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Some see limits. We see infinite possibilities. Hosted by Chaya Abelsky and Jay McNaught, Affinity for Infiniti invites you to rise above the noise and reconnect with what matters most. Through powerful conversations blending coaching, neuroscience, emotional intelligence, and spiritual insight, Chaya and Jay explore what it means to live and lead from the inside out. For leaders, seekers, and anyone ready to rewrite their story—this podcast is for you.

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June 2, 202640 min

#20 - Alex Yaroslavsky: Conflict Yes

What if the conversation you're avoiding is the one that could create the greatest breakthrough?In this episode of Affiniti for Infiniti, Chaya Abelsky sits down with executive coach, mediator, and conflict resolution expert Alex Yaroslavsky to explore one of the most important—and most misunderstood—leadership skills: navigating conflict.Many people see conflict as something to avoid. Alex offers a different perspective. He shares how conflict, when approached with curiosity and emotional intelligence, can become a catalyst for trust, alignment, innovation, and stronger relationships.Together, Chaya and Alex discuss why leaders often struggle with difficult conversations, how assumptions create unnecessary tension, and what it takes to build cultures where people feel safe to speak honestly while remaining accountable to high standards. Through practical examples and coaching insights, Alex demonstrates how shifting from judgment to curiosity can transform the quality of our conversations and our results.Whether you are leading a team, coaching clients, building an organization, raising a family, or seeking to strengthen your relationships, this episode offers practical wisdom that can be applied immediately.Listeners will walk away with tools for handling difficult conversations, understanding different perspectives, reducing defensiveness, and creating environments where trust can flourish.Key Takeaway:Conflict is rarely the real problem. More often, it is a signal that something important wants to be understood. When we replace certainty with curiosity and seek understanding before agreement, we create the conditions for trust, growth, and meaningful change.A thoughtful and inspiring conversation for leaders, coaches, educators, parents, and anyone committed to building stronger relationships and having conversations that matter.

March 30, 2026Episode 2444 min

#28: Angela Burges: The Right Seat On The Bus

In this episode of Affinity for Infiniti, Chaya Abelsky sits down with leadership strategist and author Angela Burgess to explore one of the most powerful questions in leadership and life: Are you sitting in the right seat on the bus?Drawing from the principles in her book Sitting in the Right Seat on the Bus, Angela shares how individuals and organizations can unlock their highest potential by aligning strengths, purpose, and role. When people are positioned correctly, work becomes more meaningful, teams function more effectively, and impact expands.Together, Chaya and Angela discuss:• Why talent alignment is one of the most overlooked leadership strategies• How leaders can recognize when someone is in the wrong seat• Practical ways to reposition people so they thrive• The connection between personal clarity and organizational excellenceThis conversation is especially relevant for leaders, coaches, and nonprofit professionals seeking to build stronger teams and create environments where people can bring their full gifts forward.If you have ever asked yourself “Where do I best contribute?” or “How do I build a team where everyone thrives?” — this episode offers powerful insights and practical wisdom.Listen and reflect:Are you — and the people around you — sitting in the right seat on the bus?

March 8, 2026Episode 2741 min

#27: Shmuly Rothman: Building a Culture of Philanthropy

In this episode of Affinity for Infiniti, host Chaya Abelsky sits down with Shmuly Rothman of Rothman Consulting, a seasoned fundraising strategist who works with nonprofits and Jewish organizations to strengthen their development efforts and build sustainable fundraising strategies.Together they explore the deeper principles behind successful fundraising—why relationships and trust are at the heart of philanthropy, how leaders can mobilize their communities, and what it takes to inspire people to support a meaningful mission.Drawing on years of experience guiding organizations and campaigns, Shmuly shares practical insights about donor engagement, community-driven fundraising, and how thoughtful leadership can create momentum that turns generosity into lasting impact.Affinity for Infiniti brings conversations with leaders and practitioners who are shaping the way people grow, lead, and create meaningful change in their communities.

