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Husband and Life Podcast

Husband and Life Podcast

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171

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Jun 2026

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About the show

This is where two people with different upbringing, that where raised totally different but somehow fell in love. We talk about how we take care of each other & grow through our problems and also all the ups & downs that life throws at you.The podcast is about how a Husband and wife(LIFE )manage their relationship.Having tough conversations early.Working on communication skills.Our strengths and weaknesses.How to work as a team.How to deal with conflicts and disagreements. How we have managed to build a great bond.How we support each other.How we parent our kidsThe financial mistakes we have made.How we create a safe space for each other.We share our experiences and things we have learned in our relationship hoping you can grasp a thing or two from our journey and praying you can learn from our mistakes.

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June 10, 202624 min

He Paid Another Woman To Cuddle Him While I Was At Work. He Called It Platonic.She wasn't just paying the bills.

Send us Fan MailHe Paid Another Woman To Cuddle Him While I Was At Work. He Called It Platonic.She wasn't just paying the bills.She was paying for a life he was living with someone else.This is the episode married people are thinking about but are too afraid to say out loud.Maya went to work every single day. She paid the mortgage. The utilities. The nursery fees. The car insurance. She carried everything — not because she had to, but because he needed her to. Because they were a team. Because that is what you do when you love someone.What she didn't know was that while she was at work funding their life, he was at home booking sessions with another woman.He called it platonic cuddling.He said it was therapeutic.He said she would never understand.By the time Maya found out — the sessions, the money, the friendship, everything that came after — it had been going on for months.So we need to ask the question everyone is privately arguing about right now: At what point did it become cheating?The first session?The first secret?Or the first time he used her money to pay for it?In this episode of Husband & Life, Kelechi and Stan break down one of the most searched, most argued, most quietly devastating topics in modern marriage — emotional infidelity. The kind that doesn't come with hotel receipts. The kind that happens slowly, in plain sight, in conversations your spouse doesn't know exist.What we cover:— Why men in vulnerable seasons seek comfort from strangers instead of their wives— The escalation nobody names — how one session becomes a secret becomes a betrayal— The stay-at-home betrayal — when the time and money her sacrifice created gets used against her— What to say to your partner before it becomes something you have to hide— What we say directly to the wives — and what Stan says directly to the men This is not a comfortable episode.It is a necessary one. New episodes every week — subscribe so you never miss one Leave us a five-star review — ten seconds, means everything Have a confession you want us to cover? Submit anonymously: [link]TIMESTAMPS00:00 — Stan's disclaimer (you need to hear this)03:12 — Maya's confession11:45 — Our unfiltered reaction18:20 — Breakdown 1: When vulnerability becomes a transaction24:10 — Breakdown 2: The stay-at-home betrayal30:05 — Breakdown 3: The escalation nobody names38:00 — To the wives42:15 — To the husbands46:00 — The closing line that will stay with you KEYWORDSplatonic cuddling cheating, is platonic cuddling cheating, emotional infidelity in marriage, emotional cheating signs, signs of emotional affair, platonic friendship emotional affair, husband secret female friend, what counts as cheating in marriage, emotional affair stages, financial betrayal marriage, stay at home husband cheating, he said she was just a friend, marriage podcast Black couple, relationship podcast for women, how emotional cheating starts, platonic cuddling service, marriage betrayal podcast, is cuddling cheating when married#HusbandAndLife #EmotionalInfidelity #IsThisCheating #PlatonicCuddling #EmotionalCheating #MarriagePodcast #BlackMarriage #BlackLove #MarriageBetrayal #CheatingSigns #RelationshipPodcast #MarriedLife #EmotionalAffair #WifeLife #PodcastForWomen #MarriageTruths #HonestMarriage #BlackPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageGoalsSupport the showYou can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcastPlease Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button

