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Embark on an intimate journey with us as we unveil the profound, often vulnerable, moments that turned ordinary people into extraordinary achievers. We're diving heart-first into the pivotal twists and uplifting turns that transformed these incredible individuals. It’s more than an interview—it's a soulful conversation celebrating the realness and resilience behind true success. Come laugh, learn, and find your own spark of extraordinary with us. Because success is as individual as you are—and every transformation starts with a single, authentic moment.

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May 31, 202456 min

Episode 12 - Chloe Veitch (Too Hot To... Have Impostor Syndrome?)

The Braveyard Podcast: Season 1 Finale with Chloe VeitchEpisode Details:Host: Courtnei LeeGuest: Chloe VeitchDuration: 55 minutesSponsors: Gamer TechEpisode Summary:In this captivating season finale of the Braveyard podcast, host Courtnei Lee engages in a heartfelt conversation with the dynamic Chloe Veitch. They explore themes of authenticity, self-acceptance, and the journey to personal and professional success. Chloe opens up about her experiences, including her public coming out as bisexual, the launch of her new subscription website, and her exciting upcoming projects.Key Discussion Points:Embracing Authenticity and Individuality:Courtnei praises Chloe for her ability to make others feel valid in their uniqueness and inner chaos.Chloe shares her journey of coming out as bisexual, emphasizing the importance of being true to oneself and its impact on others.Personal Transformation and Acceptance:Courtnei relates her experience of transitioning and the liberation she felt when she finally accepted herself.Chloe discusses the importance of self-love and patience, encouraging listeners to embrace their identities without guilt or shame.Navigating Social Media and Personal Expression:Chloe introduces her new subscription platform, FanFix, which offers fans a more personal and unrestricted connection with her.Courtnei talks about balancing professionalism with personal expression, highlighting her decision to get a neck tattoo as a symbol of breaking free from societal expectations.Exciting Future Ventures:Chloe teases upcoming projects, including a top-secret show with a major network and other endeavors she’s been working on for years.She emphasizes the importance of focusing on genuine success rather than just appearing successful on social media.Support and Advice for the Queer Community:Chloe and Courtnei offer words of encouragement to young queer individuals struggling with mental health or societal pressures.They stress the value of finding supportive communities and allowing personal growth to happen naturally.Memorable Quotes:Courtnei Lee: "There's something about you that just really, it just screams, it's okay to be you and to be beautiful and be valid and be heard."Chloe Veitch: "Fuck society, be you. When it happens, it will happen naturally. Do not put a label on anything and just do it."Upcoming Content:A special bonus episode featuring the newest winner of Netflix's The Circle, Brandon Baker is coming soon. Sponsor:Gamer Tech: Don’t forget to check out their social media for your chance to win a custom PC. @gamertechtoronto or Gamertech.caKey Moments: Introduction (00:00 - 00:01:23) - Courtnei Lee introduces the podcast and expresses gratitude for the guests. Discussion on Self-Work and Overcoming Imposter Syndrome (00:01:24 - 00:14:34) - Chloe Veitch shares her experience of doing self-work and overcoming imposter syndrome. - They discuss the importance of moving forward positively and not dwelling on past experiences. - Chloe talks about the inspiration she finds in difficult situations and the lessons she learns from them. Relationships and Personal Growth (00:14:35 - 00:31:21) - Courtnei and Chloe discuss their personal journeys, including their relationships and personal growth. - They reflect on moments of...

