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Learn about how to live the creative orientation and apply the ancient hermetic principles of alchemy to live your true nature and fulfill your highest potential in this life - living your purpose. We’ve all been born in a default mode of operating, centered around staying safe and surviving - our ego - but our soul/ higher self/ creative spirit calls us to more. This podcast will guide you to live that ‘more’. Join Alex Harvey as she takes you on a deeply personal, insightful, and rewarding journey of being connected to your heart, guided by your intuition, and creating a life beyond your wildest dreams.

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20 min

What Self-Love Really Is (It's Not Thinking You're Beautiful) - Ep.164

Real self-love isn't affirmations or forcing yourself to feel beautiful — it's learning to embrace the parts of you that you reject.You catch a glimpse of yourself in the mirror and feel disgust. You judge what you create. You quietly reject the parts of you that aren't perfect, in control, or attractive — and then wonder why you can't access your creativity or your flow.This isn't a "look in the mirror and tell yourself you're beautiful" episode. It's a completely different way of understanding self-love — through wholeness, and through learning to love even the part of you that does the rejecting.If you've done all the self-love "work" and still catch yourself in self-judgment, this is the episode that will completely change your relationship with yourself.📖 GET THE BOOKBe Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.comInstagram — @beunacceptable👉 FIND ALEXAlex on Insta — @alexh.co.YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS00:00 What Self Love Really Is01:54 A Body Image Trigger02:56 Embracing The Rejected Parts05:02 Self Love Fuels Creation08:29 Ego Concepts And Judgment09:50 Judging Others Mirrors You10:44 Loving The Inner Critic11:51 Morning Self Love Practice15:19 Divine Mother Visualization18:01 Apply It To Your Creations18:55 Closing And Share This

57 min

Why you shut down when you're not seen/ recognised (& how to open back up) - Ep.163

The story you tell yourself to feel safe is the same story cutting you off from your business, your creativity, and your turn-on.You put something vulnerable out into the world — a launch, a post, your real heart — and it doesn't land the way you hoped. And quietly, without even noticing, you shut down. You tell yourself you don't care, you withdraw, you hold your full expression back. You justify it to yourself with a convenient “story” you construct.This isn't another episode on mindset or confidence hacks. It's a raw, real-time breakdown of how a protective story forms, how it disconnects you, and how to actually drop it — told through what happened at a singing workshop that cracked Alex wide open.In this episode;Get this full learning experience through the lens of the singing workshop Alex attended, how her “protective story” came in and what she had to do to drop it.Why your protective story always disconnects you from your business and the people you're here to serveThe offhand comment about her singing at six years old that shaped decades of shutting downWhat "let it bleed" actually means — and why feeling the raw wound brings your energy backThe link between dropping the story and your creative life force returningIf you're building a business that's truly yours and you keep catching yourself shrinking, withdrawing, or going numb right when it matters most — this is the episode.📖 GET THE BOOKBe Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.comInstagram — @beunacceptable👉 FIND ALEXAlex on Insta — @alexh.co.YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS00:00 Tears and Breakthrough02:42 Ego Stories in Business06:05 Singing Shame Origin10:58 Choosing the Workshop13:46 Solo Singing Trigger18:07 Final Circle Shutdown28:38 Crying It Out at Home34:15 Let It Bleed Practice41:28 Past Wound Example48:02 Open Heart Integration55:17 Closing Thoughts and Next Episode

35 min

5 ways to run your business from feminine energy (without losing momentum) - Ep.162

