
EP.IC089 - EQ in the Age of AI: Why Smarter Doesn't Mean Wiser | Cindy Tien
Everyone's getting faster with AI. Almost no one's getting wiser. In this episode of the EP.IC Podcast, professional speaker, coach and author Cindy Tien makes the case that as intelligence becomes abundant, emotional intelligence becomes the real advantage, and the one we're quietly letting atrophy. We get into what high-EQ leadership actually looks like on the ground, whether emotional intelligence really moves the numbers, and the trap she calls "See, tell AI, execute" (plus the four-step fix to replace it). We also talk about why AI-written empathy feels so hollow, why Edric tells his AI to stop flattering him, and the three BS (blind spots, belief systems and bold stories) that keep leaders stuck. It's a candid, practical conversation about staying human while the tools get smarter.This season of EP.IC is all about how to build a better business, and this one sits right at the heart of it: you can't lead a team if you can't hold one together. Guest: Cindy Tien, professional speaker, trainer, coach, host of the "Own Your Own BS" show, and author of "Insight Breakthrough: Your BS to Influence Yourself." CHAPTERS 0:00 Can you train your intuition instead of running to AI? 1:08 Welcome: where does EQ stand in the age of AI? 2:30 Meet Cindy, and her "support system" 3:00 What high-EQ leadership actually looks like6:39 Does EQ move the numbers? The hard ROI 8:36 EQ in the AI era: the speed gap and "EQ atrophy" 11:59 The fix: See, Shift, Sense, Steer 15:13 Can a bot manage people? The empathy you can fake 18:17 AI as a thinking partner, not an answer machine 20:36 Why Edric tells his AI to stop being nice 22:30 Self-leadership: influence yourself first 23:51 The three BS: blind spots, belief systems and bold stories (the cockroach) 27:15 Building an emotional vocabulary 31:15 Cindy's own blind spot, and what it cost 33:24 One hour, no phone: the power of silence 34:30 The boardroom in your head 36:49 The power of processing: the READ method 39:00 The 85-year-old test 40:54 The EP.IC Questionnaire 42:35 Where to find Cindy and her book CONNECT WITH CINDY TIEN Book (Amazon): https://www.amazon.in/InSide-Break-Through-Influence-Yourself-ebook/dp/B0G1KL19X7 Website: https://www.cindytien.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cindytien/ Instagram: @Its_Cindy_Tien EP.IC PODCAST - Hosted by Edric Poon. Produced by: Kaleoscopic Communications Pte Ltd Subscribe: @epicpodcastingIf this one made you think, like, comment and share it with a leader who needs to hear it.#EPICPodcast #EmotionalIntelligence #Leadership #AI #EQ #ArtificialIntelligence #Coaching #SelfLeadership #BusinessPodcast #Singapore


