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August 12, 202651 min
Season 4 Episode 9
Money affects every part of our lives, yet for many women, it’s still the conversation we avoid. In this episode of WildHER Wisdom , Shelley and Mary welcome back financial literacy educator Bev Wilks, founder of Bacon & Heels , to break the silence around money and help women build the confidence to take control of their financial future. Together, they unpack why so many women have been conditioned to believe they’re “not good with money,” how shame and comparison keep us stuck, and why financial confidence has far more to do with mindset than math. From paying yourself first and tackling debt to asking for raises and investing with confidence, Bev offers practical advice that feels achievable—not intimidating. This conversation is about so much more than dollars and cents. It’s about reclaiming your voice, making empowered decisions, and creating the kind of financial independence that gives you choices. Because confidence isn’t just about speaking up in the boardroom—it’s about knowing you can take care of yourself, your future, and the life you’re building. Get full access to WildHER Wisdom: Inspiring Insights with Shelley & Mary at wildherwisdom.substack.com/subscribe
July 29, 202643 min
Season 4 Episode 9
Pack your bags, WildHERs—this episode is your permission slip to stop waiting for “someday.” 🌎✈️ Shelley and Mary sit down with travel advisor (and singer, and new chicken mama!) Kristin Nelson-Garcia of KNG Adventures for a conversation that goes way beyond passports and packing lists. Together, they dive into why travel has the power to change not just where we go, but who we become. From overcoming mom guilt and embracing solo adventures to respecting local cultures, finding the right travel advisor, and discovering why the best souvenirs are often new perspectives, this episode is full of practical tips and inspiring stories. Kristin shares why getting outside your bubble makes us better humans, how travel can help us reconnect with ourselves, and why every woman deserves time to rest, recharge, and experience the world on her own terms. Whether you’re dreaming of Costa Rica, Alaska, or your very first solo getaway, this conversation will leave you ready to trade “one day” for day one. Because sometimes the greatest journey isn’t to a new destination—it’s back to yourself. 💙 Get full access to WildHER Wisdom: Inspiring Insights with Shelley & Mary at wildherwisdom.substack.com/subscribe
June 17, 202640 min
Who's Your Daddy? A WildHER Father's Day Special
What happens when you hand microphones to the husbands behind WildHER Wisdom and give them absolutely zero preparation? Chaos. Pure chaos. In this Father’s Day special, Shelley and Mary introduce the men behind the wild (and occasionally the wisdom): Matt and Tim. What follows is a hilarious, heartfelt, and mildly dangerous conversation about marriage, fatherhood, aging, competitive spouses, loose pocket candy, and why some people should never be trusted to load a dishwasher. The episode kicks off with a newlywed-style game that proves these couples know each other perhaps a little too well. Matt reveals that Shelley believes she loads a dishwasher better than anyone on Earth (a claim she fully supports), while Tim lovingly describes Mary as a world-class worrier who prefers to call it “risk management.” We also learn that Shelley apparently talks about serial killers far more often than most people, and that Tim has somehow turned professional cycling into a dad joke. As the questions keep coming, listeners get a peek behind the curtain of two long-term relationships built on friendship, sarcasm, and mutual admiration. Matt shares that he’s been chasing Shelley since he was 14 years old, while Tim and Mary prove that even after years together, there’s still plenty of room for playful teasing and unexpected laughter. But underneath all the jokes is a conversation about what fatherhood really means. Matt talks about the shock of realizing there is no handbook for parenting and the bittersweet truth that the years fly by faster than anyone expects. Tim reflects on the joy of watching his daughters grow into strong women and the privilege of being a grandfather. Together, they share wisdom about navigating hard days, supporting your children through life’s challenges, and remembering that growth rarely happens in the easy moments.The men also turn the spotlight back on Shelley and Mary, sharing what they admire most about them as mothers. From fierce protection and unconditional support to unmatched hustle and determination, it’s a reminder that behind every strong family is a whole lot of love—and probably a little stubbornness. Of course, no WildHER Wisdom episode would be complete without a rapid-fire round that goes delightfully off the rails. Topics include old-man complaints, hidden snacks, cycling, Costco fashion, knapsacks, reality TV, and the ongoing debate over whether Matt is, in fact, an athlete. The jury is still out.By the end of the episode, the answers become surprisingly simple. Fatherhood means unconditional love. Love looks like friendship. And sometimes the best wisdom comes from the people quietly cheering us on behind the scenes. So grab your coffee (decaf or otherwise), pull up a chair, and join us for this special Father’s Day edition of WildHER Wisdom. We laughed, we learned, we may have uncovered a few family secrets, and we’re pretty sure Matt is still carrying loose candy in his pocket. Get full access to WildHER Wisdom: Inspiring Insights with Shelley & Mary at wildherwisdom.substack.com/subscribe