Most women think going "feminine" in business means going passive. It doesn't — and trying to run your business from constant masculine energy is exactly what's burning you out.If you're a woman whose work depends on your creativity, your wisdom, or your artistry — pushing harder is not getting you further. In this episode, I'm sharing 5 simple, practical ways to run your business from feminine energy without losing your drive, ambition, or momentum. These aren't conceptual. There are things you can do today.This isn't a soft "just slow down" episode. This is about understanding why feminine energy is actually a more effective business strategy for women than the masculine hustle model — and the 5 specific shifts that change how you source your energy, your ideas, and your results.In this episode:Why your creativity (not your hours worked) is what actually generates your resultsThe story of how I left my engineering job — and the moment of realisation that changed everythingHow to downregulate your nervous system so you can actually access your geniusWhy needing to know how it's going to happen is keeping you in masculine and out of magnetismThe single shift you can make to every task today that brings you into feminine energyThe mind-bender of "don't do as much as you possibly can" (and why this works better)If you're tired of grinding, terrified of going passive, and ready for a third option — this is the episode.📖 GET THE BOOKBe Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.comInstagram — @beunacceptable👉 FIND ALEXAlex on Insta — @alexh.co.YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS00:00 Feminine vs Hustle01:15 Creativity Creates Results04:38 Receptivity Not Passivity05:41 Lead With Desire06:10 Engineering Exit Story13:02 Logic and AI Trap17:47 Downregulate Nervous System21:02 Create Spaciousness24:30 Release Need To Know26:30 Do It Pleasurably31:28 Do Less Better34:21 Wrap Up and Next Steps

42 min

The real reason you're always feeling BURNT OUT and BEHIND — and why “doing less” won't fix it - Ep.161

You’ve tried saying “no” more. You've tried rest days on the weekend. You've tried "just getting past this one busy period." And yet here you are again, sick of hearing yourself say “I'm burnt out, I'm overwhelmed, I can't stop”. In this episode, I'm naming the actual root cause of entrepreneur burnout — the one nobody in the productivity or work-life balance space is talking about — and walking you through the exact 4-step process I use with my Feminine Mystery School clients to break the pattern.This isn't another burnout recovery episode about time management or boundaries. This is about what's happening in your nervous system and your ego that's keeping you stuck in the cycle of feeling permanently behind, no matter how much you take off your plate.In this episode:Why every "lighten the load" strategy you've tried has failed (and the belief in not-enoughness driving it)The mirage your brain keeps dangling — why hitting the next income level or follower count won't fix the burnoutHow operating from threat physically cuts you off from your creative genius and intuitionThe difference between a lot going on and being in stress — most high-achieving women can't tell them apart anymoreThe 3-step process to break the cycle in real time and get back into your turned-on, magnetic creative state📖 GET THE BOOKBe Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.comInstagram — @beunacceptable👉 FIND ALEXAlex on Insta — @alexh.co.YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS00:00 Burnout Loop Explained00:44 Why Load Shifting Fails03:31 Not Enough Belief05:56 The Dangling Carrot Trap07:21 Everything Becomes Urgent09:39 Stress Kills Genius18:08 Collapse Is Not Rest20:52 Step One Name The Threats23:26 Step Two Make Peace32:44 Step Three Follow Turn On40:31 Take The Next Desire Step41:00 Wrap Up Next Resources

35 min

Calculated vs. Devoted — Why Your Energy Keeps Turning Off - Ep.160

In this episode, I share a pattern I keep catching — in myself, in my clients, in a recent conversation with a friend — where you start from genuine inspiration and devotion, and then somewhere in the action-taking, you lose the thread completely. You go from connected and alive to rigid, stressed and purely calculated. And you don't even notice it's happened until everything feels hard.The moment I realised my YouTube excitement had turned into a stressed, controlling spiralWhy "how do I get more people into this" is the most turned-off energy you can bring to your businessWhat it actually feels like when you've disconnected from your creation — and the signs most women missThe shift that brings you back every time (and it's not more strategy)📖 GET THE BOOKBe Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.comInstagram — @beunacceptable👉 FIND ALEXAlex on Insta — @alexh.co.YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS00:00 Calculated vs Devoted01:00 Create From The Heart04:15 Devotion As A Practice07:01 Masculine Feminine Flow09:51 When Logic Takes Over13:37 YouTube Analytics Spiral19:28 Structures Without Rigidity23:39 Reconnect To The Source26:10 Friend Case Study Shift30:08 Surrender Control Avoid Burnout31:30 Tools To Return To Devotion33:27 Wrap Up And Invitation

