Purpose Under Pressure

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Purpose Under Pressure is a podcast about developing Sales and Leadership Success…on Purpose and under Pressure. Each week we'll air short monologue's with strategies, analogies and stories meant to inspire sales, marketing and business professionals. We'll also feature weekly high-impact interviews with Sandler sales trainers, and long form interviews with business leaders who have been there and done that, under pressure. Purpose Under Pressure is brought to you by The Ruby Group/Sandler Training in Akron and in Columbus, Ohio, Jacksonville, Florida and Capital Region, NY. Visit https://www.therubygroup.sandler.com/ for more information.

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September 3, 202613 min

Expanding Your Comfort Zone, On Purpose with Lisa Carmichael

What if the best person for your organization isn't the person with the perfect résumé? Sometimes the qualities that eventually make someone indispensable aren't obvious in an interview. They emerge when someone is given an opportunity, earns trust, stretches beyond what they've done before and discovers they're capable of much more. In this episode of Purpose Under Pressure, host Bryan Lefelhoc, founder of Bryan Media Strategies , talks with Lisa Carmichael, Director of Client Success at Sandler by the Ruby Group. Lisa's career didn't follow an obvious path. In this episode she opens up about imposter syndrome, stepping outside of her comfort zone, and creating a space for herself to make a huge impact in her organization. For leaders, Lisa's story is also a reminder to pay attention to what people can become. And for anyone wondering whether they're ready for their own next step, remember: confidence doesn't have to come first. Sometimes you build it by doing the thing you're not quite sure you're ready to do. Purpose Under Pressure is brought to you in partnership with Sandler by the Ruby Group , serving sales professionals and sales organizations nationwide from their locations in Akron and Columbus, Ohio, in Capital Region, New York, and in Jacksonville, Florida Key Takeaways: — Hire beyond the résumé. Look for resilience, curiosity, communication and the ability to grow. — Expand your comfort zone. Each small stretch makes the next challenge feel more manageable. — Build confidence through action. Set goals, follow through and let success create belief. — Let trust build trust. Greater responsibility can strengthen both confidence and capability. — Expect imposter syndrome. Growth often means doing things before you feel completely ready. — Ask better questions. Clarify expectations early instead of figuring everything out along the way. — Keep looking for potential. The person you hired for one job may be capable of something much bigger. ——————- Helpful Links: Lisa Carmichael, Sandler by the Ruby Group: https://go.sandler.com/therubygroup/ Bryan Lefelhoc, Owner, Bryan Media Strategies: https://www.bryanmediastrategies.com/

August 31, 20267 min

Leadership Means Challenging Others to Grow

What if the best person for the next opportunity is already on your team? They may have been hired to fill one particular need, but that doesn’t mean it’s the limit of what they can contribute. Great leadership means noticing the people who consistently show up, deliver, and demonstrate that if they are good at what they do, maybe they can do more. In this episode of Purpose Under Pressure, host Bryan Lefelhoc, founder of Bryan Media Strategies , challenges leaders to look beyond job titles and current responsibilities to see the potential sitting right in front of them. Bryan shares real examples of people who were given opportunities outside the roles they were originally hired to perform, and what happened when someone was willing to take a chance on them. Leadership requires recognizing talent, challenging people to stretch and encouraging others to step up and out of their comfort zone. Purpose Under Pressure is brought to you in partnership with Sandler by the Ruby Group , serving sales professionals and sales organizations nationwide from their locations in Akron and Columbus, Ohio, in Capital Region, New York, and in Jacksonville, Florida Key Takeaways: — Look beyond the job title. The role someone was hired for may not reflect everything they can do. — Notice who consistently delivers. Reliability and initiative can be signs that someone is ready for more. — Remember your own opportunity. Most leaders got where they are because someone once took a chance on them. — Challenge your best people. Give strong performers opportunities to stretch beyond their normal responsibilities. — Hire talent when you see it. Sometimes the right person matters more than whether you currently have an opening. — Don’t give up after one miss. Someone who struggles with a new challenge may simply need another opportunity. — See what others can't yet see. Leadership means recognizing potential before it becomes obvious. ——————- Helpful Links: Sandler by the Ruby Group: https://go.sandler.com/therubygroup/ Bryan Lefelhoc, Owner, Bryan Media Strategies: https://www.bryanmediastrategies.com/

