Leading from Within

Hosted by Rachel Bale

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For the woman on a bold, rebellious journey to reclaim her authenticity – this is your space. This podcast is for those brave enough to choose themselves over external expectations, stepping into their power as self-healers and breakers of intergenerational patterns. Unsubscribe from the chaos of a dysregulated, self-suppressed life. Here, the revolution is relaxed.

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August 14, 202651 min

44. Breathworker or energy healer? The rituals you DON'T see

By the time you walk into one of my breathwork journeys, so much has already happened in that room that you will never see... but I'll bet you can feel it. This week I'm pulling back the curtain on the part of my work that isn't in any certification or training, and is rarely spoken about out loud: the energetics. I'm taking you fully behind the scenes into the energetic rituals and practices I move through before you arrive, while you breathe, and long after you've gone home... the invisible work that shapes everything you feel in the room. This one feels tender to share, because it's me owning my work as a healer, not just a facilitator. In this episode I'm sharing: ✨ Why the breathwork techniques and science are only half of what's really happening in a journey with me ✨ The unseen energetic work I move through long before a single person walks through the door that influences your entire experience ✨ How I hold and protect my own energy so that I can safely hold yours ✨ What I'm actually doing energetically while your eyes are closed and you’re in the middle of your breathwork journey ✨ The rituals I move through to close and clear the session once you've gone home and why they matter so much ✨ What I've finally come to understand about what my true medicine actually is... and why it's so much more than breathwork REFERENCED IN THIS EPISODE: Elaine Sarah Leek, energy healer @elainesarahleek_ I'd love to connect with you about this episode! If anything shared this week resonates with you, please send me a DM on Instagram @therachelbale . I'd love to hear from you! NEXT STEPS: Download your free 10 Minute Reset ... a simple, science-backed breathwork practice to come back to calm Come and breathe with me in person. I hold breathwork experiences in Melbourne every month. Follow me on Eventbrite to be the first to know when new dates are released (our next journey is September 13) Subscribe to the Podcast so you don't miss an episode Follow me on Instagram @therachelbale

August 5, 202641 min

43. 4 ways to start feeling your feelings (not just understanding them)

Every emotion that moves through you is trying to tell you something. But most of us learned a long time ago to talk ourselves out of listening. We live in our heads. We analyse the feeling instead of having it, we explain it away, push through and get on with the day. And because that works for a while (and because we're often praised for it) we don't notice what it's costing us. But emotions are designed to guide us. Each one carries information about what matters to us, what we need and what has to change. When we override them, that guidance doesn't reach us, and the emotion itself doesn't disappear. It gets stored. This is how you end up wondering where your vitality went. Why everything feels heavy, flat, vaguely off, and why you're so tired. And often it's how you end up with symptoms, an abnormal test result or a diagnosis that seems to arrive out of nowhere… it's your body having to get very loud to get your attention. In this episode I'm sharing four practical and simple ways to start reconnecting with your emotions, especially if feeling them is not something you're used to or particularly good at yet. In this episode I'm sharing: ✨ Why emotions are physical events happening in your body rather than thoughts happening in your head, and why that distinction changes everything about how you approach them ✨ How emotions move like waves, what happens when we cut them off before they peak, and how staying with one long enough is what lets you receive the message it came to give you ✨ Why emotional regulation is not the same thing as staying calm, and what it actually is ✨ The difference between genuinely feeling something in your body vs your head, which is where a lot of high-achieving, intellectual women stay stuck for years without realising ✨ Some journal prompts to uncover what you learnt about emotions as a child, which ones you were allowed to have, and how those early rules are still shaping the way you feel today Resources & Links: Download your FREE 10 Minute Breath Reset and find calm again within minutes Learn about my upcoming in-person events in Melbourne on Eventbrite Subscribe to the Podcast so you don’t miss an episode Follow me on Instagram @therachelbale