February 8, 202635 min

#26 Esther Margalit: Motherhood Is a Leadership Advantage

What does leadership look like when capacity is stretched, compassion is high, and everyone is tired?In this episode, Chaya Abelsky sits down with Esther Margalit to explore Motherhood as Leadership Intelligence—a model of leadership forged not in ideal conditions, but in real life: responsibility without opting out, boundaries without guilt, and strength defined as stability rather than force.Drawing from Esther’s work at Northwell Health and the ideas in Mother Leads Best, the conversation reframes burnout, emotional labor, and presence, offering leaders a language for care without collapse and authority without hardening.This episode is for leaders navigating exhaustion—at work, at home, and within themselves—and looking for a way to lead that actually sustains.You’ll hear about:Why the old leadership playbook breaks down under chronic pressureWhat motherhood teaches about responsibility, decision-making, and containmentThe invisible emotional load many women (and leaders) carryHow to hold care and authority at the same timeOne grounded practice you can use immediately when things feel too muchKey takeaway:Leadership today isn’t about doing more. It’s about holding better.

January 25, 202638 min

18: Dr Irena O'Brien: Self-Leadership as the Foundation of Impact

In this episode of Affinity for Infiniti, host Chaya Abelsky sits down with Dr. Irena O’Brien for a thoughtful conversation on personal transformation and resilient leadership.Drawing from her background in psychology and her work with leaders and helping professionals, Dr. O’Brien explores how inner awareness, emotional resilience, and intentional self-work shape the way we lead, coach, and show up for others. She speaks candidly about navigating pressure, uncertainty, and responsibility—and why sustainable leadership begins with understanding ourselves first.This episode bridges deep inner work with real-world leadership, offering listeners practical insights on how growth, self-regulation, and reflection create leaders who are not only effective, but grounded and human.Listeners will take away:🔹 How personal transformation fuels strong, resilient leadership🔹 Why inner awareness is essential for coaches and leaders🔹 Tools for navigating pressure without burnout🔹 The connection between emotional insight and leadership presence🔹 How leading yourself well changes how you lead othersA meaningful listen for coaches, leaders, and professionals committed to growth—from the inside out.

January 25, 202634 min

#25 David Lipsky Coaching Across Cultures

Coaching Across Cultures — A Conversation with Dave LipskyWhat happens when coaching meets culture?In this episode of Affinity for Infiniti, we sit down with Dave Lipsky to explore what it truly means to coach across cultures—geographic, organizational, generational, and emotional. Drawing from decades of global leadership and coaching experience, Dave unpacks how culture quietly shapes communication, trust, power dynamics, motivation, and what “success” even means.Together, we explore:Why one-size-fits-all coaching doesn’t work across culturesHow to listen beyond words—to values, context, and unspoken normsThe difference between cultural competence and cultural humilityHow coaches and leaders can avoid assumptions while still creating momentumPractical tools for building trust and alignment in diverse teamsThis conversation is both reflective and practical—filled with real stories, sharp insights, and grounded frameworks that coaches, leaders, and changemakers can immediately apply. Whether you’re leading a global organization, coaching clients from different backgrounds, or simply navigating cross-cultural relationships in daily life, this episode invites you to slow down, listen deeper, and lead with greater awareness.Because coaching across cultures isn’t about having the right answers—it’s about asking better questions.

January 18, 202639 min

#24 Yitzchok Pinkesz on Kosher Astrology, Conscious Choice & Human Becoming

In this rich and thoughtful conversation, Rabbi Yitzchok A. Pinkesz invites listeners into a Torah-aligned understanding of astrology—not as fate, but as wisdom. Drawing from more than 15 years of practice and deep study in Jewish philosophy, psychology, and astrology, he reframes the stars as a language of tendencies that illuminate our inner landscape and life patterns.Rather than predicting outcomes, Kosher Astrology offers a map for choice, growth, and responsibility. The discussion explores how mazal (astrological influence) can help us understand our natural strengths, blind spots, emotional rhythms, and seasons of life—while remaining fully aligned with Torah values, free will, and avodas Hashem. Astrology becomes a mirror, not a mandate.Astrology ≠ destiny: It reveals inclinations, not inevitabilities. Awareness creates choice.Torah alignment: When studied properly, astrology deepens yiras Shamayim and personal accountability rather than replacing them.Personal transformation: Understanding your “cosmic wiring” can support emotional regulation, relationships, leadership, and spiritual growth.Integration with psychology: Rabbi Pinkesz weaves celestial insight with modern psychological understanding, creating a grounded, practical framework.This conversation powerfully complements the Infiniti Coach Training (ICT) philosophy. Both emphasize:Deep self-awareness as the gateway to changeHolding complexity without losing agencyChoosing response over reactionSeeing human beings as dynamic, evolving, and infinitely capableFor coaches, leaders, and seekers, Kosher Astrology adds a meaningful layer to the ICT toolkit, supporting clients in naming patterns, expanding perspective, and making conscious, values-based choices.Yitzchok A. Pinkesz is a Jewish, Torah-observant astrologer who has been practicing astrology in accordance with the Torah for over 15 years. His fascination with personal transformation led him to extensive research in Jewish philosophy, psychology, and astrology. He brings these three passions together in his acclaimed book Kosher Astrology: A Jewish Guide To Celestial Wisdom.Learn more & follow his work:📘 Kosher Astrology on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/195237085X/🌐 Website: https://kosherastro.com📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kosherastro/▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KosherAstroIf you’d like, I can also adapt this into show notes, a LinkedIn post, or a listener reflection + CTA specifically tied to ICT Cohort enrollment.Key TakeawaysConnection to Infiniti Coach Training (ICT)About Rabbi Yitzchok A. Pinkesz