May 20, 20241 hr 14 min

Episode 11 - Brock McGillis (Breaking The Ice With Queers & Hockey)

Episode Summary:In this heartfelt and enlightening episode of The Braveyard, host Courtnei Lee is joined by the trailblazing Brock McGillis, a former professional hockey player and LGBTQ+ advocate. Together, they dive deep into Brock’s journey of coming out, the challenges faced by queer athletes in sports, and the transformative power of self-acceptance and love.Key Discussion Points:- **Personal Journey and Coming Out:** - Brock shares his experience of coming out after his first relationship and the impact it had on his life and career. - The serendipitous reunion with his first love after a decade and how they have become good friends.- **Challenges in Sports:** - The harsh realities of being a queer athlete in a predominantly conservative and homophobic sports environment. - Courtnei and Brock discuss the pressures and fears that keep many athletes from coming out, including the potential career repercussions and personal safety concerns.- **Visibility and Advocacy:** - The importance of visibility for LGBTQ+ individuals in sports and how it can foster a more inclusive and supportive environment. - Brock’s advocacy work and his mission to create safer spaces for queer athletes.- **Personal Reflections:** - Courtnei’s own experience with a high-profile relationship and the fear of negative media attention. - The importance of self-love and acceptance, and the role these play in overcoming societal pressures.- **Cultural Shifts and Future Hopes:** - The need for a cultural shift in sports to ensure all athletes, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity, feel welcomed and supported. - Brock and Courtnei’s hope for a future where queer relationships and identities are normalized and celebrated in all sports. Memorable Quotes:- “The only one that can accept me is me. Because acceptance from others creates a hierarchy that they're above you, and that's bullshit. We're all equal.” – Brock McGillis- “The whole conversation is based around love. And it's the fact that we're trying to discredit people's life away from love, whether that's loving themselves or loving a partner, is messed up.” – Courtnei LeeIf you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform. Follow us on social media @courtneilee for updates and more inspiring stories. Tune in next week for our season finale with the stunning Chloe Veitch, and thank you for joining us in "The Braveyard" where bravery is celebrated, one story at a time.

April 25, 202457 min

Episode 10 - Victoria Pelletier (Corporate Queer Leaders)

Victoria PelletierIntroduction:Courtnei Lee welcomes listeners to another episode of The BraveYard.She expresses gratitude for Victoria Pelletier joining her on the show.Briefly introduces the topics covered in the episode.Conversation Highlights:Victoria shares her journey with her ex-partners cancer diagnosis and making difficult decisions.The discussion delves into the guilt and challenges Victoria experienced in her personal life, particularly concerning her children and relationships.Courtnei and Victoria discuss the complexities of identity, including Victoria's experience of being judged for not feeling "queer enough" after entering a hetero relationship.They explore internalized transphobia, passing privilege, and the importance of creating safe spaces for oneself.Victoria opens up about her son Jordan's trans journey and the support she offers him.The conversation touches on advocacy, leadership, and personal branding, with Victoria sharing insights from her upcoming books.Upcoming Episodes Teaser:Courtnei previews the next episode featuring Brock McGillis, the first out professional hockey player, discussing LGBTQ+ sports and advocacy.Conclusion:Courtnei expresses gratitude to Victoria for her insights and friendship.She encourages listeners to stay tuned for future episodes and thanks them for tuning in to The Brave Yard.Closing:Courtnei Lee signs off as the host of The BraveYard.

April 10, 202452 min

Episode 9 - Kyne (Math doesn't have to be a Drag!)

