
Birds, Unplugged Toasters, and a Whole Lot of Grief: Lisa Archer on Losing 12 Loved Ones in 22 Months
Send us Fan Mail Grief doesn’t politely wait its turn. Sometimes it hits in rapid succession, and you’re left asking the question nobody can answer for you: how am I supposed to live like this and keep showing up for everyone who needs me? Maria Aponte sits down with Lisa Archer, an internationally certified life coach, grief educator, and breast cancer survivor, to talk through what happens when loss becomes relentless and deeply personal. Lisa opens up about losing 12 loved ones in 22 months, including her niece, both parents, and her 24-year-old son-in-law, and what compound grief taught her about survival, support, and the long road back to herself. Lisa and Maria get honest about the “blueprint” we all carry, the future we think we’re building, and the shock when death, divorce, or sudden change destroys it. https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisamariearcher/ They unpack how grief is bigger than death alone: it can be identity loss, health loss, job loss, relationship loss, and the quiet kind of ambiguous grief that doesn’t come with casseroles or condolences. If you’ve ever felt guilty for hurting over something others don’t label as grief, this conversation puts language to what you’re carrying. Then they move into what actually helps. Lisa shares clear do’s and don’ts for supporting a grieving loved one, from skipping empty comfort phrases to offering specific practical help (and why a text that starts with “you do not need to respond” can lift an enormous weight). They talk legacy, the comfort some people find in signs and meaningful moments, and daily grounding practices like guided meditation and using the five senses to return to the present. Connect with Lisa Archer: 🌐 Website: https://holisticlifecoaching.org.uk/ 📸 Instagram: @holistic_coach_lisa https://www.instagram.com/holistic_coach_lisa/ 📘 Facebook: Coach Lisa Archer https://www.facebook.com/coachlisaarcher 📘 Facebook Page: Holistic Life Coaching with Lisa Marie https://www.facebook.com/holisticlifecoachingwithlisamarie/ 💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/lisamariearcher https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisamariearcher/ 📖 NEW BOOK: Against All Odds: The Less Than 1% Chance I wasn’t supposed to survive. As the surviving twin with less than a 1% chance at life, I’ve spent my whole existence beating odds nobody expected me to beat. In this memoir and anthology, I share my story alongside eight other unbelievable accounts of people who refused to let impossible circumstances write their ending, from cancer and addiction to childhood trauma and grief. Eleven stories. One roadmap for anyone who’s ever been told “you can’t.” Get your copy here: https://books.by/love-your-life Support the show Love Your Life Follow Maria on Facebook HERE Follow Maria on Instagram HERE Follow Maria on YouTube HERE










