Differently: Stop living by default. Start living by design.

Hosted by Carla Reeves | Creator of The Differently Journal & Conversation Club

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Differently is for when you need to get out of your head and back into your life. Created and hosted by Carla Reeves, creator of The Differently Journal and The Conversation Club, her work is built on over 20 years of helping people use writing to navigate real life. Not as a habit to keep up with, but as a way to calm your mind, get clear, and move forward. You are always writing your life, whether it’s in your mind or on paper. It's time to take the pen back. Turn overthinking and self doubt into clarity, confidence, creativity and momentum. Stop surviving your life. Start creating it.

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August 13, 20266 min

Can't Turn Your Brain Off? Try This.

Send Carla a message!If your brain is always going, this one is for you.In this short episode, I’m sharing and or reminding you of one of the simplest tools I know for quieting the mental noise, getting perspective, and seeing clearly again.After 20+ years of watching what happens when people slow down long enough to write, I believe this more than ever: learning to lead your own mind is foundational to living and leading well.I’ll give you a simple five-minute practice you can try today and an invitation to come experience it with me.Come write with me:Join me for the free When Life Gets Crazy, Journal class and/or grab your own Differently Journal below.Learn more about Carla:Website: https://www.differentlyco.comGet The Differently Journal:https://differently.myflodesk.com/journalConnect on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/differentlyco/Connect on LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reevescarla/Connect on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@differentlythepodcastGo to https://differentlyco.com/free-class to get The Class schedule, sign up, and/or pass it on to a friend. Come hang out and learn with us for FREE!Book a Complimentary Strategy Call with Carla: https://bookme.name/carlareeves/strategycallIf you enjoyed this episode, be sure to share it with a friend. A free way to support our show is by leaving a five-star rating and review on your favorite podcast player. It’s a chance to tell us what you love about the show and it helps others discover it, too. Thank you for listening!

July 30, 202641 min

What Game Are You Playing with Bob Parsons

Send Carla a message!We're all playing a game in life, whether we realize it or not.In this conversation, I sit down with executive coach and good friend Bob Parsons to explore the shift from living in survival mode to living with intention. Together they talk about the stories that once shaped their lives, the games they're choosing to play today, and how slowing down, serving others, and aligning with God's design has changed everything.If you've been feeling stuck on autopilot or wondering if there's another way to live, this conversation will leave you with fresh perspective and a question worth carrying into your week:What game are you playing?Bob's Previous Episodes:Choosing Freedom in the Face of FearFaith JourneysConnect with BobLearn more about Carla:Website: https://www.differentlyco.comGet The Differently Journal:https://differently.myflodesk.com/journalConnect on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/differentlyco/Connect on LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reevescarla/Connect on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@differentlythepodcastGo to https://differentlyco.com/free-class to get The Class schedule, sign up, and/or pass it on to a friend. Come hang out and learn with us for FREE!Book a Complimentary Strategy Call with Carla: https://bookme.name/carlareeves/strategycallIf you enjoyed this episode, be sure to share it with a friend. A free way to support our show is by leaving a five-star rating and review on your favorite podcast player. It’s a chance to tell us what you love about the show and it helps others discover it, too. Thank you for listening!

July 23, 202644 min

Leading Together with Tina Garcia

Send Carla a message!Leadership can be lonely.Whether you're leading a business, a team, a family, or simply trying to lead yourself well, it's easy to feel like you are the only one going through this.In this conversation, Carla sits down with Tina Garcia, founder of E.L.E.V.A.T.E. Women's Mastermind, to talk about why gathering matters now more than ever.Together they explore: why real community changes us the power of hearing each other's stories navigating seasons of change why growth requires getting out of our comfort zone creating spaces where people can be seen, known, and encouraged If you've been craving deeper conversations, meaningful connection, or simply a reminder that you don't have to figure life out alone, this episode is for you.Register for next E.L.E.V.A.T.E event on 7/29. Carla is the guest speaker.About Tina:Connect on InstagramWith more than 20 years of experience as a REALTOR®, coach, mentor, and entrepreneur, Tina is passionate about creating spaces where women can connect, collaborate, and grow. Through E.L.E.V.A.T.E., she brings together women from all walks of life to inspire one another, build meaningful relationships, and realize the power of intentional community.Learn more about Carla:Website: https://www.differentlyco.comGet The Differently Journal:https://differently.myflodesk.com/journalConnect on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/differentlyco/Connect on LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reevescarla/Connect on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@differentlythepodcastGo to https://differentlyco.com/free-class to get The Class schedule, sign up, and/or pass it on to a friend. Come hang out and learn with us for FREE!Book a Complimentary Strategy Call with Carla: https://bookme.name/carlareeves/strategycallIf you enjoyed this episode, be sure to share it with a friend. A free way to support our show is by leaving a five-star rating and review on your favorite podcast player. It’s a chance to tell us what you love about the show and it helps others discover it, too. Thank you for listening!

