
Loss, Leadership and Learning to Choose Joy - with Ali Mortimer the Joy Coach
This week on Coach Class, I caught up with former Asda colleague and now renowned Joy Coach, Ali Mortimer.When Ali and I worked together at Asda and Walmart, she was a high-performing technology leader on the kind of career trajectory many people aspire to: Accenture-trained, leading large teams, shaping the future of ecommerce, and helping build the digital infrastructure that would later enable millions of people to shop, work and connect during the Covid years.Today, her world looks very different.In a deeply personal and honest conversation, Ali shares the story behind her transformation from corporate executive to coach, speaker and advocate for what she calls "joy as a strategy for life."We explore the pressures of corporate success, the relentless pursuit of achievement, and the moment she found herself questioning whether the life she'd worked so hard to build was actually making her happy. Ali speaks candidly about burnout, identity, grief, loss, health challenges, depression, PTSD and the difficult questions that ultimately led her to rebuild her life from the ground up.A recurring theme throughout the episode is the importance of paying attention to patterns, listening to what your mind and body are trying to tell you, and finding the courage to explore alternative paths when life no longer feels aligned with who you are.We also spend time reflecting on the influence of our former colleague Emma Mead, whose recent passing was deeply felt by many of us who had the privilege of working alongside her. Ali shares moving memories of Emma's fierce intelligence, generosity, coaching style and unwavering belief in her people, and the profound impact she had on her own leadership journey.The conversation then turns to the idea of joy itself. Far from being a fluffy concept, Ali explains how a simple daily "joy list" helped her navigate one of the darkest periods of her life and ultimately inspired a new career helping others find light in difficult times. We discuss happiness, purpose, ambition, manifestation, emotional wellbeing and why success doesn't have to come at the expense of fulfilment.Ali also shares her evolving definition of success. Once measured by titles, promotions and visible achievements, success today is about loving her life, loving the people she shares it with, honouring herself and helping others do the same. With her content now reaching more than 14 million people, her mission is simple: to help people find joy, whether they're navigating darkness or simply looking to live more intentionally.It's a conversation about reinvention, resilience, friendship, grief, purpose and what happens when we stop asking what success should look like and start asking what truly brings us joy.Topics covered:Life at Asda, Walmart and AccentureBurnout and corporate successLeadership and coaching lessons from Emma MeadGrief, loss and personal reinventionJoy as a daily practiceHappiness versus achievementHealth, wellbeing and self-awarenessFinding purpose after adversityRedefining successBuilding a life that feels aligned with your valuesIf you've ever found yourself asking, "Is this really what it's all cracked up to be?", this episode is for you.Send us Fan Mail🎧 Please consider sharing Coach Class with someone who’d enjoy it — and leaving a review on your podcast platform. It genuinely helps more people find the show.