May 27, 202644 min
Season 4 Episode 7
What happens when you stop waiting for permission and finally choose yourself? In this episode of WildHER Wisdom , Shelley and Mary unpack the seasons of change they’re living through right now. From career pivots and empty nesting to confidence glow-ups, wigs, leadership, and redefining success, this conversation is equal parts honest, funny, and deeply empowering. Shelley opens up about leaving corporate stability to pursue her calling full-time, stepping into new leadership roles, and what alignment feels like after years of chasing achievement. Mary shares her unexpected journey of confidence through hair loss, wigs, and learning to show up unapologetically as herself. Together, they explore authenticity, reinvention, difficult transitions, and the freedom that comes when you stop shrinking and start writing your own story. If you’ve been standing at the edge of change, questioning your next chapter, or wondering whether it’s too late to become who you’re meant to be, this episode is your reminder: confidence is freedom, growth is uncomfortable, and the glow-up often starts the moment you stop asking for permission. Because around here… bold women, messy seasons, and real conversations are always welcome. Get full access to WildHER Wisdom: Inspiring Insights with Shelley & Mary at wildherwisdom.substack.com/subscribe
May 6, 202638 min
Season 4 Episode 6
This episode? It’s the one where everything gets a little more real. The Core4 is back, and Polo and Trish bring their own WildHER perspective to the table, grounding this conversation in honesty, growth, and the kind of truth you can’t fake. Instead of polished wins and highlight reels, we’re talking about the kind of growth that actually changes you. The messy, uncomfortable, liberating kind. There are swimsuits worn after decades of hiding.Helicopter rides taken while terrified.Big goals chased.Even bigger truths spoken out loud for the first time. And somewhere in the middle of all of it, a theme emerges: We’re not becoming someone new.We’re finally allowing ourselves to be who we’ve always been. Shelley shares the moment she stopped leading with credentials and started leading with truth. A teenage mom walking into corporate spaces, figuring it out the hard way. That story didn’t weaken her leadership. It defined it. Mary reflects on what it feels like to reach a stage in life where clarity replaces pressure, and self-trust replaces perfectionism… a shift that changes not just how you live, but how you lead. And the conversation lands on something that hits deep: Authenticity isn’t about adding more to who you are.It’s about letting go of everything you’re not. This is where the work of real leadership begins. Because when you strip away expectation, noise, and performance, what’s left is alignment. And aligned leaders don’t just feel different… they lead differently. They communicate with clarity. They build trust faster. They create environments where people can actually show up and perform. There’s also this beautiful, almost rebellious realization woven throughout the episode. Life doesn’t shrink as you get older. It expands. Especially when you stop performing for the room and start honoring your own voice. This one is about alignment.It’s about truth.It’s about the quiet, powerful moment when you realize… You don’t need permission to be fully seen. Get full access to WildHER Wisdom: Inspiring Insights with Shelley & Mary at wildherwisdom.substack.com/subscribe
April 8, 202630 min
Season 4 Episode 5
In this bold, no-filter episode, Mary flips the script and puts Shelley and special guest Polo REO Tate in the hot seat to talk about what it really takes to use your voice and be unapologetically heard. This conversation goes beyond surface-level confidence. It dives into the real reasons women shrink, over-explain, and second-guess themselves in the moments that matter most. From nervous system responses to lifelong conditioning, Shelley and Polo unpack why speaking up can feel so hard and why it is absolutely essential. They break down the difference between being heard and being understood, the power of boundaries that actually protect your peace, and what it means to walk away from a conversation knowing you showed up fully, even if you did not “win.” You will hear real talk about: * Why confidence is a skill, not a personality trait * How to stop softening your message and start owning your truth * What happens when you finally use your voice, and people are not ready for it * The role of alignment in powerful communication * How to navigate high-stakes conversations without abandoning yourself This episode also introduces the heart behind the Unapologetically Heard workshop, designed to help women move from knowing who they are to actually expressing it with clarity, confidence, and presence. If you have ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “I wish I would have said that,” this one is for you. Because being heard is not about being louder.It is about being aligned, grounded, and fully expressed. Get full access to WildHER Wisdom: Inspiring Insights with Shelley & Mary at wildherwisdom.substack.com/subscribe