Description:In this episode of the Braveyard podcast, host Courtnei Lee engages in a heartfelt conversation with Kyne, a drag educator and advocate for LGBTQ+ rights. Together, they delve into topics such as personal transformation through makeup, the importance of living authentically, and the challenges faced by the LGBTQ+ community in today's political climate. Kyne shares their experiences and insights, offering inspiration and empowerment to listeners. Join us as we explore themes of resilience, representation, and activism in this enlightening episode.Show Notes:Introduction:Host Courtnei Lee introduces the episode and welcomes listeners to the Braveyard podcast.Teaser of the upcoming conversation with Kyne, a drag educator and LGBTQ+ advocate.Discussion Highlights:Transformation Through Makeup:Kyne reflects on their journey of self-discovery and the role of makeup in expressing their true identity.They share how makeup became a tool for empowerment and confidence, enabling them to feel comfortable in their own skin.Living Authentically:Kyne discusses the challenges of embracing authenticity, including overcoming self-doubt and societal pressures.They emphasize the importance of being true to oneself and finding strength in vulnerability.Political Climate and LGBTQ+ Rights:Kyne and Courtnei explore the current political landscape and its impact on the LGBTQ+ community.They discuss the need for advocacy and solidarity in the face of discrimination and prejudice.Empowerment Through Representation:Courtnei expresses admiration for Kyne's work as a drag educator and advocate for LGBTQ+ rights.They highlight the significance of representation in challenging stereotypes and fostering understanding.Conclusion:Courtnei wraps up the episode, expressing gratitude to Kyne for sharing their insights and experiences.Teaser for the next episode featuring Victoria Pelletier, a trailblazer in the LGBTQ+ community.Closing Remarks:Courtnei encourages listeners to stay tuned for future episodes and invites them to join the ongoing conversation.Reminder to follow Braveyard podcast on social media for updates and announcements.Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the Braveyard podcast on your favorite podcast platform. Thank you for listening!

March 24, 202450 min

Episode 8 - Matt Sarafa (Design your dreams)

Episode Summary:In this episode of The Braveyard, hosts Matt Sarafa and Courtnei Lee engage in a heartfelt conversation about advocating for LGBTQ+ rights and supporting queer youth. They share personal experiences, discuss challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals, and offer advice for those navigating similar journeys. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community, self-expression, and kindness in creating a more inclusive and supportive environment.Key Topics Covered:Fashion Industry and Self-Expression:Matt Sarafa discusses his approach to fashion, emphasizing inclusivity and breaking gender binaries.Fashion as a form of self-expression and empowerment.Challenging toxic narratives within the fashion industry.Gender Identity and Sexuality: Matt shares his experience growing up and discovering his gender identity.Importance of creating space for education and inclusion for young people questioning their identity.Courtnei Lee highlights the evolution of acceptance and celebration of individuality.Androgynous Expression and Self-Discovery: Exploration of masculine and feminine presenting selves in fashion.Embracing authenticity and celebrating individuality.Courtnei Lee praises Matt's androgynous style and self-confidence.Supporting LGBTQ+ Youth:Discussion on challenges faced by LGBTQ+ youth, especially in less progressive environments.Importance of finding support systems and seeking help when needed.Advocating for LGBTQ+ rights and contributing to positive change in the community.Self-Care and Resilience: Strategies for coping with feelings of hopelessness and exhaustion.Importance of spending time alone, seeking support from loved ones, and engaging in philanthropic activities.Reflecting on the impact of small acts of kindness and meaningful conversations.Closing Remarks and Future Outlook: Expressions of mutual respect, admiration, and gratitude between Matt Sarafa and Courtnei Lee.Anticipation for future collaborations and positive contributions to the LGBTQ+ community.Upcoming Guests:Next week's episode will feature Kyne from Canada's Drag Race, promising more insightful discussions on LGBTQ+ advocacy and representation.Conclusion:Listeners are encouraged to tune in to The Braveyard for engaging conversations, inspiring stories, and valuable insights into LGBTQ+ experiences and activism.

March 13, 20241 hr 3 min

Episode 7 - Max Talisman (Write yourself as the main character)

