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Are you an ambitious attorney who wants to build a life and career that you cannot wait to wake up for? Then you're in the right place. Welcome to Powerhouse Lawyers, a podcast for the Powerhouse in each of us. I am your host, Erin Gerner. A former lawyer, wife, mom, and life coach, and I am on a mission to empower women in the law to define success on their terms, by leveraging their unique superpowers to help them win in both law and life. Join me each week to hear inspiring stories, real talk, and practical tips. You need to redefine the toxic narratives that are keeping women overwhelmed, trying to do it all. You are worthy and capable of building a life and career that you have always wanted, and I'm here to empower you along the way. So if you are ready to practice law differently, let's go.

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October 22, 2026Episode 12443 min

Don't F'ing Shrink, with Daffney Allwein

Daffney Allwein has spent more than a decade inside large law firms watching some of the highest performing people in the country run themselves into the ground. Her words for it: lawyers have made burnout an art form. She's a performance physiologist and the founder of Lift Pro Wellness, where she works with partners, senior partners, and executives who show up at a crossroads. She also went back to school at American University for executive leadership coaching, which means she stopped meeting her clients only at the level of their bodies and started meeting them at the level of their nervous systems too. Her coaching happens while you're moving. No sitting in a room talking about your feelings. This conversation gets into what chronic stress actually does to a body, why the signals are so easy to misread, and what it takes to get off a pace you set for yourself. In this episode we cover: Why she fell for the law firm population and never left What lawyers are actually coming to her for, and why it's almost never what they say it is The bear that isn't chasing you Why law school wires a nervous system for threat, starting day one What a dysregulated nervous system actually looks like, from sleep to digestion to posture Why she asks hard questions during balance exercises, and what happens next Chronic stress, autoimmune issues, and what shifts for women in their forties Set priorities, not goals, and why goals can't hold you to anything The room full of powerful women that gave her podcast its name Why asking for help is so hard when your whole job is being the expert Connect with Daffney Allwein: Website: liftprowellness.com Instagram: @daffneyallwein Podcast: Don't F**ing Shrink, available on YouTube and everywhere you listen Work with Erin Gerner: Erin coaches high-achieving female attorneys who are successful on paper but struggling with burnout, identity, and what's next, helping them redefine success on their own terms. Book a connection call: https://calendly.com/eringerner/connectioncall Stay connected with Erin Gerner: Website: eringerner.com LinkedIn: Erin Gerner Instagram: @eringerner Facebook: Erin Gerner Don't forget to subscribe to Powerhouse Lawyers wherever you listen. And if this episode gave you something, leave a rating and a review. It takes about a minute and it's the single biggest thing that puts this show in front of the next lawyer who needs to hear it.

October 15, 2026Episode 12344 min

The Difference Between a Good Prosecutor and a Bad One

Jennifer Long never planned to leave the Philadelphia DA's office. She was an assistant district attorney handling child sexual abuse, adult sexual assault, stalking, and exploitation cases, and she calls it the best job she's ever had. She expected to be in that unit for life. Then life made leaving the only option, and she cried about it in her boss's office. What she built from there is the first and only nonprofit in the country dedicated to training and equipping prosecutors who handle sexual violence, intimate partner violence, stalking, and human trafficking. Since co-founding AEquitas in 2009, Jennifer and her team of former prosecutors have trained more than 220,000 legal and allied professionals across all fifty states and around the world. This conversation is about heavy work, honest leadership, and what happens when the path you planned disappears underneath you. In this episode we cover: The thing she kept hearing from survivors that made her want to become a prosecutor in the first place What it's like to cut your teeth in a packed Philadelphia courtroom against the best defense attorneys in the city Why she says getting humbled early is a gift Leaving the job she loved before she was ready, and what came after Teresa Scalzo, the legend who gave her a seat at the national table Founding AEquitas with no credit history, no track record, and partners who took grants on their behalf to make it exist What AEquitas actually does, from a single legal question before trial to building a community's entire response The Supreme Court line at the core of their work: strike hard blows, not foul ones Why she wants her team to be brutal with her internally How she thinks about the long road, and the emergency room versus the research institute What she misses about the courtroom Her advice for any lawyer whose path just disappeared underneath them A legally blonde moment involving her very first preliminary hearing Connect with Jennifer Long and AEquitas: Website: aequitasresource.org Podcasts: Just Champions and The Traffic Report Also at AEquitas: the National Resource Center on Cybercrimes Against Individuals, and SPARC, the Stalking Prevention, Awareness, and Resource Center Work with Erin Gerner: Erin coaches high-achieving female attorneys who are successful on paper but struggling with burnout, identity, and what's next, helping them redefine success on their own terms. Book a connection call: https://calendly.com/eringerner/connectioncall Stay connected with Erin Gerner: Website: eringerner.com LinkedIn: Erin Gerner Instagram: @eringerner Facebook: Erin Gerner Don't forget to subscribe to Powerhouse Lawyers wherever you listen.