August 27, 202615 min

Building Business Acumen On Purpose with Doug Whittington

Walking into a sales meeting without doing your homework is exactly what every other salesperson does. Just a little bit of pre-call knowledge makes a big difference in how you present yourself. It means you know enough to understand what matters to them, and it prepares you to ask better questions when you get there. In this episode of Purpose Under Pressure, host Bryan Lefelhoc, founder of Bryan Media Strategies , talks with Doug Whittington, Partner and Trainer at Sandler by the Ruby Group, about business acumen and why it can separate a professional salesperson from everyone else competing for a buyer’s attention. Doug explains that product knowledge is important, but business acumen goes further: understanding how a company makes money, who its customers are, what is happening in its industry, and what pressures may be influencing its decisions. He also shares a simple “15-Minute Challenge” that can dramatically change the quality of the conversation. Purpose Under Pressure is brought to you in partnership with Sandler by the Ruby Group , serving sales professionals and sales organizations nationwide from their locations in Akron and Columbus, Ohio, in Capital Region, New York, and in Jacksonville, Florida Key Takeaways: — Know how your prospect makes money. You don’t need to understand every detail of the business, but you should understand its basic revenue model, customers and priorities. — Research the industry before the meeting. Look for market pressures, changes, opportunities or challenges that could be affecting the company. — Don’t use research to prove how smart you are. Use what you learn to develop better questions and let the prospect explain how an issue is actually affecting the business. — Never assume an industry trend affects every company the same way. Instead of saying, “I bet tariffs are hurting you,” acknowledge what is happening and ask whether it is affecting them. — Earn equal business stature. Preparing enough to discuss business priorities can give you the confidence and credibility to have meaningful conversations with CEOs, CFOs and other senior decision-makers. — Try the 15-Minute Challenge before your next important sales call: research for 10 minutes, then spend five minutes writing three or four business-focused questions you want to ask. — Create a pre-call plan instead of winging it. Know what you want to accomplish, your desired outcome, the questions you want to ask, and the questions you expect the buyer may ask you. ——————- Helpful Links: Doug Whittington, Sandler by the Ruby Group: https://go.sandler.com/therubygroup/ Bryan Lefelhoc, Owner, Bryan Media Strategies: https://www.bryanmediastrategies.com/

August 25, 202638 min

Solving the Veteran's Identity Crisis, with Michele McManamon

For many veterans, leaving the military means much more than changing careers. It means walking away from the uniform, structure, community and identity that have defined them for years. The question suddenly becomes much bigger than “What job do I want?” It becomes “Who am I now?” In this episode of Purpose Under Pressure, host Bryan Lefelhoc, founder of Bryan Media Strategies , welcomes Michele McManamon, CEO of Operation New Uniform, a career-readiness organization helping veterans, transitioning service members and military spouses successfully move into meaningful civilian careers. Michele explains why ONU focuses on careers rather than simply jobs, and why finding purpose after military service can be such an important part of that transition. Michele also shares how Sandler's Identity/Role Theory became foundational to ONU's work. Veterans learn to separate who they are from the uniform and roles they've held, then use Sandler's attitude, behavior and technique framework to approach their next career with confidence and purpose. Purpose Under Pressure is brought to you in partnership with Sandler by the Ruby Group , serving sales professionals and sales organizations nationwide from their locations in Akron and Columbus, Ohio, in Capital Region, New York, and in Jacksonville, Florida Key Takeaways: — Separate identity from role. Losing the uniform shouldn't mean losing your sense of who you are. — Look beyond the résumé. Military experience may not translate neatly on paper, but the underlying skills can be incredibly valuable. — Hire for proven behaviors. Veterans bring discipline, adaptability, responsibility and experience solving problems under pressure. — Don't prescribe the next career. Help veterans discover what they actually want to do instead of assuming their military specialty should dictate their future. — Build attitude before technique. Interview skills work better when confidence, identity and mindset are addressed first. — Create connections. Employers and veterans both benefit when someone helps bridge the gap between military experience and civilian opportunities. — Give people purpose, not just employment. A meaningful career can help veterans build a new chapter they genuinely want to wake up for. ——————- Helpful Links: Michele McManamon, Operation New Uniform: www.onuvets.org Sandler by the Ruby Group: https://go.sandler.com/therubygroup/ Bryan Lefelhoc, Owner, Bryan Media Strategies: https://www.bryanmediastrategies.com/

August 24, 20266 min

Why Salespeople Need to Just Shut Up!

