:29 Mindset and Vulnerability in Business21:32 OBO Circles: Focus and Legacy29:15 Monthly Conference and Community Engagement36:55 Final Thoughts and How to Connect with OBO42:50 OUTRO Standby for Launch.mp4WEBSITEhttps://www.letsgo321.comGET IN TOUCHhttps://flow.page/jaymirallesBUY MY BOOKhttps://books.by/jaymirallesPLEASE SUBSCRIBEhttps://www.youtube.com/@jaymirallestheconnection
December 8, 2025Episode 5443 min
OPINIONS VS ADVICE
SummaryIn this conversation, Jay Miralles explores the critical distinction between advice and opinion, emphasizing how opinions can often hinder personal growth and the pursuit of dreams. He discusses the dangers of unsolicited opinions, especially from well-meaning individuals, and highlights the importance of seeking advice from qualified sources who have real experience. Through personal anecdotes and practical strategies, he encourages listeners to be selective about whose voices they allow to influence their decisions, ultimately advocating for a more discerning approach to guidance in their lives.TakeawaysOpinions are often based on personal fears and limitations.Real advice comes from those who have achieved results.It's crucial to differentiate between opinions and advice.Well-meaning opinions can derail your dreams.Seek guidance from qualified sources, not just friends and family.Building a personal board of advisors can provide valuable insights.Ask better questions to filter for experience.Testing advice before fully committing is essential.Emotional responses to opinions can cloud judgment.Your dreams deserve guidance from those who have pursued their own.Navigating the Fine Line Between Advice and OpinionThe Silent Dream Killers: Opinions vs. AdviceSound bites"Opinions are cheap. Everyone has them.""Care doesn't equal qualification.""Opinions keep you small and safe."Chapters00:00 The Dream Killers: Understanding Opinions vs. Advice02:09 The Impact of Opinions on Your Dreams04:59 The Dangers of Well-Meaning Opinions08:06 Navigating Opinions and Seeking Real Advice11:01 Personal Stories: The Cost of Listening to Opinions14:13 Strategies for Filtering Advice from Opinions17:00 Building a Personal Board of Advisors19:44 The Importance of Asking the Right Questions22:17 Testing Advice and Creating a Filter System25:02 Handling Emotional Responses to Opinions28:04 The Challenge of Pursuing Your Dreams31:14 Finding Wisdom in Unconventional Places34:04 Final Thoughts: Protecting Your Dreams42:30 OUTRO Standby for Launch.mp4Thank you for listening to The Connection Podcast with Jay Miralles. Please subscribe and share!WEBSITEhttps://www.letsgo321.comGET IN TOUCHhttps://flow.page/jaymirallesBUY MY BOOKhttps://books.by/jaymirallesPLEASE SUBSCRIBEhttps://www.youtube.com/@jaymirallestheconnectionKeywordsdreams, advice, opinions, personal growth, entrepreneurship, success, guidance, motivation, self-improvement, discernment
December 5, 2025Episode 5332 min
GOAL PLANNING, PART 4 of 4
In this conversation, Jay Miralles discusses the importance of identity and self-belief in achieving long-term success. He emphasizes that while goals can change actions, it is one's identity that ultimately transforms life. Miralles explores the concepts of grit, resilience, and discipline, arguing that true strength is forged through conflict and challenges. He provides practical strategies for maintaining consistency and accountability, highlighting the significance of a clear identity and environment in the journey towards becoming unstoppable.TakeawaysGoals change your actions, but identity changes your life.You can't outwork a broken self-belief; belief is foundational.Success requires daily maintenance and effort.Your identity acts as a thermostat for your achievements.Strength is built through conflict, not comfort.Difficult situations serve as proving grounds for growth.Consistency is key; set clear goals and check in regularly.Celebrate small wins to reinforce positive behavior.Your habits shape your identity and future success.Be a warrior in pursuit of your goals, not a worrier."You need a warrior, not a worrier."Chapters00:00 Becoming Unstoppable: Identity and Goals09:22 The Power of Grit and Resilience19:03 Consistency and Accountability for Success27:51 The Unstoppable You: Building a Strong IdentityWEBSITEhttps://www.letsgo321.comGET IN TOUCHhttps://flow.page/jaymirallesBUY MY BOOKhttps://books.by/jaymirallesPLEASE SUBSCRIBEhttps://www.youtube.com/@jaymirallestheconnection