June 2, 202626 min

She Paid Off His Debt. Then He Bought a PlayStation. | Marriage Confession

Send us Fan MailShe cleared his credit card debt with her own savings. They had an agreement. He shook her hand.Three weeks later — a 65-inch TV arrived at the door.In this marriage confession episode, we dive into one of the most searched — and most avoided — conversations in marriage: financial infidelity, money secrets between spouses, and what happens when love becomes a loan your husband never intended to repay.Jade paid off Michael's hidden credit card debt using her personal savings. They made a plan. He promised to pay her back monthly. Instead — PlayStation. New trainers. Nights out. North Face jacket. And every time she brought it up? "Work is complicated right now."This isn't just a money episode. This is an episode about trust, transparency, and the specific pain of realising you're being treated like a bank — not a wife.We break down the psychology behind why husbands hide debt, what financial infidelity in marriage actually costs, and what staying with dignity looks like when money secrets destroy trust.In this episode:✦ What financial infidelity really means — and why it ranks alongside emotional betrayal✦ The psychology of why men hide debt from their wives (it's not what you think)✦ Why paying off your husband's debt can backfire — and what to do instead✦ How to tell the difference between a financially irresponsible husband and a dishonest one✦ The monthly money conversation every married couple needs to have✦ What "staying with standards" looks like when financial trust is broken✦ Real actions — not just feelings — for rebuilding financial trust in marriage WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU:Comment "STILL WAITING" if you've ever done something financially generous for your partner and never seen it returned.Comment "I HEARD IT" if you're the husband and this episode hit different.Comment "MONEY DATE" if you and your partner actually sit down and look at your finances together.And drop your most unhinged marriage money story in the comments — we read every single one and the best ones get featured on the next episode. If this episode found you at the right moment — share it.You don't need a caption. You don't need to explain why. Just send it to her. The friend, the sister, the one who always says she's fine. She's not always fine. SUBSCRIBE so you never miss a confession — new episodes every [day]. LIKE this video if it made you think, feel, or want to call your husband. SHARE with one person before you close this app. You already know who. Send us your marriage confession (anonymous):standishchildmusic@gmail.com Instagram: @husbandandlife TikTok: @husbandandlife Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MUMvhRbwmslsThZ3SHZiTWant to be on the show? DM us or email standishchildmusic@gmail.comSupport the showYou can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcastPlease Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button

May 26, 202619 min

My Husband Chose Separation Instead of Fighting For Our Marriage

Send us Fan MailWhat do you do when the person who vowed to fight for you... stops?In this episode, Standishchild and Kelechi have the conversation most couples are too devastated to start — when a husband chooses separation over solution.We cover:→ Why some husbands emotionally check out completely→ The moment he decided leaving was easier than staying→ What wives miss when their husband goes quiet for good→ Whether a marriage can recover when one person stops trying→ The hard truth nobody tells you about fighting for your marriageThis is the episode for every wife who has ever felt like she's the only one trying.And for every husband who needs to hear why walking away is never the easy option.We say the things people are too scared to say out loud.Support the showYou can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcastPlease Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button

May 19, 202617 min

He’s Not Being Distant — He Feels Disrespected (Here’s The Truth)

Send us Fan Mailoes your husband seem distant, cold, or checked out? It might not be what you think.In this episode, Standishchild and Kelechi unpack one of the most misunderstood patterns in marriage — when a husband withdraws not because he stopped caring, but because he stopped feeling respected at home.We cover:→ The signs your husband feels disrespected→ Why men withdraw instead of communicating→ What wives do without realising that triggers this→ How to break the cycle before it becomes separationThis is the conversation most couples are too afraid to have.Support the showYou can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcastPlease Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button

May 12, 202617 min

I Stopped Texting My Husband For a Week — This Is What Happened

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when a wife goes silent?I stopped texting my husband. Not because I was busy. Not because I forgot. I stopped because I wanted to see if he would notice.He didn't.In this episode, Standishchild and Kelechi have the conversation most wives are too hurt to start — what it really means when you stop reaching out and your husband doesn't even realise.We cover:→ Why wives go silent in marriage→ What it means when you stop trying to connect→ The moment you realise you've been carrying    the relationship alone→ What husbands are missing when their wives    go quiet→ How to break the cycle before it breaks your    marriageIf you've ever felt invisible in your own marriage — this episode is for you.And husbands — if your wife has gone quiet, this is your wake up call.We say the things people are too scared to say out loud. New episode every Tuesday Follow us @husbandlifepodcast Available on Spotify & Apple PodcastsSupport the showYou can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcastPlease Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button

May 5, 202615 min

“I’m Married… But I Feel Single” | Feeling Alone In Marriage & Emotional Distance