April 1, 2026Episode 447 min
Season 4 Episode 4
What if the thing you were taught to hide… was actually your greatest source of confidence? In this episode of WildHER Wisdom, we sit down with Nicole Brown and Angela Emmons, the powerhouse co-founders behind LOX Wigs , for a conversation that goes far beyond hair. From deeply personal experiences to building a purpose-driven brand, Nicole and Angela share how alternative hair became a pathway to freedom, identity, and self-expression. Angela brings over 28 years behind the chair, along with her own lifelong journey wearing wigs. Nicole, a U.S. veteran turned content creator, opens up about how wigs helped her reclaim creativity and individuality after years of structure and uniformity. Together, they are not just selling wigs. They are reshaping the narrative. We talk about: * The emotional and psychological impact of hair loss and transformation * Why wigs are not about hiding, but about choice, power, and freedom * The gaps in the industry that led them to build something different * How community, transparency, and education are changing the conversation * What it really looks like to build a business as mothers, partners, and women leading with purpose Mary also shares her personal experience with wigs, offering a relatable, honest lens on what it means to try something new and build confidence later in life. This episode is a reminder that confidence is not about becoming someone new. It is about giving yourself permission to fully express who you already are. Because sometimes the boldest thing you can do is show up as yourself. Fully. Freely. Unapologetically. Get full access to WildHER Wisdom: Inspiring Insights with Shelley & Mary at wildherwisdom.substack.com/subscribe
February 11, 202631 min
Season 4 Episode 3
In this episode of WildHER Wisdom , Tamara Glenn of Be Love shares her journey from a demanding finance career to becoming a meditation teacher, Reiki healer, and consciousness coach. A car accident in 2010 opened the door to stillness, and over time, meditation became her anchor through the pressures of corporate life and motherhood. Tamara breaks down the basics of mindfulness, helping us understand how presence and self-compassion can reshape our inner and outer worlds. She offers practical insights on using meditation to reduce stress, support leadership, and deepen personal alignment. If you’re craving a more grounded, conscious approach to life and leadership, this conversation offers both wisdom and an invitation to begin within. Get full access to WildHER Wisdom: Inspiring Insights with Shelley & Mary at wildherwisdom.substack.com/subscribe
January 28, 2026Episode 240 min
Season 4 Episode 2
What does it really mean to know your rights and trust yourself enough to use them? In this honest and grounding conversation, Shelley and Mary sit down with Attorney Tiffany DeBruin , a criminal defense and family law attorney who knows what it means to stand beside someone in their most vulnerable moments. Tiffany opens up about her unexpected journey from aspiring prosecutor to building her own defense practice in East Lansing, Michigan. She shares why authenticity is her superpower in the courtroom, how she’s learned to trust herself through trial and error (literally), and what people really need to know when interacting with law enforcement or navigating charges, big or small. From traffic stops and domestic disputes to the nuances of concealed carry laws and diversion programs, this episode is full of calm clarity. Tiffany helps us remember that legal systems don’t have to feel inaccessible or cold, and that having the right guidance can shift everything. Whether you’re parenting a college-aged kid, facing something yourself, or just want to walk through the world a little more prepared, this conversation is here to support you. Get full access to WildHER Wisdom: Inspiring Insights with Shelley & Mary at wildherwisdom.substack.com/subscribe
January 14, 202653 min
Season 4 Episode 1
WildHER Wisdom is back, and Season 4 kicks off with a powerful evolution. Shelley Davis Boyd and Mary Gajda officially introduce the WildHER Wisdom Core4 , welcoming regular contributors Polo REO Tate and Trish Johnson into the circle. This episode is all about intention, identity, and unapologetic growth as the Core4 share the words, themes, and inner shifts guiding them into 2026. From authenticity and freedom to being downright unstoppable, the conversation invites listeners to stop shrinking, start aligning, and fully own who they are becoming. You’ll hear soulful reflections on emotional fitness, self-talk, and why tending to your inner world matters just as much as setting goals. The group also explores what it means to curate your life with intention, release what no longer fits, and trust the version of you that is emerging. Equal parts grounded and expansive, this episode sets the tone for a season rooted in truth, transformation, and choosing yourself without apology. ✨ New season. New voices. Same WildHER Wisdom. Get full access to WildHER Wisdom: Inspiring Insights with Shelley & Mary at wildherwisdom.substack.com/subscribe
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