Where professionalism meets imperfection. The Well-led Podcast invites leaders to explore the space where the need to get results meets the reality of managing people. Discover how to demonstrate care, support, and grace for your team–because the workplace needs human leaders. https://www.one23ltd.com Formerly the comfy chairs podcast.
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June 16, 202645 min
A story of support
Episode Description
Feedback is not a one-time event, a required correction, or a gift someone should simply accept. Done well, feedback is an ongoing conversation that helps people understand the story of their work—the impact they are having, the progress they are making, and the support available to help them continue growing.
In this episode of The Well-led Podcast, Kate Johnson welcomes Kim Rohrer, owner of Patchwork Portfolio, back for a conversation about feedback, storytelling, and the role leaders play in supporting performance. Together, they explore why feedback should center the person receiving it, how clarity and accountability create the foundation for meaningful conversations, and why effective feedback is ultimately an act of care.
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Key takeaways
Feedback is the way we ensure people know the results of their efforts.
Effective feedback tells a true story about work performance, impact, and growth.
Feedback should begin a conversation, not end one.
Support is what turns feedback from criticism into leadership.
Timestamps
00:00 | Welcome Back & Kim’s Storytelling Lens
02:10 | Feedback as the Story of Work
06:24 | Why “Feedback Is a Gift” Misses the Point
10:39 | Feedback as Support, Not a Drop-Off
16:21 | Clarity, Accountability, and the Real Job of Management
21:32 | Feedback as an Act of Care (Wardrobe Stories)
29:12 | Past Feedback Trauma, Culture, and Shared Standards
37:30 | Moving Beyond the Compliment Sandwich & Making Feedback Easier
Keywords:
feedback conversations, leadership feedback, employee performance, workplace communication, human leadership, supportive leadership, accountability, manager development, employee growth, feedback culture
June 10, 202622 min
What am I missing here?
Feedback is one of the most practical tools leaders have for helping people grow, but many of us still hesitate to give it or ask for it. In this Other Voices episode of The Well-led Podcast, guests Mary Tettenhorst and Frank Sawyer explore why feedback can feel uncomfortable, how trust changes the conversation, and why effective feedback requires care, clarity, courage, and a willingness to learn.
Through their reflections, they discuss the fears that keep us quiet, the importance of making feedback specific and useful, and why leaders must model receiving feedback if they want others to do the same.
If you would like practical tools that accompany conversations like this one, you can request the current free leadership toolkit at https://www.one23ltd.com/toolkits Subscribers to the onetwentythree ltd newsletter receive these resources automatically each month.
Guest Information
Frank Sawyer has a career in healthcare administration distinguished by demonstrated results in hospital operations, strategy development and implementation, and large-scale improvement initiatives. He currently resides in Michigan with his wife and 2 kids.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/frankesawyer731/
Mary Tettenhorst, Founder of Impact Talent Strategies, partners with organizations to develop leaders, build strategic people practices, and drive meaningful results. With more than 20 years of experience across every facet of talent development, she brings a practical, people-first approach to the employee lifecycle – from recruiting and onboarding to leadership development, performance management, and succession planning.
Impact Talent Strategies
https://www.linkedin.com/in/marytettenhorst/
www.linkedin.com/company/impacttalentstrategies
Key takeaways
Feedback is a tool for growth, not criticism.
Avoiding feedback may feel kind, but it can withhold needed clarity.
Trust creates the conditions for feedback to be received well.
Effective feedback focuses on specific behaviors and impact.
Asking for feedback demonstrates self-awareness and commitment to growth.
Leaders must invest the time and effort needed to provide meaningful feedback.
Receiving feedback well teaches others that honesty is safe.
Feedback works best when it becomes part of everyday conversations.
Great feedback combines courage and care.
Developing others starts with being willing to keep learning yourself.
Timestamps
0:01:11 Why feedback matters for leadership growth
0:02:20 The fear that prevents honest conversations
0:03:10 Building trust before giving feedback
0:06:35 Making feedback specific and actionable
0:09:00 Asking better questions to receive better feedback
0:11:54 Feedback as a leadership investment
0:16:00 Creating shared vulnerability
0:18:30 Using feedback to help people do their best work
Keywords
feedback, leadership development, effective leadership, human leadership, employee growth, team trust, communication skills, performance conversations, self-awareness, leadership feedback
June 4, 202613 min
Feedback completes the circuit
Feedback is one of the core skills leaders use to provide support, but it only works when it is connected to clarity and accountability. In this episode, Kate Johnson explores why feedback matters, what makes feedback effective, and how leaders can prepare, deliver, and follow up on feedback in a way that is specific, credible, and kind. Listeners will learn how feedback completes the performance circuit that begins with expectation-setting and helps employees understand what worked, what missed the mark, and what needs to happen next.
Key takeaways
Feedback is not inherently negative.
Feedback works best when expectations are clear.
Accountability creates the context feedback needs.
Feedback tells the story of work performance.
Effective feedback includes preparation, delivery, and follow-up.
Specificity makes feedback actionable.
Follow-up turns feedback from information into support.
Leaders should approach feedback with confidence, kindness, and precision.
Ambiguous feedback creates ambiguous results.
Feedback helps employees stay pointed in the right direction.
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction: Clarity, Accountability & Feedback01:30 Why Leaders Need Feedback02:40 Feedback as the Story of Performance03:50 What Makes Feedback Effective05:41 Preparing Feedback with Clear Expectations07:20 Delivering Feedback with Specificity & Support08:50 Why Follow-Up Matters11:02 Making Feedback Actionable11:50 Upcoming Conversations & Resources
Keywords
leadership feedback, effective feedback, performance management, accountability at work, clear expectations, employee performance, leadership communication, manager skills, feedback conversations, leading well
As this season of The Well-led Podcast moves deeper into clarity, accountability, and feedback, it feels important to revisit the episode that started the whole framework: vulnerability.
Revisit this episode to consider why vulnerability is a foundational leadership skill and how leading well begins with self-leadership, self-awareness, and the courage to be human. You’ll learn what vulnerability actually means in a leadership context, why it strengthens trust rather than weakening authority, and how leaders can practice vulnerability in practical, appropriate ways that support their teams and work.
Key takeaways
Why leadership does not require perfection
How vulnerability builds trust and credibility at work
The difference between vulnerability and oversharing in leadership
Why self-leadership and self-awareness come first
How owning mistakes strengthens leadership effectiveness
Timestamps
[0:00:05] - Leadership Paradox: Humanity vs. Perfection
[0:01:05] - Essential Leadership Mindsets Introduced
[0:02:14] - Self-Leadership and Vulnerability Defined
[0:03:50] - Story: Leadership Mistake and Vulnerability
[0:07:08] - Examples: Vulnerability in Practice
[0:08:52] - Vulnerability Enables Caring Leadership
[0:09:35] - Navy SEAL Story: Trust Through Vulnerability
[0:11:20] - Vulnerability as Bravery, Not Weakness
[0:12:38] - Closing: Podcast Support and Future Topics
Keywords
vulnerability in leadership, human-centered leadership, self-leadership, leadership trust, leadership mistakes, emotional intelligence at work, caring leadership, leadership authenticity, leadership development, workplace trust