Talking too much can feel like a strength in sales. You know your product. You’ve done your homework. You have experience. You see the problem, and you’re ready to explain exactly how you can fix it. But sometimes the most valuable thing a salesperson can bring to a conversation is knowing when to shut up. In this episode of Purpose Under Pressure, host Bryan Lefelhoc, founder of Bryan Media Strategies , takes aim at one of his own biggest flaws: his tendency to talk too much. It’s also something most salespeople struggle with too, if they take the time to realize it. When salespeople rush to demonstrate everything they know, they can miss the opportunity to understand what actually matters to the person sitting across from them. Preparation and business knowledge are important, but they should help you ask better questions, understand the client’s world, and earn trust, not to dominate the conversation. Purpose Under Pressure is brought to you in partnership with Sandler by the Ruby Group , serving sales professionals and sales organizations nationwide from their locations in Akron and Columbus, Ohio, in Capital Region, New York, and in Jacksonville, Florida Key Takeaways: — Expertise doesn’t require a demonstration. Just because you know something doesn’t mean you need to prove it. — When a prospect starts talking about the real problem, stop talking. That’s the information you came to get. — Don’t assume you already know the answer. Even when you’ve seen similar situations before, this customer’s circumstances may be different. Let them finish the story before deciding what it means. — Do your homework before the sales call. Learn about the company, the industry, the people and the issues they may be facing. Preparation allows you to ask better questions and understand the answers. — Use business knowledge to build trust, not impress people. Clients appreciate someone who understands their world. They don’t need a salesperson reciting everything they know about it. — Ask questions instead of delivering information. When you feel yourself preparing to explain what you know, turn that knowledge into a question that gets the prospect talking. — Let the client teach you how to sell to them. Listen long enough and prospects will often tell you what matters, why it matters and what they need from you to serve them well. ——————- Helpful Links: Sandler by the Ruby Group: https://go.sandler.com/therubygroup/ Bryan Lefelhoc, Owner, Bryan Media Strategies: https://www.bryanmediastrategies.com/

August 20, 202614 min

Improving Your Batting Average, On Purpose with Pat McManamon

Failure is part of sales. But when rejection happens over and over again, simply telling yourself to “get back up” can wear thin. The real challenge is learning how to keep doing the work when the results aren’t coming, before our attitude starts taking the hit. In this episode of Purpose Under Pressure, host Bryan Lefelhoc, founder of Bryan Media Strategies , welcomes Pat McManamon, Partner and Trainer with Sandler by the Ruby Group, to explore Sandler’s Success Triangle: Behavior, Attitude and Technique. Pat explains why success begins with behavior, and why consistent activity can ultimately change how a salesperson feels and performs. They dig into why sales leaders should focus on leading indicators instead of simply rewarding closed deals, and how a consistent sales process helps identify where performance is actually breaking down. Pat also explains why an anemic pipeline can create pressure that hurts attitude and technique, making it even harder to succeed. Purpose Under Pressure is brought to you in partnership with Sandler by the Ruby Group , serving sales professionals and sales organizations nationwide from their locations in Akron and Columbus, Ohio, in Capital Region, New York, and in Jacksonville, Florida Key Takeaways: — Don’t wait until you feel motivated to prospect. Commit to the behavior first; consistent activity helps create the attitude you need to keep going. — Build your sales behaviors backward from your goals. — Change the definition of a successful prospecting day. — Measure leading indicators you can control, not just lagging results. Closed deals and revenue matter, but sales leaders should also manage and recognize consistent activity. — Give a new mix of prospecting behaviors enough time to produce useful data. — Use a repeatable sales system to diagnose technique problems. — Protect your pipeline because scarcity creates pressure. When one deal feels like it has to close because nothing else is coming, that pressure can hurt attitude and technique. ——————- Helpful Links: Pat McManamon, Sandler by the Ruby Group: https://go.sandler.com/therubygroup/ Bryan Lefelhoc, Owner, Bryan Media Strategies: https://www.bryanmediastrategies.com/