45 min

How to feel SAFE being SEEN (train your nervous system) - Ep.159

You say you want visibility. But every time you go to put yourself out there fully, your nervous system shuts down.In this episode, I’m breaking down the real reason so many women struggle to consistently share themselves, build their brand, speak their truth, and allow themselves to be seen… AND exactly HOW to create nervous system safety to be seen.Because this isn’t actually a content problem. It’s a visibility wound.Inside this episode:Why visibility feels genuinely unsafe to your nervous systemThe hidden connection between childhood conditioning and online self-expressionThe real meaning of vulnerability (and what most people get wrong)How to unhook comparison and the painful retreat if you feel rejected or ignoredHow to dissolve self-consciousnessThe secret key for women that no one talks aboutThis episode is for the woman who craves getting her work out into the world on a might bigger level but knows her system is holding her back from being fully visible… if that’s you, let’s go, baby! See you inside.📖 GET THE BOOKBe Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.comInstagram — @beunacceptable👉 FIND ALEXAlex on Insta — @alexh.co.YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS00:00 Welcome and Theme01:22 Why Being Seen Feels Scary02:30 My Visibility Journey06:26 Childhood Roots of Hiding12:03 Why Women Feel the Pressure13:50 Step One Self Validation21:47 Step Two Vulnerability32:03 Step Three Connect to Turn On36:10 Step Four Process Triggers39:30 Bonus Safe Sisterhood Support43:09 Wrap Up and New Program

1 hr 8 min

Is having a coach worth it? (ending with my coach of 6 years) - Ep.158

In this episode, I share a raw and honest reflection on my journey with receiving 1:1 coaching nonstop over the past 5 years… and why I stopped two weeks ago.This is real, honest chat about my journey before I invested in long-term 1:1 coaching, and how I made the transition into having non-stop coaching for the past 5 years… until two weeks ago.I also break down the deeper truth about investing in yourself, why most people hold themselves back, and what it actually takes to create the life and business you know you’re here for.Inside this episode:Why waiting for your business to “pay for it” is keeping you stuckThe real reason you place conditions on investing in yourselfWhat mentorship has actually given me (beyond money or results)Why backing yourself fully is the shift that changes everythingI’ve spent over $100k with this coach — was it worth it??If you’ve been hesitating, waiting, or unsure when to hire a coach (or questioning and getting in your head about how much money you should actually spend on coaching), this episode is a must listen!📖 GET THE BOOKBe Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.comInstagram — @beunacceptable👉 FIND ALEXAlex on Insta — @alexh.co.YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS00:00 Why This Episode Now01:03 Two Mentorships Wrap Up01:59 Selective About Coaches03:18 The Weird Ending Tease05:01 Personal Development Backstory07:10 Money Blocks Around Coaching10:51 Coaching Industry Hot Air13:39 Finding William Whitecloud17:22 From Courses to Coaching19:37 First Framework Coaching21:10 Going All In On Training25:49 Investing In William One to One28:18 How William Leveled Up Her Work33:55 Repeating Trainings Goes Deeper34:50 Trainings Need Repetition36:35 Why Coaching Matters37:44 One System vs Patchwork38:37 Success Block Contraction42:27 Reclaiming Inner Authority44:04 Building a Feeling Process46:36 Integration After Launch52:20 Funding Mentorship Mindset59:21 Completing With William01:06:19 Final Choose Yourself

1 hr 3 min

Permission to not please - Ep.157

In this episode, I dive into the deeper truth behind people pleasing, how it shows up in micro ways every day in business and on social media… and why it’s not actually about being kind, but about trying to control how others perceive you.Through real-life examples from my own interactions (including a kinda spicy one!), I show you how subtle and unconscious this pattern can be and how it quietly shapes your communication, decisions, and boundaries.Inside this episode:Why people pleasing is actually a form of control and manipulationThe hidden fear driving your need to be liked, understood, or approved ofHow over-explaining and over-giving keep you stuck and drainedWhat it looks like to choose your truth — even when it feels uncomfortableHow to stop managing other people’s perceptions and start being realIf you’ve ever felt like you need to explain yourself, keep the peace, or make sure everyone feels good—this episode will change the way you see it.📖 GET THE BOOKBe Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.comInstagram — @beunacceptable👉 FIND ALEXAlex on Insta — @alexh.co.YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS00:00 Welcome and Theme00:49 Creating From Whats Alive01:57 People Pleasing Roots03:21 Social Media Pleasing Patterns05:54 Recent Triggering Situation08:26 Gym Reply and Queen Vibes10:35 Power Dynamics Explained14:52 Receiving Without Deflecting18:37 Replying Without Owing24:46 Slave Offer and Exploration27:32 Aftercare and Overgiving30:36 Clear Boundaries No Explaining33:49 Humiliation Request Check-In35:29 Realizing Zero Desire38:02 People Pleasing Aftermath41:00 People Pleasing Is Control45:06 Gaslighting Vibes and Validation49:42 Owning Your Truth Anyway53:04 Another Date Red Flag56:03 Business Boundaries Practice58:36 Emailing and Social Replies01:02:11 Permission Not to Please