July 23, 202647 min

42. Living on the front lawn: How we learn to leave our bodies

Do you actually live inside your body? Or have you spent years living outside it, watching yourself the way everyone else does? For most of us, that's a genuinely hard question to answer. So many of us learned, very early, to exist from the neck up and to live in our heads rather than in our bodies, because somewhere along the way we got the message that being in our bodies wasn't safe. Instead, we were praised for the opposite. For being easy, mature, and suppressing what we felt and needed. And piece by piece, we learned to leave ourselves. In this episode, I'm sharing an analogy that completely changed how I think about this, one that makes it so clear how so many of us have quietly moved out of our own bodies over time, learning to see and evaluate ourselves from the outside rather than within. It's the lens I want to use to kick off a deeper conversation about self-objectification, body image, and what it actually costs us to live disconnected from ourselves in this way. Because this is what self-objectification really is: internalising someone else's gaze until it starts to feel like your own. And once that shift happens, it touches everything: how safe we feel in our own skin, how we experience hunger, rest and pleasure, and how we relate to others (but most importantly, ourselves). In this episode you’ll learn: ✨ The house analogy (from embodiment psychologist Hillary McBride) that makes self-objectification click instantly, and what it means to live ‘on the front lawn’ of your own body instead of inside it ✨ Why so many of us learned, very young, that living fully in our bodies wasn't safe and how we got praised for leaving ✨ The moment self-objectification usually begins for girls (often as early as 9 or 10 now) and why puberty is the seismic shift point ✨ How covert messaging through culture and media quietly teaches us to adopt an outside observer's eyes as our own ✨ The real, often serious costs of this: disconnection from sensation, bodily cues, emotions and in more severe cases, depression, disordered eating, and self-harm Resources & Links: Download your FREE 10 Minute Breath Reset and find calm again within minutes Learn about my upcoming in-person events in Melbourne on Eventbrite Subscribe to the Podcast so you don’t miss an episode Follow me on Instagram @therachelbale

May 21, 20251 hr 11 min

41. The boundaries conversation needs to change.

Most standard boundary advice FAILS because it ignores your nervous system. The truth is, boundary work is not just about 'communication skills' or 'willpower' – it's about healing your nervous system so that it can safely support your authentic yes and no. In this episode: Why 'just say no' DOESN'T WORK (because your nervous system drives your boundaries not your willpower) How your unique boundary style (rigid or loose) is a direct reflection of your nervous system state and attachment wounds The specific nervous system response that drives people-pleasing behaviour My personal experience with loose or non-existent boundaries and why I view autoimmunity as the ultimate teacher when it comes to boundary work Somatic practices and tools to begin connecting with your physical and energetic boundaries and learning to sense what a 'yes' and 'no' feels like in your body REAL-TIME REGULATION™ IS AVAILABLE NOW! My new $37 mini-program offers powerful nervous system regulation tools that interrupt stress triggers in real time. Real-Time Regulation™ includes 13 practical breathing techniques designed to help you stay grounded when life's challenges (including setting boundaries!) activate your system. Transform your response to triggering situations without needing to step away. GET IT NOW NEXT STEPS: Join Real-Time Regulation™ for $37 Download your FREE 10 Minute Breath Reset – and find calm again within minutes Subscribe to the Podcast so you don't miss an episode Follow me on Instagram @therachelbale

March 18, 2025Episode 4045 min

40. Why healing your nervous system threatens the status quo

The uncomfortable truth about how our society actually profits from your burnout and chronic stress. This eye-opening episode is not just about wellness – it’s about power, economics, and why healing your nervous system might be the most politically revolutionary act you can take. In this episode, I’m exposing: Why your exhaustion isn't a personal failing – it's a deliberate feature of an economic system that profits from your burnout How chronic stress keeps you too depleted to question, too busy to resist, and too drained to demand change The invisible ways you're being manipulated to override your body's wisdom and ignore your own needs Why healing your nervous system is your most powerful act of resistance in a world designed to keep you disempowered JOIN THE REAL-TIME REGULATION WAITLIST Coming soon: A completely new approach to stress management that works in real time, real life. 'Real Time Regulation' isn't another wellness program asking you to find more time in your already full schedule. It's your complete toolkit for regulating your nervous system right in the middle of meetings, morning rushes, and middle of the night wake-ups. Join the Waitlist for 'Real-Time Regulation' and get instant access to your free 'Pattern Recognition Tracker', a practical tool for mapping your personal stress patterns and triggers. Start understanding your unique stress response today! JOIN THE WAITLIST NOW I'd love to connect with you about this episode! If anything shared resonates with you, please send me a DM on Instagram @therachelbale – I'd love to hear from you! EPISODES REFERENCED: Episode 38: You don’t need more self-care time to feel less stressed Episode 39: The dark side of being ‘good under pressure’ NEXT STEPS: Join the Waitlist to 'Real-Time Regulation' and get your free 'Pattern Recognition Tracker' today Subscribe to the Podcast so you don't miss an episode Follow me on Instagram @therachelbale