October 1, 2026Episode 12257 min

She Runs a Law Firm From the Beach With No Billable Hours

Ariella Cohen Coleman was going to work in fashion. She wanted to be a Bloomingdale's buyer. Then her dad was diagnosed with stage four colon cancer when she was thirteen, and he died when she was seventeen, and by the time she got to college her entire world had reoriented around advocacy. She went to law school to fix healthcare. Not to practice law. To fix the system that had her mother spending every day of her father's illness fighting insurance companies just to get covered care covered. Then she got sick herself, got told never to talk about it professionally, and spent years believing she was the only lawyer in the country with a complex health history. Today she's the founder of The Wellness Esquire and host of its podcast, and she runs Ariella Law with no billable hours from beaches around the world. In this episode we cover: Why she went to law school with no intention of ever practicing Watching her mom become her first example of an advocate Getting diagnosed during her first year of law school and what she learned about staying safe Six concussions, and the one that finally made her stop Working through a concussion for a month because stopping felt like weakness How boredom turned into the first real questions she'd ever asked herself Being told never to discuss her health professionally, and what happened when she finally did The law student who messaged her after that first post, and where she is now Why we're too quiet about the options, and how many ways there actually are to be a lawyer Her two pieces of advice for any lawyer who knows something is wrong Building a firm with no billable hours, chosen clients, and a written mistakes policy The Wellness Esquire directory and why community is the missing piece Connect with Ariella Cohen Coleman: Website: thewellnessesquire.com Also: ariellacohencoleman.com LinkedIn: Ariella Cohen Coleman Podcast: The Wellness Esquire, available everywhere and on YouTube Work with Erin Gerner: Erin coaches high-achieving female attorneys who are successful on paper but struggling with burnout, identity, and what's next, helping them redefine success on their own terms. 📅 Book a connection call: https://calendly.com/eringerner/connectioncall Stay connected with Erin Gerner: Website: eringerner.com LinkedIn: Erin Gerner Instagram: @eringerner Facebook: Erin Gerner Don't forget to subscribe to Powerhouse Lawyers wherever you listen. 🎙️

