
Ep. 19: Resetting Your Most Crucial System with Bassam Alaujan
What does it take to climb 25 years to the top of the corporate world, managing director, CEO, every box ticked, and discover the summit is empty? In this episode, Aditi sits down with executive performance advisor Bassam Alaujan for a conversation about the moment external success and internal collapse arrived at exactly the same time. This is not a story about slowing down. It is a story about learning to regulate the one system every leader runs on and most never think about: themselves.Let's Dive Into the HighlightsThe Top of the Mountain Moment: Bassam ticked every box on the way to managing director and CEO, then reached the summit and found nothing he was looking for. Why arriving felt like emptiness, not victory.The Double Hit: How a near-bankruptcy and a divorce landing at the same time became the rock bottom that forced him to stop and ask what he was actually doing.The Untamed Horse: Bassam's image for the mind, and the gym-like, repeat-it-daily practice of nervous system regulation that turns it from master into servant.The Reset Between Meetings: Why five minutes of breathing between one meeting and the next is the difference between showing up clear and exploding on whoever happens to be in front of you.Running From or Running Toward: The question Bassam puts to clients caught in the hamster wheel, and why most people would rather not know the answer.Behind the BreakthroughBassam Alaujan spent 25 years building companies, teams, and a career that looked, from the outside, like it was working. He served as Managing Director of JCDecaux Saudi Arabia, Director General of the Saudi Exports Development Authority, and CEO of a fintech startup. Along the way he navigated near-bankruptcies, led through COVID, and delivered results under sustained pressure. What the results didn't show was the cost. When that gap became impossible to ignore, it began a different kind of investigation, one combining performance neuroscience with intensive contemplative practice, including silent retreats and breathwork immersions.Today, Bassam works as an Executive Performance Advisor and Coach. He works with CEOs and senior leaders who are performing at a high level and beginning to sense it isn't sustainable. His focus is the physiological foundations of leadership performance: sleep, nervous system regulation, and cognitive load. He holds an Executive MBA from INSEAD, is fluent in Arabic, English, and Japanese, and is based in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia.The Guest Said It Best"You can't control every outcome. The only thing you can do is show up and be the best version of yourself." "When I reached the top of the mountain, I did not find what I was looking for." "The problem is that our mind is giving us that perceived fear that we are living in, but the reality is not.""Lonely is when I don't feel heard, when I don't feel seen, when I don't have people who feel what I feel." Key TakeawaysAwareness is the Starting Point: You cannot change a pattern you cannot see. Becoming the witness of your own thoughts and body sensations is where every shift begins.Regulation is a Muscle, Not a Mood: Breathwork and presence aren't one-off fixes. Like training in a gym, they're built through daily repetition until returning to centre becomes the default.Mind What You Consume: The information you take in shapes your nervous system the way food shapes your body. What you scroll before sleep becomes the first thing your mind reaches for at dawn.Bookend the Day with Gratitude: Opening on gratefulness fills your cup. Opening on your to-do list puts you in deficit, owing more than you have to give.Enough Safety to Drop the Mask: Find the one person, coach, mentor, or friend, you feel safe enough around to take off every cape and hat. That, not advice, is where the real work gets done.A Question for YouBassam reached the top of everything he was chasing and found it empty, then rebuilt by getting still rather than getting more. So if you paused right now and honestly asked yourself what you are running from, or running toward, what would the answer be?Take the Next StepBassam runs an Elite Performance advisory practice for CEOs and senior leaders who are performing at a high level and sensing it isn't sustainable. If that's you, his work is built for exactly that moment.Connect with Bassam: Website: https://bassam.alaujan.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bassamalaujan _________________________________________________Connect with Making of an EmpireThank you for tuning in to another episode of Making of an Empire! Our mission is to help you unlock the tools you need to build a business and a life that reflects your highest potential.Connect with Aditi: Website: https://www.plentitudestrategy.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aditijnewey/ Substack: https://substack.com/@aditijnewey