Introduction:Host: Courtnei LeeGuest: Max TalismanMain Discussion Points:Introduction and Background:Max Talisman's journey in the film industry.Insights into his personal life and experiences.Creating the Movie:Max's role as a writer, director, and actor.Relationship dynamics and the impact on his movie.Discussion on falling in love during pre-filming and the subsequent years.Challenges in the Queer Community:Addressing discrimination in the queer world, particularly on dating apps.Personal experiences and struggles with societal standards.Body Positivity and Relationship Struggles:The portrayal of one of the main characters and its relevance to real-life experiences.Challenges faced by plus-size gay individuals on dating apps.Personal struggles with self-worth and societal expectations.Impact on Filmmaking:Max's perspective on how his real-time experiences influenced his role as an actor.Balancing personal emotions with the demands of a film role.Advice for Aspiring Filmmakers and Actors:Trusting instincts in the entertainment industry.The importance of self-belief and knowing one's worth.Resilience and facing rejection.Practical tips for actors, including studying facial expressions and modeling.Open Call for New Scripts and Creatives:Max's production company actively seeking new projects.Encouragement for underrepresented voices to submit their work.Closing Thoughts:Expressing gratitude and positivity.Anticipation for Max Talisman's upcoming movie.Information on where to follow both Max and Courtnei Lee for future updates.Outro:Closing remarks by Courtnei Lee.Preview of the next episode with Matt Safara.

March 9, 20241 hr 23 min

Episode 6 - Alysia Silberg (Inner child... is that you?)

Episode Summary:Courtnei Lee engages in a deep and insightful conversation with Alysia Silberg, covering various aspects of their personal journeys, struggles, and reflections on the impact of technology, particularly AI, on their lives. Alysia shares her experiences, insights, and the motivation behind her endeavors.Key Points:Alysia's Background:Alysia Silberg is introduced as a successful entrepreneur and AI enthusiast.She emphasizes her dedication to problem-solving and connecting people with experts through her growing platform.Alysia's Platform:Alysia talks about her platform, "unemployable ai," which focuses on problem-solving and connecting people with the best resources.She mentions her commitment to studying AI for approximately 18 hours a day.Alysia's Book:Alysia mentions her book, available on Amazon, and encourages listeners to check it out for more in-depth insights.AI Newsletter:Alysia promotes her weekly AI newsletter, "Alicia's AI Insider," emphasizing the effort her team puts into creating content accessible to those not deeply immersed in AI.Gratitude for Technology:Alysia expresses excitement and gratitude for living in a time where technology has made her platform and connections possible.Both Alysia and Courtnei reflect on the potential impact of technology on their lives.Personal Connection and Mentorship:Courtnei expresses gratitude for Alysia's presence on the podcast and mentions the mentorship she has received from Alysia.Closing Thoughts:Alysia and Courtnei share thoughts on the importance of sharing personal stories and journeys, especially for those facing challenges.They emphasize the significance of taking the first steps forward and staying committed to one's goals.Closing:Courtnei Lee concludes the episode, expressing gratitude for the deep and meaningful conversation with Alysia Silberg. The next episode teaser involves a discussion with Max Talisman, known for his roles in projects like "Orange Is the New Black."

March 2, 202445 min

Episode 5 - Danielle Laidley (Touchdowns and Transitions)

Introduction:Host: Courtnei LeeGuest: Danielle Laidley, former AFL coach and transgender advocateKey Points Discussed:Family Dynamics and Public Transition:Danielle's unique case where her adult children learned about her transition publicly.The challenges faced by transgender individuals and their families.Importance of education, guidance, and support during the transition process.Rebuilding Relationships:The need for patience and understanding in rebuilding relationships with family members.Danielle's perspective on the time it takes for acceptance, both for herself and her children.Partner's Support:Donna, Danielle's partner, expressing love and acceptance.How Donna's support played a crucial role in Danielle's journey.Personal Reflections on Caitlyn Jenner:Comparisons with Caitlyn Jenner's public transition.Danielle's interest in Caitlyn's assimilation into the transgender community.Navigating Public Perception:Danielle's approach to advocacy – subtly breaking down barriers and being authentic.The importance of representation for younger transgender individuals.Life After Public Scrutiny:Danielle and Donna looking forward to a holiday after a busy period.The couple's shared interests, including shopping.Words of Wisdom:Danielle's reflections on her journey and the importance of authenticity.The role of mature transgender individuals in breaking down barriers for future generations.Conclusion:Courtnei Lee expressing gratitude for Danielle's openness and resilience.Teaser for the next episode with guest Alysia Silberg, the writer of the book "Unemployable."