December 7, 2025Episode 2335 min

#23 - Liz Fussell: Leadership That Expands Possibility

In this powerful episode, Chaya & Jay sit down with Liz Fussell Ed.D. CRC, a master storyteller, strategist, and longtime leader who embodies courage, curiosity, and deep emotional intelligence. Their conversation explores how change truly happens — not through pressure, but through resonance, alignment, and the quiet bravery it takes to listen inward.Liz shares her journey of discovering her voice, owning her values, and learning to lead from a place of grounded authenticity. She speaks candidly about the moments that shaped her — the pivots, the pauses, and the invitations life offers us to self-author. Her stories illuminate the heart of Intentional Change Theory, demonstrating how people move toward their ideal self when they are met with presence, compassion, and possibility.Together, Liz, Jay and Chaya unpack:The transformative power of being fully seenWhy storytelling unlocks healing and growthHow leaders create psychological safety by modeling humanityWhat it means to coach with “radical generosity”How to ignite the Positive Emotional Attractor in everyday conversationsLiz brings the rigor of practice and the softness of wisdom — making this episode feel like both a masterclass and a warm invitation to step into your own expansion.Listeners walk away with practical tools, reflective prompts, and a renewed sense that change is not only possible — it’s already unfolding when we dare to tell the truth of our experience.

November 17, 2025Episode 2241 min

#22 Lion Goodman: Leadership That Expands Possibility

In this powerful episode, Chaya Abelsky sits down with Lion Goodman, creator of the Clear Beliefs Method, to explore the deep work of transforming the subconscious patterns that shape our thoughts, emotions, and behavior.Lion shares how real change begins not with willpower, but with awareness — identifying and releasing the limiting beliefs that keep us stuck in old stories. Together, Chaya and Lion unpack the process of moving from reactivity to responsibility, and how coaches can hold space for clients to rewrite their internal programming with compassion and precision.Listeners will discover practical insights on:How to uncover the core beliefs beneath recurring emotional patterns.Why safety and self-compassion are prerequisites for transformation.The neuroscience behind belief change and sustainable growth.How coaching becomes a sacred act of witnessing truth and calling forth possibility.As Lion beautifully puts it, “When a belief shifts, the whole world reorganizes around the new truth.”This episode invites every coach — and every listener — to step into the courageous work of helping people change from the inside out.

November 7, 202549 min

#21 Maryanne Dersch: Coaching Fundraisers to Think Bigger, Ask Braver

In this energizing conversation, Chaya Abelsky and Maryanne Dersch, author and founder of Courageous Communication, explored how fundraisers can move from approval-seeking to alignment, from pressure to purpose, and from fear to freedom.Maryanne shared practical insights on:Building confidence and clarity as a communicator.Using neuroscience and emotional intelligence to create connection, not convincing.Shifting from “please like us” to “join us.”Leading with joy, courage, and authenticity to inspire lasting generosity.Key Takeaways:Courage connects. People give to confidence, not neediness.Joy attracts. Positive energy is the most powerful fundraising strategy.Authenticity converts. Alignment creates trust — and trust drives generosity.“When fundraisers feel whole, they raise whole-hearted gifts.” — Maryanne Dersch