Send us Fan MailYou can be married… living in the same house… sharing a bed… raising kids together… and still feel completely alone.In this episode of the Husband & Life Podcast, we unpack one of the most common — and most silent — relationship struggles: Feeling single inside your marriage.No cheating.No big arguments.No dramatic breakdown.Just… distance disconnection and two people slowly drifting apartIf you’ve ever thought: “Why do I feel so alone in my relationship?” “Why doesn’t my partner talk to me anymore?” “Is this just what marriage becomes?”This episode is going to hit home.⸻ WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE:* Feeling lonely in marriage (even when everything “looks fine”)* Emotional distance in relationships and how it builds over time* Why couples stop communicating deeply* The difference between living together vs being connected* Why silence in a relationship is more dangerous than arguments* How marriages slowly turn into routines instead of relationships* Signs you’re becoming emotionally disconnected from your partner⸻ THE REAL TRUTH:This isn’t about being busy.It’s not about time. It’s about connection.Because you don’t lose love overnight… you lose communication first.⸻ THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF:* You feel alone in your marriage* Your partner doesn’t open up or communicate* You feel like you’re the only one trying* Conversations feel surface-level or forced* You’re living together… but not really together⸻ JOIN THE CONVERSATION:Be honest… Have you ever felt alone in your relationship? Is emotional distance worse than constant arguments?Drop your thoughts in the comments — we read every single oneSupport the showYou can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcastPlease Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button

April 21, 202613 min

I regret getting married… and I knew from the start

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Husband & Life Podcast, we react to a raw and uncomfortable marriage confession from a man who admits he has always regretted his marriage.He tried to call off the wedding.He never fully committed.He had an affair.And now… his wife is trying to fix everything.But here’s the real question: Can a marriage survive when one person was never fully in? Is love enough… if attraction and conviction were never there? Or is this what happens when you ignore your gut feeling?We break down the truth about marriage regret, emotional detachment, cheating in marriage, and feeling stuck in a relationship you were never sure about.This episode is for anyone who has ever thought:“I regret getting married”“I’m unhappy in my marriage”“Should I leave my marriage?”“I knew they weren’t the one… but I stayed”“Can a marriage recover after cheating?”“What happens when you marry the wrong person?”We talk about:• Why people ignore red flags before marriage• The danger of “half in, half out” relationships• Emotional disconnection and lack of attraction• Affairs, guilt, and honesty in marriage• Whether staying is love… or fear• When it’s time to fix it — or finally let goIf you’re feeling stuck, confused, or questioning your relationship… this conversation might say what you’ve been too scared to admit. CALL TO ACTION (ENGAGEMENT)Be honest in the comments: Would you stay and fight for this marriage… or leave if you felt like this from the start?Support the showYou can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcastPlease Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button

April 15, 202619 min

Why Wasn’t I Enough? She Gave Him Everything… (Khloé & Lamar)

Send us Fan MailWhy Wasn’t I Enough? She Gave Him Everything… (Khloé & Lamar)They got married in 30 days…She stood by him through everything…But behind the love story, Lamar Odom was living a completely different life.In this episode of the Husband & Life Podcast, we break down the real story behind the Lamar Odom Netflix documentary and his marriage to Khloé Kardashian — and what it reveals about love, addiction, and emotional burnout in relationships.Because this isn’t just about celebrities… It’s about the woman who gave everything The man who was silently falling apart And the painful truth that love isn’t always enoughIn this episode, we discuss:• What really happened between Lamar Odom and Khloé Kardashian• The danger of trying to “fix” your partner• Addiction, infidelity, and emotional disconnection in marriage• Why some men emotionally check out instead of communicating• The difference between being needed vs being loved• When staying loyal becomes self-destruction• How to recognise when a relationship is no longer healthyIf you’ve ever thought:• “Why wasn’t my love enough?”• “Why do I feel like I’m the only one trying?”• “Can you love someone and still lose them?”This episode will hit differently.This episode is for:• Women feeling emotionally drained in their marriage• Couples dealing with addiction or trust issues• Anyone questioning if love alone can sustain a relationship• People who feel unseen, unheard, or disconnected in loveJoin the conversation: Was Khloé strong for staying… or did she stay too long? Can you truly love someone who refuses to heal?Drop your thoughts in the comments  HASHTAGS#KhloeKardashian #LamarOdom #MarriageProblems #RelationshipAdvice #ToxicRelationships #LoveWasntEnough #MarriagePodcast #HusbandAndLife #RelationshipBreakdown #EmotionalIntelligence #CouplesTalk #ModernMarriage #DatingAndMarriage #WomenInRelationships #LoveAndAddictionSupport the showYou can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcastPlease Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button

