
Ep163 - Relational Intelligence with Maria Ruberto
In this episode, Tom Bosna speaks with Maria Ruberto, founder of Salutegenics and a resilience and neuroscience consultant, about the often-overlooked role relationships play in workplace wellbeing and performance. Together they unpack relational intelligence, how trust and real connection are built in the space between people and why understanding the body’s stress and safety responses can strengthen leadership, improve team dynamics, and support healthier ways of working. ~ 📍M edibank Workplace Wellbeing supports hundreds of Australian workplaces each year through health and wellbeing services, including workplace health checks, skin cancer checks, mental health programs and tailored wellbeing workshops. Learn more about Medibank Workplace Wellbeing here: https://www.medibank.com.au/workplace-wellbeing/health-services/ ¬ Resources: Salutegenics: https://www.salutegenics.com.au/ Connect with Maria Ruberto on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariaruberto/ Paper | The Emotional Recession: https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2025.1701703/full Paper | Beyond positivity: A review of the functional outcomes of negative emotions at work: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/41678250/ ¬ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Relational Intelligence in the Workplace 03:47 The Science of Belonging and Human Biology 05:25 Why Connection Matters More Than Communication 07:07 The Neurological Basis of Relational Space 09:00 Challenges of Virtual Connection and Disconnection 10:52 The Difference Between Communication and Genuine Connection 12:14 Building Trust Through Relational Space 15:01 The Role of Relational Leadership in Organizational Success 15:54 Holding Space for Uncertainty and Ambiguity 18:01 Biology Before Behavior: Managing Stress and Safety 19:59 The Power of Silence and Reflection in Meetings 22:04 The Concept of a Relationship Resume 23:58 Developing Relational Capacity and Trust 25:49 Relational Space as a Foundation for Growth 29:49 Addressing Relationship Breakdowns and Conflict 32:02 The Importance of Repair and Co-Regulation 34:01 Practicing Pause and Reflection in Leadership 36:00 Understanding Silence and Feedback in Teams 38:08 Applying Relational Strategies for Better Outcomes 40:00 Practical Tips for Enhancing Relational Intelligence