February 24, 20241 hr 8 min

Episode 4 - Lucas Silveira (Rock, Rolls, Societal Tolls.)

**Introduction:**- Host: Courtnei Lee- Guest: Lucas Silveira**Episode Highlights:**1. **Introduction to Lucas Silveira:** - Lucas Silveira is a musician and trans activist. - He shares his journey, including experiences with gender identity and music.2. **Navigating the Music Industry:** - Lucas talks about his experiences in the music industry. - Mentions the pressure to conform to certain genres and expectations.3. **Authenticity in Artistry:** - Lucas shares a pivotal moment when the producer suggested a "click song." - Discusses the struggle of conforming versus staying true to his authentic self. - Emphasizes the importance of following one's truth as an artist.4. **Body Image and Self-Acceptance:** - Lucas reflects on the challenges of body image, dysphoria, and societal expectations. - Shares a transformative moment through a photograph taken by Tanya Tiziana. - Discusses the complexity of body acceptance, societal standards, and detaching from harmful norms.5. **Evolution and Representation:** - Courtnei Lee expresses gratitude for Lucas's evolution in music and the inspiration it provides. - Discusses the importance of representation, especially in the context of body positivity and diverse narratives. - Highlights upcoming interview with Max Talisman, addressing representation in storytelling.6. **Attraction and Fluidity:** - Lucas shares his experience with changes in attraction after starting testosterone. - Emphasizes the importance of embracing one's unique preferences without conforming to societal norms.7. **Body Positivity and Naming Roles:** - Courtnei Lee discusses the positive practice of naming and showing love to different aspects of one's body. - Lucas shares his journey towards accepting and appreciating his body, including embracing "pudge."8. **Closing Thoughts:** - Lucas expresses appreciation for the conversation and praises Courtnei Lee's podcast. - The episode concludes with a preview of the next guest, Danielle Laidley, an Australian football legend with a unique coming-out story.

February 16, 202452 min

Episode 3 - Chris Sapphire (Are you there god... or whatever you are?)

Introduction:Courtnei Lee introduces the episode and expresses excitement about having Chris Sapphire as a guest.Brief background on Chris Sapphire's career, personality, and influence in the LGBTQ+ community.Segment 1: Chris Sapphire's Journey:Chris shares personal anecdotes about his experiences and interactions with Alyssa Edwards, highlighting her energy and impact on his life.The camaraderie between Chris, Courtnei Lee, and other friends, emphasizing the humor and spontaneity in their friendship.Chris talks about religion and the importance it has played in his life.Segment 2: Mental Health Advocacy:Chris delves into his advocacy for mental health, discussing his own struggles and emphasizing the importance of hope.Mentions Dr. Caroline Lee and neuroplasticity, encouraging listeners to seek spirituality and science for mental well-being.Inspiring messages about overcoming dark times and the power of the mind.Segment 3: LGBTQ+ Representation:Reflecting on the significance of LGBTQ+ representation in the media.Chris and Courtnei Lee discuss their roles as advocates and the importance of staying true to oneself.The impact of public opinions on mental health and the advice to focus on personal goals rather than external judgments.Segment 4: Rapid-Fire Food Game:Courtnei Lee presents a rapid-fire "What Would You Rather" game focused on food preferences.Chris Sapphire shares his preferences on various food items, adding a fun and light-hearted touch to the episode.Conclusion:Acknowledgment of the importance of mental health battles within the LGBTQ+ community.Gratitude expressed for Chris Sapphire's openness, humor, and valuable insights.A preview of the next episode with Lucas Silveira, lead singer of The Clicks.Outro:Closing remarks, thanking the audience for tuning in and encouraging them to stay strong.Inviting feedback, comments, and suggestions for future episodes.