
Who Are You Selling To, the Customer or Their AI?
You tell an AI agent where you want to go on holiday, give it a budget, and let it search, compare and book. No salesperson, no brochure, no conversation. So who exactly was the seller selling to? That’s the question Alan and Bhairav wrestle with in this episode. If agents start doing the buying, does everything we know about selling go out of the window? Or does it make the human side of selling more valuable than ever? We didn’t fully agree, which is half the fun. Thoughts and Conclusions Your facts are now table stakes. If an agent is doing the searching, the basics of what you offer have to be out there, clear and easy to find. If it isn’t stated, as far as the AI is concerned it doesn’t exist. Sell the qualities, not just the specs. Facts get you onto the shortlist, but the qualitative and emotive parts of your offer are what make someone choose you. Generic, AI-generated copy promising to “save 80%” won’t do that job. Efficient isn’t the same as effective. Alan remembers a time when a letter took days to get a reply, so every word was considered. Email made communication faster, but not necessarily better. AI may follow the same pattern, unless we use the time it saves to have better conversations at the point where it matters. The line between “AI can handle this” and “you need a human” is moving. Commodity sales, such as tickets, food, hotel rooms, look set to be automated, while anything involving judgement, atmosphere or fit should keep a human in the loop. Alan described ChatGPT telling him which part of Barbados would suit him better. If AI is already making qualitative calls, where does your business sit? What about reviews? Today we lean on reviews for the qualitative side, but reviews are weighted, gamed and inconsistent. If an agent is reading them on your customer’s behalf, how much should it trust them, and how much should you rely on them? And who’s watching? Alan points out how much talk there now is at government level about controlling AI. That might be the clearest sign yet that people are realising how fast this is moving. Where We Disagreed Is this just digital all over again? Alan: AI feels like the move to digital and the dot-com boom. Both were exciting and terrifying, and both turned out to be brilliant in parts and horrendous in others. Bhairav: Digital made information easier to reach, but we stayed in control. With AI, the bit we least understand is the loss of control. Who stays in the loop? Alan: People buy from people. A friend who runs a travel agency isn’t worried, because she adds the personal touch that AI can’t. Bhairav: That’s true until agents are talking to agents with access to bank accounts and credit cards. At that point the human isn’t in the loop at all. Who adapts to whom? Alan: Technology will ultimately bend around human behaviour. Bhairav: We’re already changing our behaviour for AI, right down to the way we write and communicate. One Thing to Try This Week Ask an AI tool to find a business like yours, the way a customer might. Does it find you? Are your facts right? And does anything of what makes you different come through, or do you look like everyone else? Memorable Quotes “People buy from people. In a world where everyone is using AI to take the human out of selling, putting the human back in might be your biggest differentiator.” Alan “There’s no way for us to capture all the nuance of how we feel in data.” Bhairav “You can make things incredibly efficient, but that doesn’t mean they’re effective.” Alan “If everyone’s leaving it to agents talking to agents, with access to bank accounts and credit cards, the human isn’t anywhere in that loop.” Bhairav “Technology will ultimately adapt around human behaviour, rather than human behaviour adapting around the technology.” Alan Listen to the Full Episode We don’t claim to have the answers, but if you sell anything to anyone, this is a conversation worth having. Listen to the full episode, then tell us in the comments: are you selling to the customer, or to their AI? Real World Entrepreneurship is co-hosted by Bhairav Patel and Alan Clarke of The Business Growth Partnership (tbgp.co.uk).