March 3, 2025Episode 3932 min

39. The dark side of being 'good under pressure'

Do you pride yourself on being ‘good under pressure’? What if I told you that what feels like a strength might actually be a repetitive stress response in disguise? In this eye-opening episode, I'm diving deep into why so many of us have built our identities around thriving in high-pressure situations – and what's really happening in our bodies when we do. In this episode I'm sharing: The biochemical reason why we become ‘addicted’ to pressure (and the hormonal cocktail that keeps us coming back for more) Why your ability to handle anything thrown at you might have deeper roots than you realise The subtle ways this pattern shows up in daily life The hidden cost of constantly operating in the ‘red zone’ Why the goal is not to be calm all the time (& what is instead) JOIN THE REAL-TIME REGULATION WAITLIST Coming this March: A completely new approach to stress management that works in real time, real life. 'Real Time Regulation' isn't another wellness program asking you to find more time in your already full schedule. It's your complete toolkit for regulating your nervous system right in the middle of meetings, morning rushes, and middle of the night wake-ups. Join the Waitlist for 'Real-Time Regulation' and get instant access to your free 'Pattern Recognition Tracker', a practical tool for mapping your personal stress patterns and triggers. Start understanding your unique stress response today! JOIN THE WAITLIST NOW I'd love to connect with you about this episode! If anything shared resonates with you, please send me a DM on Instagram @therachelbale – I'd love to hear from you! NEXT STEPS: Join the Waitlist to 'Real-Time Regulation' and get your free 'Pattern Recognition Tracker' today Subscribe to the Podcast so you don't miss an episode Follow me on Instagram @therachelbale Remember: You don't have to give up being capable. You just don't have to live in constant activation to prove it.

February 20, 202534 min

38. You don't need more self-care time to feel less stressed

Let's be honest. Trying to combat stress by scheduling more self-care just doesn't work for your real life. Most generic stress advice tells you to schedule more 'me-time', do more yoga, or start a meditation practice (like you have the time). But what if the secret to managing stress isn't about finding more time (because let's be real, where would that even come from?) but by about learning how to listen and respond to your body in the moment? In this powerful episode, we're busting the self-care myth and diving into what your body needs from you instead. I'm sharing: Why most of us have been conditioned to ignore our body's unique stress signals (and how this now shows up in our lives in sneaky ways) The real reason generic stress advice keeps falling flat and you can't seem to get your stress levels under control How to start recognising your personal stress patterns, including some surprising signals you might be missing Why being physically active or into wellness doesn't automatically mean you're connected to your body and know how to listen to it The real reason you're disconnected from your body's wisdom (it started way before adulthood) What some of my own unique stress signals look like and how they differ from my husband's JOIN THE REAL-TIME REGULATION WAITLIST Coming this March: A completely new approach to stress management that works in real time, real life. 'Real Time Regulation' isn't another wellness program asking you to find more time in your already full schedule. It's your complete toolkit for regulating your nervous system right in the middle of meetings, morning rushes, and middle of the night wake-ups. Join the Waitlist for 'Real-Time Regulation' and get instant access to your free 'Pattern Recognition Tracker', a practical tool for mapping your personal stress patterns and triggers. Start understanding your unique stress response today! JOIN THE WAITLIST NOW I'd love to connect with you about this episode! If anything shared resonates with you, please send me a DM on Instagram @therachelbale – I'd love to hear from you! NEXT STEPS: Join the Waitlist to 'Real-Time Regulation' and get your free 'Pattern Recognition Tracker' today Subscribe to the Podcast so you don't miss an episode Follow me on Instagram @therachelbale Remember: Your body isn't broken and you're not 'too sensitive'. You just haven't had the right tools to understand your unique stress language... yet.