July 16, 20263 min

The Six Month Bucket List

Send Carla a message!When was the last time you made a bucket list for your business... not based on goals, revenue, or productivity, but on the kind of life you want to be living?In this short episode, Carla shares a simple exercise from a recent mastermind to help you reconnect with what lights you up before the rest of the year slips away. Grab your journal, answer five reflective questions, and create a six-month bucket list that brings more intention, adventure, and aliveness into your work and your life.Your business isn't just something you're building.It's something you're living.Learn more about Carla:Website: https://www.differentlyco.comGet The Differently Journal:https://differently.myflodesk.com/journalConnect on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/differentlyco/Connect on LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reevescarla/Connect on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@differentlythepodcastGo to https://differentlyco.com/free-class to get The Class schedule, sign up, and/or pass it on to a friend. Come hang out and learn with us for FREE!Book a Complimentary Strategy Call with Carla: https://bookme.name/carlareeves/strategycallIf you enjoyed this episode, be sure to share it with a friend. A free way to support our show is by leaving a five-star rating and review on your favorite podcast player. It’s a chance to tell us what you love about the show and it helps others discover it, too. Thank you for listening!

July 9, 20268 min

Navigating Change: Lead Your Mind First

Send Carla a message!Change has a way of filling our minds with noise, uncertainty, and endless questions. But what if the most important work isn't figuring everything out -it's learning to lead your mind through the transition?In this episode, we will explore why writing has been an anchor for more than 20 years and how a simple three-step writing practice can help you calm the mental chaos, gain fresh perspective, and take your next step with intention.If you're navigating a life transition, feeling overwhelmed, or simply craving more clarity, grab a notebook and join the conversation.Learn more about Carla:Website: https://www.differentlyco.comGet The Differently Journal:https://differently.myflodesk.com/journalConnect on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/differentlyco/Connect on LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reevescarla/Connect on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@differentlythepodcastGo to https://differentlyco.com/free-class to get The Class schedule, sign up, and/or pass it on to a friend. Come hang out and learn with us for FREE!Book a Complimentary Strategy Call with Carla: https://bookme.name/carlareeves/strategycallIf you enjoyed this episode, be sure to share it with a friend. A free way to support our show is by leaving a five-star rating and review on your favorite podcast player. It’s a chance to tell us what you love about the show and it helps others discover it, too. Thank you for listening!

July 2, 20268 min

Overthinking? Try This 5-Minute Writing Practice

Send Carla a message!Do you ever feel like your mind won't slow down?When you're overthinking, it's easy to believe you don't have time to stop. But what if a five-minute pause is exactly what you need?In this episode, I share a simple 5-minute writing practice I use with clients to quiet mental clutter, gain perspective, and move forward with more clarity and intention.Grab a notebook and give yourself five minutes. You might be surprised by what you discover.Learn more about Carla:Website: https://www.differentlyco.comGet The Differently Journal:https://differently.myflodesk.com/journalConnect on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/differentlyco/Connect on LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reevescarla/Connect on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@differentlythepodcastGo to https://differentlyco.com/free-class to get The Class schedule, sign up, and/or pass it on to a friend. Come hang out and learn with us for FREE!Book a Complimentary Strategy Call with Carla: https://bookme.name/carlareeves/strategycallIf you enjoyed this episode, be sure to share it with a friend. A free way to support our show is by leaving a five-star rating and review on your favorite podcast player. It’s a chance to tell us what you love about the show and it helps others discover it, too. Thank you for listening!