59 min

Are you RESISTING life or RECEIVING it? - Ep.156

In this episode, I break down what it actually means to “receive” life and why most people are unconsciously resisting it, without even realising.Through real-time examples from my own day (including things not going to plan, feeling triggered, and navigating frustration), I show you the difference between resisting what’s happening vs receiving and how this directly impacts your ability to create what you want.This is one of the most important shifts you can make if you want to stop feeling thrown off, like you have to do everything yourself, unsupported or blocked by life.Inside this episode:The subtle (but powerful) difference between receiving vs resistingWhy things “not going to plan” only derail you if you let themHow your ego creates stories that keep you stuck and reactiveWhat it actually looks like to use everything that happens as fuelA simple way to move forward — no matter what’s happening around youIf you’ve ever felt like your day, your mood, or external circumstances keep throwing you off, this episode will completely shift how you see it.📖 GET THE BOOKBe Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.comInstagram — @beunacceptable👉 FIND ALEXAlex on Insta — @alexh.co.YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS00:00 New Recording Setup01:14 Upload Disaster Story04:36 Recovery And Lessons06:40 Switching Recording Workflow07:27 What It Means To Receive08:18 Morning Plans Go Sideways10:09 Resistance Versus Receiving13:44 Triggers And Ego Stories17:14 Using What Is To Create25:13 Turn On Code Explained29:24 Everything Happens For You29:59 Life As Raw Clay31:14 Ego Stories And Triggers33:56 Victim Attachment36:01 Receiving Saves Energy37:23 Wrist Injury Wake Up Call41:21 Rehab As Opportunity43:45 Stop Resisting Reality47:31 Receiving Versus Resisting53:26 Acro Villa Perspective Shift57:38 Wrap Up And Call To Action

53 min

Creating with a Higher Intelligence: from forcing to flowing (lessons from a fractured wrist) - Ep.155

After fracturing my wrist, I was reminded in a very real way that there is a deeper intelligence at play — one that knows how to bring things together far beyond what we can consciously figure out. This episode is about learning how to work with that… instead of exhausting yourself trying to do it all alone.Inside this episode:Why trying to control everything is creating stress, burnout, and resistanceThe subtle difference between doing your part vs trying to do everythingHow to shift from force and over-effort into flow and co-creationWhat my fractured wrist revealed about trust, healing, and creationHow to start letting life support you (without becoming passive or avoidant)If you’ve been feeling like it’s all on you—or like you’re doing everything but nothing is working—this episode will open up a completely different way of creating.📖 GET THE BOOKBe Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.comInstagram — @beunacceptable👉 FIND ALEXAlex on Insta — @alexh.co.YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS00:00 Welcome Back From Bali00:17 New House New Setup02:28 Finding The Episode Theme03:36 Control Burnout And Trust07:04 Creative Cycles Not Hustle12:26 Big Fruiting Season Recap14:05 Leaning Into The Feminine18:03 Thailand Wrist Fracture Lesson21:54 Greater Intelligence In Healing26:23 Letting Life Come Together28:49 Effortless Alignment29:42 Wrist Healing Lesson30:16 Body Intelligence Basics30:58 Poop Analogy Setup31:52 Pushing Versus Surrender35:31 Creation Without Control37:55 Do Your Part39:56 Bali Villa Manifestation44:38 Clients Remember Support46:50 Let Go Reflection49:05 Next Episode Tease51:55 Share And Review