September 24, 2026Episode 12142 min

She Offered to Quit. They Said Get Another Nanny: with Jessie Brown

Jessie Brown wanted to be a writer. She was an English major doing an MFA in creative nonfiction when she lost both of her parents and realized she had no financial safety net. So she did the practical thing and went to law school. That pattern, choosing the safe path over the one that actually fit, followed her for the next two decades. It picked her practice area. It kept her in litigation long after her body was telling her something was wrong. It even had her enrolled in a backup master's program while she was already building the business she actually wanted. Today Jessie is a coach and retreat facilitator working with attorneys at every stage, from brand new associates to partners planning their exit. She's also a trained forest bathing guide, sound healer, breathwork facilitator, and meditation teacher, and she leads nature-based retreats in Sedona. This conversation is about what it takes to finally stop letting fear pick your life for you. In this episode we cover: Why she chose law school after losing both parents and having no safety net The senior partner who told a room of young female associates the truth about how she "had it all" The annual review where she offered to resign and was told to hire a second nanny Leaving, staying home, moving across the country, and sitting for a second bar exam on her own dime The deposition that made her physically ill and changed her practice area Stepping down from the partner track and taking a pay cut to do work that fit her The Clifton Strengths result that finally explained why everything felt so hard Being the unofficial office therapist for her entire career and what it was telling her The safety-seeking part of her that picks every path, and how she learned to spot it What actually happens to a nervous system on a retreat, and why in-person still matters Connect with Jessie Brown: Website: jessiebrown.org Email: jessie@jessiebrown.org LinkedIn: Jessie Brown Podcast: Aligned Work with Erin Gerner: Erin coaches high-achieving female attorneys who are successful on paper but struggling with burnout, identity, and what's next, helping them redefine success on their own terms. 📅 Book a connection call: https://calendly.com/eringerner/connectioncall Stay connected with Erin Gerner: Website: eringerner.com LinkedIn: Erin Gerner Instagram: @eringerner Facebook: Erin Gerner Don't forget to subscribe to Powerhouse Lawyers wherever you listen. 🎙️

September 17, 2026Episode 12042 min

Lawyer. Reality Star. Public Defender. Sydney Segal Refuses to Pick Just One

Sydney Segal is a lot of things. Brooklyn Law grad. Public defender in New York. Survivor 41 competitor. Runner-up on The Challenge: Vets and New Threats. Former Division I track athlete and California state cross-country champion. Five-language speaker. Solo backpacker through 60+ countries. And someone who has figured out how to be all of those things at once — without apologizing for any of them. She didn't stumble into this life. She built it deliberately, starting with two gap years, a very clear sense of what she didn't want, and the willingness to bet on herself before anyone told her she was allowed to. This episode is about what it looks like to refuse the box — and actually pull it off. In this episode we cover: Why she took two gap years before law school — and why she'd tell every young lawyer to do the same How she ended up on Survivor during a COVID semester and never looked back The comp day strategy that made reality TV possible — twice — without leaving her job Why she chose public defense over big law and has never once regretted it What it actually feels like to be on reality TV — and what it exposed about herself she didn't expect How being a D1 athlete shaped how she handles the mental weight of criminal defense work Her rule for the work phone: it stays home, every time, no guilt What she means when she calls it a life resume — not a bucket list "Bet on yourself" — what that actually looked like in practice before she had a safety net Leaving for China solo in ten days to check off her seventh wonder of the world Connect with Sydney HERE Work with Erin Gerner: Erin coaches high-achieving female attorneys who are successful on paper but struggling with burnout, identity, and what's next — helping them redefine success on their own terms. 📅 Book a connection call: https://calendly.com/eringerner/connectioncall Stay connected with Erin Gerner: Website: eringerner.com LinkedIn: Erin Gerner Instagram: @eringerner Facebook: Erin Gerner Don't forget to subscribe to Powerhouse Lawyers wherever you listen. 🎙️