December 4, 2025Episode 5224 min
GOAL PLANNING, PART 3 OF 4
Title: Mastering the Art of Execution: Turning Plans into Power Introduction: In today’s fast-paced world, having a plan is just the first step; executing that plan is where true success lies. In a recent podcast, Jay Miralles delves into the crucial phase of execution, emphasizing that while motivation can ignite the spark, it is discipline that keeps the flame alive. Let’s explore the insights shared in the podcast that can help you transform your plans into powerful actions. Section 1: Understanding Execution Jay Miralles opens with a powerful statement: "Your plan doesn't fail; your follow-through does." This highlights a common misconception—many people blame their plans for failure when in reality, it’s often their inability to execute those plans that leads to disappointment. Jay stresses that wishing for success is insufficient; true achievement comes from hard work and consistent execution. He states, "Wishing is cute, but working is undefeated," reminding us that our habits reveal our true intentions. Section 2: The Importance of Morning Routines One of the key takeaways from the podcast is the significance of owning your mornings. Jay asserts, "You either own the morning or the morning owns you." He encourages listeners to adopt a proactive morning routine to set a positive tone for the day. For instance, he suggests waking up early to engage in meditation, exercise, and planning, which can help individuals start their day with clarity and energy. Section 3: Setting High Priority Tasks Jay emphasizes the importance of tackling high-priority tasks first thing in the morning. He states, "If you win the first battle, the rest of the day salutes you." This means that accomplishing even one significant task early on can create a momentum that carries throughout the day. He shares his own practice of prioritizing a morning workout as a critical first step to ensure a productive day. Section 4: Accountability and Consistency Another essential element of execution is accountability. Jay explains that accountability is not a punishment but rather a reflection of our commitment to our goals. He encourages listeners to establish systems that keep them on track, such as regular check-ins or end-of-day reviews. Furthermore, he discusses the concept of discipline, noting that it often triumphs over the fleeting motivation we may feel. Section 5: The Dangers of Procrastination In the podcast, Jay addresses the dangers of procrastination and how it can derail our plans. He warns against the temptation to put things off, saying, "Later has killed many more dreams than many other things." He encourages listeners to take immediate action, even when they feel tired or unmotivated, as pushing through those moments often leads to breakthrough results. WEBSITEhttps://www.letsgo321.comGET IN TOUCHhttps://flow.page/jaymirallesBUY MY BOOKhttps://books.by/jaymirallesPLEASE SUBSCRIBEhttps://www.youtube.com/@jaymirallestheconnection Tags: execution, discipline, accountability, productivity, morning routine, success tips, personal development, motivation, goal setting
December 3, 2025Episode 5123 min
GOAL PLANNING, PART 2 OF 4
SummaryIn this conversation, Jay Miralles emphasizes the importance of designing a clear blueprint for personal and professional success by 2026. He discusses the necessity of clarity, the three-piece blueprint for achieving goals, the significance of eliminating distractions, and the power of setting stretch goals. Miralles also highlights the importance of execution and accountability in turning intentions into reality, urging listeners to take immediate action towards their goals.TakeawaysDesign your life intentionally, don't leave it to chance.Clarity is essential for progress; define your goals clearly.A three-piece blueprint includes outcome, process, and proof.Eliminate distractions before adding new goals.Stretch goals create pressure that drives growth.Accountability measures help track progress effectively.Start today; don't wait for a specific date to begin.Even small, consistent actions can lead to significant results.Commitment is more important than mere interest in goals.Your future is waiting for your permission to succeed.Chapters00:00 Designing Your Future: The Blueprint for 202605:29 The Three-Piece Blueprint for Success10:58 The Power of Stretch Goals16:49 Execution: The Bridge from Plans to PowerBLUEPRINTCreating Your