December 17, 2024Episode 3730 min

37. The family emotional circuit breaker: why you're always the one keeping the peace

Are you your family's emotional circuit breaker? Here's what it’s costing you. In this powerful episode, we dive deep into what happens when we become our family's emotional regulator, and why this pattern that once kept us safe is now keeping us stuck in survival mode. In this episode we discuss: - How being highly attuned to others' emotions can be both a superpower and a source of exhaustion - Why we fall into the emotional caretaker role in the first place and how it has shaped our nervous system as an adult - The science behind why family gatherings can feel so overwhelming for empaths - How this pattern spills into all areas of our life - from work to friendships - Practical tools for staying grounded without disconnecting from your natural sensitivity FREE HOLIDAY GIFT: THE 10 MINUTE RESET Ready to stay anchored in your own energy during family gatherings? The 10 Minute Reset is your science-backed breathwork practice designed for those moments when everyone's emotions feel too loud but you can't step away. Think of it as your emotional circuit breaker - helping you stay present without absorbing everyone's energy. Download your Free 10 Minute Reset Here REFERENCED IN THIS EPISODE: 36. Your anxiety isn’t “just mum stress” - the science behind your holiday overwhelm Book: "The Third Perspective: Brave Expression in the Age of Intolerance”, Africa Brooke If you resonate with anything shared in this episode, please send me a DM on Instagram @therachelbale - I'd love to hear from you! NEXT STEPS: - Download your free 10 MINUTE RESET - Subscribe to the Podcast so you don't miss an episode! - Follow me on Instagram @therachelbale Remember: Your sensitivity is a gift. Being attuned to others isn't the problem. The problem comes when we lose ourselves in the process of managing everyone else.

December 9, 202427 min

36. Your anxiety isn’t 'just mum stress' - the science behind your holiday overwhelm

What if that 'normal mum stress' during the holidays isn't actually normal at all? We've normalised mum stress to the point where anxiety, overwhelm, and constant tension feel like just another part of motherhood - especially during the holidays. But the science tells a different story about what's really happening in our bodies when we're chronically stressed, and why it matters more than we realise. In this powerful episode, we dive into the science behind holiday overwhelm and why brushing it off as just standard “mum stress" might be costing you (and your kids) more than you think. In this episode we discuss: The fascinating science of what's actually happening in your body during holiday overwhelm How chronic stress literally changes your brain structure and nervous system Why your body can't tell the difference between real danger and holiday stress The ripple effect of your stress state on your children's developing nervous systems How to work with your nervous system instead of against it (using tools you already have) FREE HOLIDAY GIFT: THE 10 MINUTE RESET Ready to break free from holiday overwhelm? The 10 Minute Reset is your science-backed breathwork practice designed for those moments when anxiety feels too loud but you can't step away from life. Think of it as your direct hotline to calm - no meditation cushion required. Works anywhere, even while wrapping presents at midnight! Download Your Free 10 Minute Reset Here REFERENCED IN THIS EPISODE: Episode 32: The Invisible Imprint - Unravelling Our Pre-Birth Programming Book: "Waking the Tiger" by Peter Levine If you resonate with anything shared in this episode, please send me a DM on Instagram @therachelbale - I'd love to hear from you! NEXT STEPS: Download your free 10 Minute Reset Subscribe to the Podcast so you don't miss an episode! Follow me on Instagram @therachelbale Remember: Just because something's common doesn't mean it's normal. You don't have to accept this level of anxiety as your default state.

November 27, 2024Episode 3521 min

35. The hidden cost of looking like you have it all together

The most exhausting job you have is pretending you’ve got it all together. In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the reality of high-achieving women who appear to “have it all together” on the outside… but experience constant anxiety and tension on the inside. We explore the hidden costs of maintaining this facade and how it affects every aspect of our lives – from our relationships to our physical health. In this episode we discuss: The exhausting gap between looking composed externally while feeling constantly braced internally How this state of anxiety seeps into our relationships, work and ability to stay present The physical toll of chronic stress that we’ve normalised as “just part of life” Why pushing harder and doing more is actually making us LESS effective at the very things we’re trying to do better How reconnecting with our breath can be the key to breaking free from survival mode If you resonate with anything shared in this episode, please send me a DM on Instagram @therachelbale - I'd love to hear from you! FREE RESOURCE: Ready to break free from constant tension and anxiety? My FREE 10 Minute Breath Reset is your instant calm switch that will take you from stressed & overwhelmed to calm & grounded in minutes. No special equipment needed, just 10 minutes to reset your nervous system and return to calm. NEXT STEPS: Download your free 10 Minute Breath Reset - your practical tool for finding calm anytime, anywhere Subscribe to the Podcast so you don't miss an episode! Follow me on Instagram @therachelbale