April 8, 202615 min

Why Your Husband Sits in the Car After Work (And Avoids Coming Home)

Send us Fan MailWhy Your Husband Sits in the Car After Work (And Avoids Coming Home)In this episode of the Husband & Life Podcast, we react to a viral dilemma that hit a nerve with women everywhere.A husband finishes work… drives home…and then just sits in the car.No cheating.No shouting.No obvious problems.But something feels off.And deep down… she knows it.Because let’s be honest…Men don’t avoid places they feel peace in.So the real question is: Is he avoiding his wife…or escaping how he feels when he’s inside that house?We get real about: • Why some men sit in their cars after work (it’s deeper than you think)• Emotional burnout in marriage — on BOTH sides• The difference between needing space vs emotional withdrawal• What this behaviour actually signals psychologically• How distance quietly creeps into relationships• The warning signs your partner is mentally checking out• How to fix it… before silence turns into resentmentThis episode is for you if: • You feel him pulling away… but can’t explain why• You’re in the same house… but feel completely alone• Conversations feel forced, short… or nonexistent• You’re starting to question yourself in your own marriageIf you’ve ever thought:“Why does he sit in the car instead of coming inside?”“Is he avoiding me… or just tired?”“Why do I feel unwanted in my own marriage?”“Is this what marriage turns into?”You need to hear this conversation.Because sometimes…It’s not about the car.It’s about what he feelswhen he walks through that door.Watch until the end — this might change how you see your relationship.Subscribe for real, unfiltered conversations about marriage, communication, and emotional connection. Tell us in the comments:Would this bother you… or do you understand him?Support the showYou can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcastPlease Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button

March 31, 202613 min

After 9 Years…He Doesn’t Love Me| Why Husbands Fall Out of Love (After Years of Marriage)

Send us Fan MailAfter 9 Years…He Doesn’t Love Me| Why Husbands Fall Out of Love (After Years of Marriage)What happens when your husband looks at you after 9 years… and says he doesn’t love you anymore?Not cheating.Not shouting.Not leaving.Just… emotionally gone.In this episode of the Husband & Life Podcast, we react to a wife who says her husband has slowly checked out of their marriage after nearly a decade together.No big betrayal.No dramatic moment.Just a quiet, painful realisation: “I don’t think my husband loves me anymore.”We break down:• What it really means when love fades in a marriage• Why long-term relationships lose emotional connection• Signs your partner is emotionally disconnected• The difference between being comfortable vs being in love• Why some husbands “check out” instead of communicating• Can a marriage survive when feelings are gone?• How to rebuild intimacy and emotional connectionThis episode is for couples experiencing:Emotional disconnection in marriageFeeling unloved or unwantedLoss of intimacyLong-term relationship strugglesMarriage burnoutCommunication breakdown“Roommate phase” in marriageFalling out of loveIf you’ve ever asked:“Why doesn’t my husband love me anymore?”“Is it normal to lose feelings in marriage?”“Can love come back after it fades?”“Are we just staying together out of comfort?”“How do I fix my marriage when we feel disconnected?”This conversation will hit home.Watch until the end — because what most people think is “the end” of a marriage… is actually where the real work begins.Subscribe for honest, unfiltered conversations about marriage, relationships, intimacy, and emotional connection.KEYWORDS (USED IN DESCRIPTION)husband doesn’t love me anymoremarriage problemsemotional disconnection in marriageloss of love in marriagelong term relationship problemsfeeling unloved in marriagemarriage advicerelationship adviceintimacy issues in marriagecommunication problems in marriagefalling out of lovemarriage burnoutrebuild emotional connectionfix a marriagerelationship podcastmodern marriage struggles#MarriageProblems#RelationshipAdvice#MarriageAdvice#EmotionalConnection#IntimacyIssues#ModernMarriage#CouplesPodcast#MarriagePodcast#RelationshipTalk#LoveAndMarriage#FallingOutOfLove#HealthyRelationshipsSupport the showYou can follow us on www.instagram.com/handlpodcastPlease Share Like and Subscribe. If you're on Youtube make sure you also hit that notification button

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