August 17, 20268 min

Keeping The Promises You Make to Yourself

You put it on the calendar because it matters. Prospecting. Making the calls. Writing the notes. Doing the important work that matters. But then, something more urgent comes along. So you move that block. Then you move it again. You break the promise you made to yourself to get it done. In this episode of Purpose Under Pressure, host Bryan Lefelhoc, founder of Bryan Media Strategies , asks which promises are we ok not keeping. Turns out, the promises we make to ourselves don’t seem to stand up to the pressures that come each day to knock us off of our path. Your calendar may reveal more than how you spend your time. It may reveal which promises you consider breakable. Let’s learn to respect ourselves enough to do what we say we’re going to do. Because doing the behavior isn’t the hard part. Keeping your promise to yourself is. Purpose Under Pressure is brought to you in partnership with Sandler by the Ruby Group , serving sales professionals and sales organizations nationwide from their locations in Akron and Columbus, Ohio, in Capital Region, New York, and in Jacksonville, Florida Key Takeaways: — Putting an important behavior on your calendar is a promise to yourself. Keep it. — Schedule the behaviors that create results, then do the behaviors on schedule. — Important work is easy to postpone because it often doesn’t feel urgent today. — Continually moving calendar blocks teaches you to ignore your own commitments. — The important eventually becomes urgent when you repeatedly fail to do the work that matters. — Time-management tools only work when you actually honor the time you’ve scheduled. — Treat appointments with yourself with the same respect you would give an important client. ——————- Helpful Links: Sandler by the Ruby Group: https://go.sandler.com/therubygroup/ Bryan Lefelhoc, Owner, Bryan Media Strategies: https://www.bryanmediastrategies.com/

August 13, 202616 min

Don't Be Afraid to Dig for Real Pain, On Purpose, with Matt Rocco

The best salespeople know their real job starts long before the solution. When buyers only describe what's happening, they're rarely motivated to act. Real momentum comes when they understand what those problems are truly costing them. And when we say “costing”, we aren’t just talking about money. In this episode of Purpose Under Pressure, host Bryan Lefelhoc, founder of Bryan Media Strategies , sits down with Matt Rocco of Sandler by the Ruby Group to talk about uncovering and quantifying pain. Matt explains why surface-level conversations lead to price shopping, how deeper questions create urgency, and why the goal to to help your buyer decide whether change is truly necessary. By asking better questions, professional sellers will uncover the real consequences buyers are experiencing, from financial loss to lost sleep and career concerns. If it’s not causing enough of an issue, or real pain, then maybe they don’t need what you’re selling. Or maybe you just didn’t finish the job. Purpose Under Pressure is brought to you in partnership with Sandler by the Ruby Group , serving sales professionals and sales organizations nationwide from their locations in Akron and Columbus, Ohio, in Capital Region, New York, and in Jacksonville, Florida Key Takeaways: — Surface problems rarely create urgency. Buyers often describe symptoms, but meaningful decisions happen when you uncover the real impact behind them. — Ask far more questions than you think you need. Most sales conversations include surprisingly few questions, leaving important motivations undiscovered. — Emotional pain drives action. Logical reasons justify a purchase, but emotional consequences often determine when buyers finally move forward. — Differentiate yourself through curiosity, not presentations. The salesperson willing to ask thoughtful questions stands apart from competitors focused on pricing. — Set expectations before asking difficult questions. Earning permission to discuss sensitive topics makes deeper conversations feel collaborative rather than intrusive. — Don't become more invested than the buyer. If the seller is more bothered by the problem than the buyer is, you haven’t qualified the opportunity properly. ——————- Helpful Links: Matt Rocco, Sandler by the Ruby Group: https://go.sandler.com/therubygroup/ Bryan Lefelhoc, Owner, Bryan Media Strategies: https://www.bryanmediastrategies.com/