June 25, 202612 min

Standing on the Sidelines - Part 2

Send Carla a message!Have you ever let one uncomfortable experience convince you that you didn't belong, weren't capable, or should stop trying?In the previous episode "Standing on the Sidelines", I shared the story of a networking luncheon where my old survival story nearly convinced me never to go back.In this follow-up episode, I share what happened when I returned with a different mindset, a clear intention, and a willingness to show up differently.The room hadn't changed.The people hadn't changed.But my experience changed completely.If you've ever struggled with overthinking, self-doubt, or feeling stuck inside an old story, this episode is a reminder that you have more agency than you realize. Sometimes a simple shift in perspective can open the door to an entirely new experience.Grab your notebook, and let's explore what it looks like to stop letting old stories dictate your future and begin writing a new one.Enjoy!Learn more about Carla:Website: https://www.differentlyco.comGet The Differently Journal:https://differently.myflodesk.com/journalConnect on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/differentlyco/Connect on LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reevescarla/Connect on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@differentlythepodcastGo to https://differentlyco.com/free-class to get The Class schedule, sign up, and/or pass it on to a friend. Come hang out and learn with us for FREE!Book a Complimentary Strategy Call with Carla: https://bookme.name/carlareeves/strategycallIf you enjoyed this episode, be sure to share it with a friend. A free way to support our show is by leaving a five-star rating and review on your favorite podcast player. It’s a chance to tell us what you love about the show and it helps others discover it, too. Thank you for listening!

June 11, 20268 min

Standing on the Sidelines: When Old Stories Hold Us Back

Send Carla a message!Have you ever left a room convinced you didn't belong, only to realize later that the real barrier wasn't the room at all?In this episode, I share about a recent event, an hour-long drive home, and the old story that almost kept me from going back. Let's explore what it looks like to stop standing on the sidelines of our own lives, challenge the stories that keep us playing small, and get in the game of our life.Enjoy!Learn more about Carla:Website: https://www.differentlyco.comGet The Differently Journal:https://differently.myflodesk.com/journalConnect on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/differentlyco/Connect on LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reevescarla/Connect on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@differentlythepodcastGo to https://differentlyco.com/free-class to get The Class schedule, sign up, and/or pass it on to a friend. Come hang out and learn with us for FREE!Book a Complimentary Strategy Call with Carla: https://bookme.name/carlareeves/strategycallIf you enjoyed this episode, be sure to share it with a friend. A free way to support our show is by leaving a five-star rating and review on your favorite podcast player. It’s a chance to tell us what you love about the show and it helps others discover it, too. Thank you for listening!

June 4, 202610 min

Learning to Let Go

Send Carla a message!In this episode, I'm sharing some of what God has been teaching me about letting go. Letting go of old ways of working. Letting go of worry. Letting go of control. Letting go of the belief that I need to have everything figured out before I take the next step.I've been discovering that life feels different when we loosen our grip.Not because our problems disappear, but because we shift our mind and heart posture.If you've been feeling heavy, pulled in too many directions or tired from holding it all together - this is your invitation to pause and see things from a new perspective.While we can't always control our circumstances, we do have a choice as to how we shop up to them. Grab a notebook, and join me for this conversation.Learn more about Carla:Website: https://www.differentlyco.comGet The Differently Journal:https://differently.myflodesk.com/journalConnect on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/differentlyco/Connect on LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reevescarla/Connect on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@differentlythepodcastGo to https://differentlyco.com/free-class to get The Class schedule, sign up, and/or pass it on to a friend. Come hang out and learn with us for FREE!Book a Complimentary Strategy Call with Carla: https://bookme.name/carlareeves/strategycallIf you enjoyed this episode, be sure to share it with a friend. A free way to support our show is by leaving a five-star rating and review on your favorite podcast player. It’s a chance to tell us what you love about the show and it helps others discover it, too. Thank you for listening!

May 28, 202615 min

Wake Up Your Life: The Cost of Living on Autopilot

Send Carla a message!What if the life you’re longing for isn’t somewhere out there in the future… but hidden inside the life you’re already living right now?This episode is a reminder I deeply needed myself:don’t miss your life while waiting for someday.We talk about how easy it is to slip into autopilot, rush through our days, and unknowingly live disconnected from what matters most.This episode is an invitation to wake up your life again and again.For the overthinker, the high achiever, and for when you are navigating change, this conversation will help you:slow down and notice what’s right in front of youquestion the motions you’re making every dayreconnect to what actually mattersand begin creating a life that feels more awake, present, and alignedLife doesn't happen someday. It's happening now.Get on the court of your life.Enjoy.Share with a friend.Learn more about Carla:Website: https://www.differentlyco.comGet The Differently Journal:https://differently.myflodesk.com/journalConnect on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/differentlyco/Connect on LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reevescarla/Connect on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@differentlythepodcastGo to https://differentlyco.com/free-class to get The Class schedule, sign up, and/or pass it on to a friend. Come hang out and learn with us for FREE!Book a Complimentary Strategy Call with Carla: https://bookme.name/carlareeves/strategycallIf you enjoyed this episode, be sure to share it with a friend. A free way to support our show is by leaving a five-star rating and review on your favorite podcast player. It’s a chance to tell us what you love about the show and it helps others discover it, too. Thank you for listening!