July 23, 2026Episode 1191 hr 19 min

ICU Nurse. Big Law Attorney. Now Building the Life She Actually Wants

Tatyana Norman Webler graduated nursing school in May 2020 — straight into the COVID pandemic. She spent three years as an ICU nurse watching the healthcare system fail patients in real time, asking why the left hand never talked to the right hand, and wondering if there was a way to fix it. Then she went to law school. She graduated — in labor — passed the bar with a newborn at home, and landed in big law. Eight months later, she was gone. This is the story of what happened in between. And what the blood work proved. In this episode we talk about the moment Tatyana realized big law wasn't just misaligned with her values — it was bad for her biology. We talk about high functioning depression, the Body Keeps the Score, and what it actually looks like to climb out of survival mode and build a life from scratch that actually fits who you are. In this episode we cover: How a single moment on a hospital ethics committee made Tatyana want to go to law school Graduating law school in active labor — and walking across that stage anyway Passing the bar with a newborn and four hours of study time a day What eight months in big law actually cost her — and how her biomarkers told the whole story The week she didn't nurse her daughter once because of an artificial deadline — and the rage that followed Why she left and what happened to her blood work six months later High functioning depression: what it is, how it's different from burnout, and why so many lawyers are living in it without knowing "You can't outthink your way out of depression" — and what she's doing instead How coaching helped her stop strategizing and start actually doing The portfolio career she's building: Lucid Edge Advising, the Ohio Brain Capital Alliance, and her podcast Lucid Commons Why two things can be true at the same time — and why that's the permission slip most of us need Books mentioned: Becoming You by Suzy Welch High Functioning Depression by Dr. Judith Joseph The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk Connect with Tatyana Norman Webler: LinkedIn: Tatyana Norman Webler Podcast: Lucid Commons (Spotify, Apple, YouTube) Advising: Lucid Edge Advising Nonprofit: Ohio Brain Capital Alliance Work with Erin Gerner: Erin coaches high-achieving female attorneys who are successful on paper but struggling with burnout, identity, and what's next — helping them redefine success on their own terms. 📅 Book a connection call: https://calendly.com/eringerner/connectioncall Stay connected with Erin Gerner: Website: eringerner.com LinkedIn: Erin Gerner Instagram: @eringerner Facebook: Erin Gerner Don't forget to subscribe to Powerhouse Lawyers wherever you listen. 🎙️

July 9, 2026Episode 11835 min

Burnout Will Kill Your Business as Fast as Bankruptcy — with Danielle Hendon

You left the firm to build something on your own terms. But somewhere between getting clients, managing a team, and handling everything else that comes with running a business, the freedom you were chasing started to look a lot like another job. Danielle Hendon has seen it a hundred times. As founder of 4 Corners CFO, she works exclusively with female-founded law firms as a fractional CFO — helping them understand what their numbers are actually saying, structure their revenue for real profit, and build firms that support their lives instead of consuming them. This conversation is practical, direct, and exactly what solo and small firm owners need to hear. In this episode we cover How Danielle went from opera singer to accountant to fractional CFO for female law firm owners Why hanging your own shingle often just means trading one boss for many — and what to do about it The rule of thirds: how your P&L should actually be structured for sustainable profit Why time tracking still matters even when you swore you'd never do it again What "closing the closables" means and how it can free up cash immediately The case study: how one estate planning client's first quarter profit equaled her entire prior year — after making one key hire Why the numbers aren't a judgment — they're a story and a roadmap How to know when you're ready to hire (hint: it's 10 billable hours a week) The line of credit conversation every attorney needs to have before they need one Free resource from Danielle: Take the revenue capacity quiz to find out how much money your firm is leaving on the table — no contact info required. 👉 fourcornercfo.com/powerhouselaywers Connect with Danielle Hendon: Website: https://4cornerscfo.com/ LinkedIn: Danielle Hendon Work with Erin Gerner: Erin coaches high-achieving female attorneys who are successful on paper but struggling with burnout, identity, and what's next — helping them redefine success on their own terms. 📅 Book a connection call: https://calendly.com/eringerner/connectioncall Stay connected with Erin Gerner: Website: eringerner.com LinkedIn: Erin Gerner Instagram: @eringerner Facebook: Erin Gerner Don't forget to subscribe to Powerhouse Lawyers wherever you listen. 🎙️

June 18, 2026Episode 11746 min

From Big Law to In-House to All In on Herself

Misty Leon has spent nearly 25 years at the intersection of law, business, and strategy — as a partner at a boutique firm, Senior Counsel at a Fortune 500 company, and now founder of Practical Counsel Advisors, where she helps small to midsize law firms modernize their operations and navigate AI responsibly. In this episode, Misty shares the winding, intentional journey that led her to finally go out on her own — and why the bravest thing she ever did was stop asking "can I do this?" and start asking "do I even want to?" In this episode, we cover: How Misty accidentally stumbled into ERISA law via a newspaper job listing in Charlotte — and why it opened doors in Big Law What five years in-house taught her that she never could have learned at a firm The moment she realized she was heading toward burnout — and how she caught it before it caught her What Practical Counsel Advisors does and why AI readiness is a reputational risk firms can't afford to ignore Why "change management" is more than corporate speak — and why it's the piece most firms skip The mindset shift from powering through to asking whether the path still fits Why women don't need more resilience pep talks — and what we actually need instead The concept of seasons, and why it's one of the most powerful tools for ambitious women juggling everything Her legendary legally blonde moment involving a law school interview and a closet Connect with Misty: LinkedIn: Misty Leon Website: practicalcounseladvisors.com Resources & Links: Book a connection call with Erin: https://calendly.com/eringerner/connectioncall Follow Erin Gerner on Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn

