Helen Lipson: When the pain becomes great enough.....you walk through it
I first knew of Helen many years ago because we grew up in the same small town area in the suburbs of New York. Years later, we connected here in South Florida through mutual friends in recovery. One of the things I find most interesting about Helen is that she got sober at a very young age. She had to navigate a challenging time in life when most people her age were out partying and doing what “regular” late teens and early 20-somethings do. Her path looked very different, and she had to learn early on how to build a life around her recovery while watching the world around her experience life in a very different way. We sat down and talked about her childhood and history in New York, what it was like growing up there, and what it meant to experience college sober and feel different from many of her peers. For someone who once thought she would never leave the Northeast, the pandemic had other plans. She eventually found herself in South Florida, married, and unsure of what Florida would become for her. As she put it, “One of the hardest things to do is leave the comfort and familiarity of the connections and routine that were already established to move down here.” It took time for her to find her people, establish new routines, and truly feel at home. And during that process, she was also navigating a divorce. Through it all, Helen was able to rely on the foundation she had built through recovery and the strength of her community. She walked through that chapter the same way she had approached so many challenges since getting sober at a young age with resilience, honesty and one day at a time. Today, Helen is living a life she has intentionally designed for herself. She is an avid water woman who loves the ocean and wants to stay as close to the water as possible. She couldn’t imagine living anywhere else, and she has built quite a life for herself here. Her routine, work ethic, appreciation for the little things, and genuine enjoyment of life are a testament to what recovery can make possible. Helen’s story is not simply about getting sober young or making it through difficult chapters. It’s about continuing to grow, finding community, creating a life that feels authentic, and learning to embrace where life takes you.






