EP 203: He Never Asked Me for Money. I Offered. Why Police Find It Hard To Find The Scam with Beth Hylands
Send us Fan Mail Podcast Summary EP 203: He Never Asked Me for Money. I Offered. Why Police Find It Hard To Find The Scam. “If he asks me for money, I’m gonna feel really uncomfortable.” But he really never did. And so I offered. Beth Hylands was looking at houses on a lake and sending him pictures of engagement rings. Then he told her he’d been locked out of his bank account while overseas. When she offered to help, he urged her to wait. That hesitation made her trust him even more. In this episode of The Security Circle Podcast , Beth takes us through how the romance fraud unfolded, how her financial adviser helped her stop before she sent more money, and what happened when she reported it to police. She remembers being told, “You gave him money.” So what are investigators missing when they focus on who offered the money and give less weight to the deception that led to it? Beth, author of Diary of a Romance Scam: When Swiping Right Goes Wrong , also talks about what she was still trying to make sense of long after the money was gone. “Did he feel anything? Did he feel attraction at least? Did he think I was pretty?” Those questions are hard to hear. They’re also why this conversation matters. Beth had to come to terms with the fraud while grieving a future she’d already started planning. For anyone who’s ever thought, I’d see it coming , listen to what he said when she offered to help. BIO Beth Hyland was born and raised in Huntington Woods, Michigan, and currently lives in Portage, Michigan. She enjoys acting, improv, dancing, spending time with friends, and embracing new experiences. She values personal growth, self-awareness, and spirituality, and believes in finding balance and joy in everyday life. After surviving romance fraud in 2023, Beth chose to turn her experience into purpose. She is the founder of A Voice for Unrequited Love, LLC, author of Diary of a Romance Scam: When Swiping Right Goes Wrong, speaker, and advocate dedicated to raising awareness and shattering the shame surrounding romance fraud. Through her writing, speaking engagements, and advocacy, she educates others about the psychological manipulation behind these crimes and their devastating impact on victims. Security Circle ⭕️ is an IFPOD production for IFPO the International Foundation of Protection Officers






