
Stop Borrowing Someone Else's Definition of Success
What if the version of success you're pursuing isn't actually yours? In Episode 264 of Just Start: Get Visible, Jacqueline M. Baker explores how easy it is to adopt definitions of success that are shaped by family expectations, workplace culture, social media, and external validation rather than our own values and aspirations. Inspired by themes from Episode 262 with Kaylan Martin, this episode challenges listeners to examine whether the goals they are pursuing truly align with the life they want to build. While traditional markers of success such as promotions, recognition, titles, and accomplishments can be meaningful, they can also become distractions when they are pursued without intention. Jacqueline shares practical insights for identifying when you're chasing someone else's vision of success, recognizing the traps of external validation, and creating a more authentic definition of success that reflects your current season of life. Listeners will learn: Common signs you're pursuing someone else's definition of success How external validation can influence decision-making Why success should evolve as your life and priorities change The importance of defining success for your current season How to build a joy-centered decision-making framework Reflection questions to help clarify what success means to you Whether you're navigating a career transition, leadership journey, business growth, or personal reinvention, this episode offers an opportunity to pause, reflect, and reconnect with what truly matters. Memorable Takeaway "Success feels different when you choose it for yourself." Reflection Question If nobody were watching, would you still want the goals you're currently pursuing?













