Dealing with the Latest Financial Trend: Spending Your Kids’ Inheritance
Dealing with the Latest Financial Trend: Spending Your Kids’ Inheritance Episode 388 – Financial trends come and go, but the latest, “SKI,” or Spending Kids’ Inheritance, is likely to have a lasting impact. Are you prepared? There are some ways to learn how to “SKI” without getting hurt. More SML Planning Minute Podcast Episodes Transcript of Podcast Episode 388 Hello, this is Bill Rainaldi, with another edition of Security Mutual’s SML Planning Minute. In today’s episode, dealing with the latest financial trend: spending your kids’ inheritance. Have you heard of the latest movement in personal finance? It’s called “SKI,” or “Spending Kids’ Inheritance.” Not surprisingly, it can create conflict across generations. It wasn’t that long ago that people commonly followed the same financial plan: save money during your high earning years, spend carefully during retirement, and leave a decent inheritance for your kids so that they can live a better life than you did. But according to a recent article in Kiplinger, those plans are changing. Rather than focusing on what they’ll eventually leave behind, more people are trying to spend their money while they’re still here to enjoy it. Today, new retirees are spending more on experiences, including “bucket list” travel.[1] In many ways, it’s simply recognizing that your health, longevity and energy levels are going to run out someday, and maybe it’s best to experience some fun while you still have the chance. And it’s having an effect on the travel industry. The trend has become noticeable enough that it’s “beginning to reshape how affluent travelers are spending their money on luxury travel.”[2] It’s understandable why this is happening. As we’ve documented in previous episodes, longevity is on the rise. But there’s also evidence to suggest that healthspans aren’t keeping up. Healthspan can be defined as the number of years a person lives a “healthy, active, disease-free life.”[3] Research by the World Health Organization indicates that there’s a growing disparity between lifespan and healthspan. The average gap between lifespan and healthspan is estimated at approximately 12.5 years in the United States, which is 13 percent higher than it was in the year 2000. In other words, over time, people are gaining extra years of life faster than they are gaining years of good health.[4] Perhaps one other reason for the upswing in SKI is that a surprising number of heirs end up wasting their inheritance. According to a recent survey by Texas Tech University and the University of Alabama, a substantial portion of heirs spend all of their inheritance in the first year. By then, a full 42 percent had seen their net worth drop back to or below what it had been before the inheritance.[5] As one of the authors wrote, “This propensity to immediately spend the entire inheritance is high. In fact, it’s higher than with ANY OTHER type of financial windfall (when controlling for windfall size).” There are certainly some risks built into the SKI trend. For one thing, if you’re not careful, you could easily spend your own retirement savings too quickly and be forced to adjust to a lower standard of living. And so many people underestimate the eventual cost of health care and long-term care. Also, it’s easy to let small upgrades in your lifestyle add up to a much bigger problem later on, a phenomenon known as “lifestyle creep.” Kiplinger goes on to suggest some ideas for how to SKI intelligently. First, you need to set a baseline. Not for what you want to spend, but for what you want to keep. This should help maintain some peace of mind for both you and your heirs.[6] Next, they suggest doing some extra budgeting when it comes to travel. Make travel a specific factor in your overall retirement plan. The author also feels that a bucket list trip doesn’t have to be to an exotic place on the other side of the world. It just has to be meaningful. In the long run, a memorable shared experience while you’re living can have a greater impact than a bigger inheritance.[7] And finally, maybe you can still make some gifts to your heirs from time to time. The belief is that a smaller financial gift, at the right time, can have an oversized impact. So can bringing some of your heirs along with you on some of your trips. The memory might end up being more important than the money.[8] An important question remains, however: how to deal with SKI? There’s one potential solution they fail to mention: life insurance. It’s there to provide that extra cushion. If you’ve got enough of it, you can feel free to spend a good chunk of your kids’ inheritance without much guilt. It’s as if you’ve addressed the inheritance part prior to your retirement spending. Purchasing life insurance, and early, can be one of those instances where you really can get the best of both worlds during your working years and in retirement. And as you probably realize, the older you get, the higher life insurance premiums become. So, the sooner you start, the better. Do you have enough life insurance that your heirs will be OK if you decide to go “Skiing?” Your Security Mutual Life insurance agent can help. Your Security Mutual Life insurance agent will augment or assemble your team and coordinate with your attorney and tax professional to review your situation and to determine the insurance plan that will best suit your needs and objectives. [1] Maddox, Choncé. “The SKI Travel Trend Is Reshaping Retirement Spending.” Kiplinger.com. https://www.kiplinger.com/personal-finance/travel/ski-retirement-travel-trend (accessed April 28, 2026). [2] Kompanik, Noreen. “The SKI trend that’s reshaping travel.” GMtoday.com. https://www.gmtoday.com/travel/the-ski-trend-that-s-reshaping-travel/article_07ca7b72-0eb4-43fc-b8ec-e69fef82a694.html (accessed April 29, 2026). [3] Buckles, Susan. “The global divide between longer life and good health.” Mayoclinic.org. https://newsnetwork.mayoclinic.org/discussion/the-global-divide-between-longer-life-and-good-health/ (accessed April 28, 2026). [4] Borst, Heidi. “Longevity In The U.S.: The Gap Between Lifespan and Health Span.” Forbes.com. https://www.forbes.com/health/wellness/longevity-life-expectancy/ (accessed April 28, 2026). [5] Brin, Dinah Wisenberg. “Heirs Beware: 42% Spend Inheritance Within a Year, Study Finds.” Thinkadvisor.com. https://www.thinkadvisor.com/2026/04/07/heirs-beware-42-spend-inheritance-within-a-year-study-finds/ (accessed April 28, 2026). [6] Maddox, Choncé. “The SKI Travel Trend Is Reshaping Retirement Spending.” Kiplinger.com. https://www.kiplinger.com/personal-finance/travel/ski-retirement-travel-trend (accessed April 28, 2026). [7] Id. [8] Id. More SML Planning Minute Podcast Episodes This podcast is brought to you by Security Mutual Life Insurance Company of New York, The Company That Cares®. The content provided is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Information is provided in good faith. However, the Company makes no representation or warranty of any kind regarding the accuracy, reliability, or completeness of the information. The information presented is designed to provide general information regarding the subject matter covered. 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