May 28, 2026Episode 11634 min

From Fox News to Fighting for Women: The Evolution of Tamara Holder

Tamara Holder has never done anything the traditional way — and it has made her one of the most powerful women's rights attorneys in the country. She's the principal of Tamara Holder Law, a Chicago-based boutique firm she founded in 2005 focusing on women's rights globally — including sex trafficking, sexual assault, workplace harassment, and institutional sexual abuse. She spearheaded the largest doctor-patient sexual abuse case in Illinois history, testified before Congress, and for nearly a decade, was the only progressive female legal analyst on Fox News. In this episode, we get into all of it — the evolution, the personal pivot, the work, and how she keeps showing up even when the weight is heavy. In this episode we cover: Why she never went to big law — and how she built everything on her own terms Her years as the lone female progressive voice on Fox News and what it really cost her The personal experience 10 years ago that changed the entire direction of her career The landmark Twin Peaks case and what a 54-plaintiff win actually looks like The Dr. Mark Mulholland case in Washington — representing 170+ women against a doctor and the institutions that protected him Her advice for women leveling up: "lie to yourself until you believe it" Why The Body Keeps the Score is the book she buys for strangers at restaurants Phish, Pucci, her Italian husband, and finding joy in the middle of heavy work Connect with Tamara Holder: Website: tamaraholderlaw.com Instagram (professional): @womensrightsattorney Instagram (personal): @tamara_holder Work with Erin Gerner: Erin coaches high-achieving female attorneys who are successful on paper but struggling with burnout, identity, and what's next — helping them redefine success on their own terms. 📅 Book a connection call: https://calendly.com/eringerner/connectioncall Stay connected with Erin Gerner: Website: eringerner.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erin-gerner/ Instagram: @eringerner Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/erin.w.gerner/about Don't forget to subscribe to Powerhouse Lawyers wherever you listen. 🎙️

May 14, 2026Episode 11549 min

She Got Laid Off Twice and Started Her Firm the Next Day

Ruby Powers has been doing what the rest of the legal world just figured out — for over a decade. Board-certified immigration attorney, founder of Powers Law Group, law professor, author of Power Up Your Practice , and one of the earliest adopters of remote law practice and AI-driven legal tools, Ruby built her firm from scratch — including from Dubai — on her terms, on her timeline. In this episode, we talk about how she went from laid off to law firm founder overnight, the three roles every firm owner has to navigate, and what actually happens when you stop being the only manager in the room. In this episode we cover: Why she registered her law firm the day after being laid off — for the second time Running a remote law firm from Dubai in 2011 before anyone thought it was possible The Technician → Manager → Entrepreneur framework and why most firm owners get stuck The management mistakes she made (and how she fixed them) AI tools she's using right now to save time and stay sharp Why she's teaching law practice management in law school — because nobody else is Balancing a high-volume career with two kids and actually enjoying your life Connect with Ruby Powers: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rubypowers/ Website: https://rubypowers.com/ Book: Power Up Your Practice (available on Amazon) Podcast: Power Up Your Practice Work with Erin Gerner: Erin coaches high-achieving female attorneys who are successful on paper but struggling with burnout, identity crisis, and knowing what's next — helping them redefine success on their terms without sacrificing family or wellbeing. Stay connected with Erin Gerner: Website: eringerner.com LinkedIn: Erin Gerner Instagram: @eringerner Facebook: Erin Gerner Don't forget to subscribe to Powerhouse Lawyers wherever you listen. ⭐ Leave a review and share it with a fellow sister in law — that's how we grow this thing. 📅 Ready to stop doing all three roles alone? Book a free connection call and let's figure out what's next together.