No Pain No Gain, It's All A Game | Mindset Mastery w/ A.Z. Araujo
In this episode of Do The Work | Mindset Mastery , I started thinking about something that has become clearer to me the more I study, the more I put myself in different environments, and the more I reflect on my own life. There is a blueprint to success. There may be a million different ways to make a million dollars, build a business, or create the life you want, but the principles behind getting there remain very similar. There are certain actions, patterns, and ways of thinking that consistently produce results. One of the biggest principles I have learned is that you have to understand that this is all a game. And if you are going to play the game, you better understand the rules. You Are Going to Hit a Wall I tell agents this all the time. You are going to hit a wall. You can do all the right things. You can follow the same strategies as somebody producing at an elite level. You can market, follow up, make the calls, create the videos, and put in the work. And you still may not see results right away. That is where the game really begins. The worst thing you can do during that season is convince yourself that something is wrong with you. You start questioning whether you are good enough. You start comparing yourself to everyone around you. You start wondering why everybody else seems to be getting rewarded while you are doing all this work with nothing to show for it. That wall is not proof that you should stop. The wall is part of the game. If you want bigger goals, bigger opportunities, and a bigger life, you have to understand that bigger problems come attached to them. The problems are building your capacity to operate at the level you say you want. It is not just about taking action and getting a result. It is about becoming capable of continuing those actions when the results are nowhere to be found. Stop Torturing Yourself Over the Timeline Real estate is one of the easiest places to become emotionally attached to immediate results. You decide today that you are going all in. You start marketing. You begin following up. A couple weeks go by and nothing happens. Then you start questioning everything. But think about how this business actually works. Even if you meet the right client today, you still have to schedule the appointment, complete the consultation, get them qualified, find the property, negotiate the contract, and eventually close the transaction. You could easily be 60 days away from getting paid. That is if everything goes right. So why are you torturing yourself seven days into the process? Understanding the timeline allows you to stop reacting emotionally and start thinking strategically. You cannot plant the seed today and become angry tomorrow because there is no tree. You have to understand the game you chose to play. Read the Rules Before You Decide the Game Does Not Work This weekend I played Monopoly with my daughter, and I realized something funny. For years, I had been playing the game wrong. I thought you had to go around the board before buying property. I did not understand some of the auction rules. Once we actually read the instructions, the entire game changed. It became faster. It became more strategic. It became more exciting. Nothing about Monopoly changed. My understanding of the game changed. That is what happens in business. Sometimes you are frustrated because you are trying to play according to rules that do not exist. You believe success should happen faster. You believe problems mean you are failing. You believe somebody leaving means you are not good enough. Then you become emotional because reality is not matching the game you created in your head. Maybe you just need to understand the rules. The Problem Is Usually Not the Root Cause One of our agents reached out to me because a potential client he had invested significant time into decided to go somewhere else. He did the research. He contacted builders. He looked into incentives. He invested his time. Then the client disappeared. It would be easy to say the client was the problem. But that does not solve anything. If this continues happening, we have to dig deeper. Was there a consultation? Was there a commitment? Was the buyer broker agreement explained and signed? Was there a process that solidified the relationship? Or were we hoping that being available, friendly, and helpful would automatically create loyalty? That is where reflection becomes powerful. The client leaving is not necessarily the root cause. Maybe the root cause is your process. Then we can go deeper. Why did losing one client affect you so much? Maybe because that was the only opportunity in your pipeline. Why was there only one opportunity? Maybe your marketing has not been consistent. Maybe you stopped creating organic content. Maybe you stopped reaching out to your database. Maybe you stopped communicating with your past clients. Maybe conversations are happening in your DMs and never making it into Follow Up Boss. Now we are getting somewhere. The problem you see on the surface is rarely where the problem actually started. Your Current Results Were Created Earlier One of the things I am most grateful for today is the A.Z. from five years ago. I am grateful for the guy who got up and did what was required even when he did not feel like doing it. I appreciate the A.Z. from ten years ago. I appreciate the A.Z. from two years ago. I appreciate the A.Z. from six months ago. That dude was dedicated. The lifestyle I have today exists because a previous version of me made decisions that I am benefiting from now. That means we have to ask ourselves a difficult question. What is the version of you six months from now going to think about the person you are today? Will that person be grateful that you finally became consistent? Will that person be grateful that you started marketing every day? Will that person be grateful that you followed up? Will that person be grateful that you finally hired the help you needed? Or will you look backward and realize you wasted another six months doing exactly what you already knew was not working? Your future results are being created right now. Pain Is Part of the Process We spend too much time trying to avoid pain. But pain gives us information. When something does not work, there is something to learn. When you lose a client, there is something to analyze. When your pipeline is empty, there is something to correct. When your production stops growing, there is something that needs to change. The goal is not to sit inside that pain and feel sorry for yourself. The goal is to reflect. Identify the problem. Then go deeper. Find the root cause. Create a game plan. Execute. Then understand that this process is going to happen again at the next level. That is the game. The problems that once made you question everything eventually become the exact problems that built your capacity. Build the Capacity for More If you want your next deal, there is a game plan. Market consistently. Follow up with every person. Send the messages. Create the videos. Use Follow Up Boss. Stay organized. Do it every single day. Then give the process enough time to work. If you are already producing at a high level and want to double your business, your problem may be different. You may need people. You may need personnel who become an extension of you. You cannot continue taking everything on yourself and then complain that you have reached your limit. Every new level requires a new solution. And once the results start coming, do not stop doing the things that created them. That is another mistake people make. They generate leads until they become busy fulfilling on those leads. Then they stop marketing. They stop following up. They stop prospecting. Eventually the pipeline empties again. The game is building the capacity to handle all of it. The goal is to become someone who can see the problems coming and respond before they take you out of the game. At some point, you begin realizing that the difficulties you thought were against you were actually building you. So when you hit that wall, do not immediately assume something has gone wrong. Take a step back. Read the rules. Find the lesson. Identify the root cause. Create the game plan. Then get back to work. Because if you want the growth, you have to be willing to play the entire game. Reflection Questions What problem are you currently blaming on the market, a client, another person, or your circumstances instead of identifying the root cause? What is the version of you six months from now going to think about the actions you are taking today? What part of your current game plan do you already know you need to execute more consistently? Notable Quotes "The capacity is being able to navigate through the storm as no results are coming. That is a skill set in itself." "The root cause is never really the cause. It is all the things that we did or did not do." "The problems that you once thought were against you were meant to build you."





