
Are You a High Performer or Just Highly Performative? | Smith & Mayhew, A-Game Consultancy
What does it really mean to be a high performer? And how do you know when your drive for success is helping you thrive — or leaving you feeling unfulfilled? In this episode of RecTalk, Nitin Sharma sits down with Adam Smith and Adam Mayhew , co-founders of A-Game Consultancy , to explore the relationship between high performance, mindset, health and fulfilment. Smith and Mayhew work with successful men who want to perform at their best without sacrificing their wellbeing, relationships or sense of purpose. They share their own journeys into coaching, including personal experiences with alcohol, health, identity and the search for a more meaningful version of success. The conversation explores why high achievers can struggle to switch off, how the need for approval can shape our decisions, and why the question “Are you a high performer or just highly performative?” might be worth asking yourself. They also discuss: - Why successful men can still feel unfulfilled - The role of beliefs, conditioning and the need for validation - How alcohol, nutrition, sleep and lifestyle can affect performance - The challenges facing millennial men and changing ideas of masculinity - Balancing ambition, family life and personal wellbeing - Male mental health and why asking for help can feel difficult - Coaching tools including breathwork, meditation, journaling and self-reflection - The difference between supporting someone and enabling their behaviour - What fulfilment and success can look like beyond career achievements Smith and Mayhew explain how A-Game Consultancy brings mindset and lifestyle coaching together to help people understand what may be holding them back — and make changes that work for them. WHO THIS EPISODE IS FOR This episode is for recruitment leaders, business owners, entrepreneurs, high achievers and anyone who is ambitious but wants to think more deeply about what success means to them. If you’re constantly striving for the next milestone, finding it hard to switch off, or wondering whether your current definition of success is serving you, this conversation is well worth a listen. GUESTS Adam Smith: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-smith-high-performance-coach/ Adam Mayhew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adammayhew/ Learn more about A-Game Consultancy: https://www.rectools.io/product/a-game/ HOST — Nitin Sharma: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nitin-rectools/ Discover recruitment tools and services: https://www.rectools.io/ GET IN TOUCH WITH THESE RECOMMENDED SUPPLIERS SourceWhale: https://www.sourcewhale.com/?utm_source=Rectools&utm_medium=Youtube&utm_campaign=podcast_TRN_paid_2026h2&utm_content=shownotes Ascen: https://www.ascen.com/rectalk CoRecruit: https://corecruit.com/ Wiggli: https://www.wiggli.io/ Spott: https://spott.io/ Find out more about RecTalk: https://rectalk.co.uk/ ▶ Watch this and every Recruitment Podcast Network show, free: https://recruitmentpodcastnetwork.com #RecTalk #Recruitment #Leadership #HighPerformance #MensMentalHealth #Mindset #Wellbeing #AWindowToSuccess #AGameConsultancy #PersonalDevelopment #RecruitmentIndustry





