
Jared Abrahamson on The Penguin, MMA Discipline, and Chasing an Acting Dream Without Losing Himself
On I’m an Artist, Not a Salesman , host Luis Guzman sits down with actor Jared Abrahamson to talk about chasing a creative dream, handling setbacks, and building a life beyond a job title. You may know Jared as Squid from HBO’s The Penguin , or from Diary of a Wimpy Kid and the Venom franchise. Before film sets and auditions, Jared worked in the oil fields and trained in mixed martial arts and Muay Thai kickboxing . A friend suggested acting, so Jared saved money, headed to Vancouver Film School, and stepped into a world he didn’t always feel he belonged in. Training and fighting helped him find his footing while facing the fear of starting over. Jared shares the less glamorous side of an acting career. Early bookings made it seem like things were moving fast, then the work dried up and the money disappeared. He went from feeling on a roll to wondering what came next. He kept going, worked when he needed to, auditioned, and created opportunities—including filming self-tapes that could reach people anywhere. One of the biggest ideas from this conversation is Jared’s way of looking at uncertainty: “I’m rich in opportunity.” A slow season doesn’t mean the dream is dead. You may not control when a door opens, but you can keep learning, keep showing up, and be ready when the next chance arrives. For artists, actors, and entrepreneurs without a guaranteed paycheck, that mindset can help you keep moving. Luis and Jared also talk about the craft of acting and what makes a character feel real. Jared shares how he approaches roles and brings his instincts to a character. When they discuss The Penguin , they explore the choices that helped Jared shape Squid . It’s a look at the work behind a performance—and how a supporting role can leave a mark when an actor brings honesty and imagination to it. Away from the set, Jared is a husband and father who wants to be an example for his family. He talks about taking care of himself, keeping his ego in check, trusting God’s timing, and surrounding himself with people who know him beyond his career. His ties to home and friends outside entertainment help him stay grounded. Success means more when you can enjoy it without losing yourself. In this episode, we get into: From oil fields to Hollywood: Jared’s leap from blue-collar work to acting. MMA, Muay Thai, and discipline: using training to face fear and stay centered. The reality of acting: early wins, financial stress, auditions, and starting again. Playing Squid in The Penguin : making a supporting role memorable. Faith, humility, and fatherhood: staying grounded through changing seasons. “I’m rich in opportunity”: why a setback doesn’t have to end the story. Community and growth: keeping honest people close and focusing on your path. Whether you’re an artist trying to make a living, an actor waiting for the next audition, or an entrepreneur wondering if the long road is worth it, Jared’s story is a reminder that progress rarely follows a straight line. You can work hard and still face rejection. You can have a breakthrough and still need to start over. You can’t control every outcome, but you can keep learning and stay open to opportunity. That’s what I’m an Artist, Not a Salesman is about: honest conversations with creatives and entrepreneurs about the work behind the work, the hard seasons no one sees, and building a career without losing yourself. Keep the conversation going. Follow I’m an Artist, Not a Salesman on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok under the name I’m an Artist, Not a Salesman for episodes, clips, and updates. If this conversation hit home, follow or subscribe, share it with a creative who needs the reminder, and leave a comment telling us what stood out. Connect with Jared on Instagram at Jared Abrahamson Official . Keep creating, keep showing up, and remember: your next opportunity may be closer than you think.
