August 10, 20269 min

Earning the Right to Be "Pushy"

Being pushy isn't the problem. Pushing for the wrong reasons is. Professional salespeople earn the right to challenge assumptions, ask one more question, and make sure every decision is made for the right reasons. That's not manipulation. That's called being a friend. In this episode of Purpose Under Pressure, host Bryan Lefelhoc, founder of Bryan Media Strategies , explores why persistence has become such a misunderstood part of professional selling. Expertise creates responsibility. When you genuinely believe you can help someone, walking away too quickly isn't always the right answer. Professional salespeople don't earn trust by talking people into something they don't need. They earn it by caring enough to slow down, dig deeper, and help buyers make better decisions. That's the difference between being remembered as a pushy salesperson and being remembered as a trusted advisor. Purpose Under Pressure is brought to you in partnership with Sandler by the Ruby Group , serving sales professionals and sales organizations nationwide from their locations in Akron and Columbus, Ohio, in Capital Region, New York, and in Jacksonville, Florida Key Takeaways: — Persistence becomes professional when it's motivated by the customer's best interest. — A salesperson's responsibility is to ensure buyers understand what they're saying no to. — Surface objections rarely reveal the real reason someone buys. — Asking deeper questions uncovers problems worth solving. — A quick "yes" deserves just as much scrutiny as a quick "no." — Trust is earned before a salesperson has the right to challenge a buyer. — Great salespeople help customers make the right decision, even if that means slowing the sale down. ——————- Helpful Links: Sandler by the Ruby Group: https://go.sandler.com/therubygroup/ Bryan Lefelhoc, Owner, Bryan Media Strategies: https://www.bryanmediastrategies.com/

August 6, 202615 min

Wake Up Your Dormant CRM, On Purpose with Victoria Wojnicz

Hidden inside most CRMs are former customers, stalled opportunities, and forgotten conversations that could become tomorrow's easiest wins. Instead of treating a CRM like a digital filing cabinet, businesses can turn it into a strategic revenue tool by focusing on quality, intentional follow-up, and the customers who already know and trust them In this episode of Purpose Under Pressure, host Bryan Lefelhoc, founder of Bryan Media Strategies , welcomes Victoria Wojnicz, Director of Revenue Operations at Sandler by the Ruby Group, to discuss how organizations can generate more revenue without simply buying more leads. Drawing on her background in sales, operations, CRM management, and revenue strategy, Victoria explains why process, discipline, and intentional CRM management often outperform endless prospecting. Victoria explains how dormant accounts, past customers, and "no for now" prospects frequently represent overlooked opportunities. Rather than conducting a massive cleanup for its own sake, she recommends building a strategy around ideal client profiles, segmenting contacts intelligently, maintaining updated decision-maker information, and giving every worthwhile relationship a future next step. Purpose Under Pressure is brought to you in partnership with Sandler by the Ruby Group , serving sales professionals and sales organizations nationwide from their locations in Akron and Columbus, Ohio, in Capital Region, New York, and in Jacksonville, Florida Key Takeaways: — Your CRM should be treated as a revenue strategy, not simply a contact database. — Former customers and dormant opportunities are often easier to win back than finding brand-new prospects. — "No for now" rarely means "no forever," making scheduled follow-up an essential sales habit. — CRM cleanup should focus on strengthening your ideal client profile rather than simply reducing the number of records. — Sales teams should be able to clearly identify exactly who their ideal customer is before worrying about prospect volume. — Segmenting contacts with searchable, meaningful data makes outreach more relevant and productive. — The best sales process combines intentional strategy, disciplined CRM management, and consistent follow-up—not just more activity. ——————- Helpful Links: Victoria Wojnicz, Sandler by the Ruby Group: https://go.sandler.com/therubygroup/ Bryan Lefelhoc, Owner, Bryan Media Strategies: https://www.bryanmediastrategies.com/