Three-Piece BlueprintJay introduces a simple yet powerful three-piece blueprint to guide your journey:1. Outcome: Define what you want to achieve. It’s essential to set clear, specific goals that can be easily tracked. For example, losing 30 pounds by February is a clear target that can be broken down into manageable weekly objectives.2. Process: Establish the daily and weekly actions necessary to reach your goal. Jay advises removing friction from your process. If your aim is to lose weight, remove junk food from your home. If you’re looking to boost sales, schedule dedicated time for outreach. The key is to create an environment that supports your goals, making them easier to achieve.3. Proof: Track your progress using key performance indicators (KPIs). What you measure tends to improve, and having a scoreboard to track sales or weight loss provides motivation. Jay notes, "What you avoid decays," meaning that without tracking, your ambitions may fade.Keywordsblueprint, clarity, goals, execution, success, personal development, planning, boundaries, progress, motivationWEBSITEhttps://www.letsgo321.comGET IN TOUCHhttps://flow.page/jaymirallesBUY MY BOOKhttps://books.by/jaymirallesPLEASE SUBSCRIBEhttps://www.youtube.com/@jaymirallestheconnection
December 1, 2025Episode 5032 min
GOAL PLANNING, PART 1 of 4
4 PART SERIES PART 1 OF 4In this conversation, Jay Miralles discusses the importance of having a concrete plan for achieving personal breakthroughs in 2026. He emphasizes the need for honesty in assessing one's goals and the difference between wishes and actionable plans. The discussion covers the significance of health as a foundation for success, the role of systems and methods in achieving goals, the impact of environment on personal growth, and the necessity of setting measurable and slightly scary goals. Miralles concludes by highlighting the importance of rewarding the process of achieving goals rather than just focusing on the end result.Jay's Book 'Let's GO!' can be purchased at: https://books.by/jaymirallesTakeaways2026 is approaching; don't fall into the trap of procrastination.A wish is vague; a plan is specific and actionable.The gap between dreams and actions is where potential dies.Comfort can hinder your potential for growth.Health is foundational for achieving any goal.Systems keep you moving when motivation fades.Your environment shapes your habits and mindset.Goals should be simple, measurable, and a little scary.Fear can be a motivator for achieving goals.Reward yourself for the process, not just the outcome.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Your 2026 Breakthrough06:08 The Gap Between Wishes and Plans11:43 Systems and Methods for Achieving Goals17:46 The Impact of Relationships on Success23:38 Rewarding the Process of ChangeWEBSITEhttps://www.letsgo321.comGET IN TOUCHhttps://flow.page/jaymirallesBUY MY BOOKhttps://books.by/jaymirallesPLEASE SUBSCRIBEhttps://www.youtube.com/@jaymirallestheconnection
November 26, 2025Episode 4917 min
The SAFE Little Voice In Your Head: HOW TO BEAT IT
The SAFE Little Voice In Your Head: HOW TO BEAT ITThis episode delves into the concept of the inner voice, exploring how it acts as a barrier to personal growth and success. Jay Miralles discusses the survival wiring of the inner voice, its impact on confidence, and practical strategies to overcome it. The conversation emphasizes the importance of belief, courage, and action over skill and talent. This episode comes from one of the chapters in my book Let's Go! https://books.by/jaymiralles Keywordsinner voice, personal growth, confidence, survival wiring, belief, courage, actionTakeawaysYou don't need more skill or talent, just belief.The inner voice is a survival mechanism, not an enemy.Confidence and consistency are key to success.Challenge the inner voice by naming and questioning it.Action builds confidence and clarity.The inner voice gets louder when you're on the right path.Overcoming hesitation is more important than gaining skill.Execution is more crucial than knowledge.Movement and action can override mental barriers.Your systems and routines determine your success.Thank you for listening to The Connection Podcast with Jay Miralles. Please subscribe and share!WEBSITEhttps://www.letsgo321.comGET IN TOUCHhttps://flow.page/jaymirallesBUY MY BOOKhttps://books.by/jaymirallesPLEASE SUBSCRIBEhttps://www.youtube.com/@jaymirallestheconnection
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