
Laid Off One Month Before Giving Birth: How Make It Work Was Born | Sarah Wong on Community At Work
I lost my job one month before giving birth. It was 2022. I had just moved back to Singapore from the US with an 18-month-old and a second baby on the way. I still remember sitting in a half-furnished flat in the heat, eating instant noodles in my singlet with my hair in a messy bun, wondering who I was now that the job was gone. My career had been such a big part of who I was. When it was ripped out, I felt lost at sea. So I started talking to women who were a few steps ahead of me, one conversation at a time. Those conversations became Make It Work. This time, I'm the one in the guest's chair. I joined Brandon Lee on Community At Work to talk about how Make It Work began, what our community of moms is really looking for, and where I think communities like ours are heading. For the first time, I opened up about the actual pains of building this community. Like anything worth doing, it's taken a lot of late nights and tears. I'm thankful I got to share honestly about what keeps me up at night trying to keep this going. What we get into: 🌊 Getting laid off one month before giving birth, and the "period of wilderness" that followed 🎙️ How a handful of honest conversations turned into a podcast heard in 40 countries 🤫 Our mystery question feature, and the "selfish" things we carry as moms but rarely say out loud 🇸🇬 Why the tension between career and motherhood looks so different in Singapore compared with my experience in the American South 🧩 Why moms join asking for a 4-day work week script, and why that's never where the conversation ends 🌙 The real cost of keeping a community going: editing videos at 9pm, hunting for venues, and one very dodgy yoga studio 🧠 Matrescence, and why your brain literally rewires after becoming a mom 🤝 What institutions can do to back grassroots communities, including showing alternatives like job sharing 🤖 Our AI Moms Party, and why human connection matters even more in the age of AI 🪜 Why seeing your career as seasons will serve you better than seeing it as a ladder If you've ever wondered whether the thing you're building on late nights and very little sleep is worth it, this one is for you. —------------------ CONNECT WITH COMMUNITY AT WORK 👋 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/033Od5jlHNcZl5P1L7nz9r?si=4cbf8151f55f4033 👋 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WorkinFutures 👋 Brandon Lee on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brandonleetb/ —------------------ CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction 01:10 Who Am I Without My Career? 01:39 Laid Off One Month Before Giving Birth 04:28 How a Few Honest Conversations Became Make It Work 05:53 The Selfish Things Moms Never Say Out Loud 07:19 Why Can't You Just Go Back to Work? 08:44 It Was Never About the 4-Day Week 14:02 What Keeps Me Up at Night 21:04 Why We Need Each Other More in the Age of AI —------------------ Watch more: Millennial vs. Gen X Motherhood: A Conversation with My Mom | Ep 39 - https://youtu.be/a27TFPm7lIM —----- Follow Make It Work! https://linktr.ee/makeitwork.podcast 📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/makeitwork.asia/ 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/make-it-work-asia-podcast/ 🎵 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Make-It-Work/61566472637714/ 🍏 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/make-it-work/id1701442085 🎵 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/78ulY0B27nYxGB6jPCABPI?si=abfc48d037d943be 📥 Email: makeitwork.asia@gmail.com Join our free Mommas Making It Work WhatsApp community: https://bit.ly/MIWcommunity —----- ➤➤ Like the video and subscribe for more honest conversations with working moms across Asia! 🔔 Hit the bell so you never miss an episode, and share with a mom who needs to hear this. 💬 Drop a comment, we read every single one. #WorkingMoms #MomCommunity #AsianMoms #Matrescence #WorkingMomsAsia #CareerPivot #MomGuilt #MakeItWorkPodcast















