EP 246 - “I’ll wait until I feel confident, then I’ll apply to speak” [Public Speaking Myths Series]
“I’ll wait until I feel confident… then I’ll apply to speak.”It sounds responsible. It sounds self-aware.And it’s one of the most common public speaking myths out there.In this episode of the Public Speaking Myths Series, we’re unpacking the belief that confidence has to come before action—and how that mindset quietly keeps people stuck on the sidelines.We’ll explore:The myth that says you need to feel confident before applying to speakWhen it does make sense to take action before you’re ready—and when it doesn’tHow to tell the difference between healthy nerves and a nervous system that truly isn’t readyWhat to do instead when pushing yourself would cause more harm than growthHow to actively build confidence before and after doing the big, scary thingIf you’ve been waiting for confidence to magically arrive before you raise your hand, this episode offers a more grounded, compassionate approach—one that honors both growth and capacity.🎙️ Press play if you’re ready to stop waiting for confidence and start building it in a way that feels supportive, intentional, and sustainable.Enjoyed the show? Make sure you rate and review us wherever you get your podcasts.WORK WITH STEPH🎤 Speaker Era: https://stephwharton.com/speaker-eraCONNECT WITH STEPH💖 Free Community—Join for Weekly Fiestas: https://stephwharton.com/community 🎤 Guide—How to Book Speaking Gigs: https://stephwharton.com/how-to-book-speaking-gigs📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephwharton_/ 💻 Website: https://stephwharton.com/
