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September 21, 2026Episode 42040 min
Why Losing Your Job Feels Like Losing Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
TweetWhy Losing Your Job Feels Like Losing Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier Is your self worth directly tied to your money or job? Do you feel like a loser if you’re not pulling your weight financially? And why do so many of us feel rudderless after we lose a job or sell a business? […]
September 9, 2026Episode 41951 min
Pushing Through Resistance: What If Resistance Is Trying to Tell You Something? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Today Alyson and I explore the topic of resistance — the part of us that hits the brakes when it’s time to take action. We talk about the pressure to be our best version of ourselves and how we can learn to question what we ‘should’ do in order to find our own sense of authority. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/09/pushing-through-resistance COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
August 25, 202642 min
Why Trying to Have Good Sex is Killing Arousal — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Today Alyson and I talk about how sex in the real world can often become awkward or mechanical. We explore why striving to meet expectations kills the mood and why amplifying desire might require you to do the exact opposite of what you think. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/08/low-arousal COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
August 11, 202646 min
Afraid of Her Emotions: Stop Walking on Eggshells — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Today Alyson and I talk about why so many guys feel powerful at work but ultimately feel like a wet noodle when they get home. We explore why someone else’s emotions have us give up our power, the reason this is a cancer to any relationship, and why any change is going to depend more on you than her. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/08/afraid-of-her-emotions COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
July 27, 2026Episode 41642 min
I Was Wrong About Masculinity: Macho Jerks and New Age Wimps — Jason Lange
How can you tell if you're too soft — or too domineering — as a man? Why are so many modern men afraid of their own masculinity? And how do we build a sense of purpose and belonging while knowing someone's really got our back? I asked Jason Lange to join me today to help me see what I'm missing about masculinity. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/07/modern-masculinity COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
June 30, 202639 min
The Problem with Trying to Fix Your Life — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Today Alyson and I explore how the positive desire to fix and change can turn us into what scientists call The Personal Growth Junkie. Whether it’s fixing your marriage, optimizing your health, or dialing in your productivity we explore what’s really driving that need — and what it might be costing you. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/06/fix-your-life COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
June 16, 2026Episode 41440 min
Why a Sense of Humor Makes You Stronger — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Whether it’s urinating yourself in public, surviving horrendous gas during a date, or just having spinach in your teeth during a zoom call, today Alyson and I share some true, embarrassing stories. We explore the importance of laughing at ourselves, how humor is a love language, and why our sense of humor tells us how tough we really are. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/06/humor-makes-you-stronger COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
June 3, 2026Episode 4131 hr 0 min
Are Men Intimidated by Successful Women? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Alyson and I dig into the notion that being a successful woman is unattractive to quality men. We talk about why the drive that gets professional results can unintentionally kill attraction, the role of armoring, and why creating connection is just another skill to learn. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/06/men-successful-women COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
May 13, 2026Episode 41255 min
David Deida and The Man of Zero
David Deida discusses how The Man of Zero differs from The Superior Man, why there’s more to life than purpose, and how meaningless is the doorway to something truly fulfilling. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/05/david-deida-man-of-zero COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
May 5, 2026Episode 41159 min
Burnout Almost Broke Him. How Jon Rose Got His Life Force Back.
Is burnout killing your life force? Are you afraid changing things up will blow things up? And could burnout be driven by emotions we’re trying to avoid? In 2012, Jon Rose appeared on The New Man. At that time, he had stepped away from professional surfing and found his calling as a humanitarian. Everything seemed to be on track, except that the experiences in disaster and war zones were creating a disaster within him. Today, we dig into what burnout looked like for him, how he had the rug pulled out from under him, and what ultimately helped him get his life force back. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/05/jon-rose-burnout COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book
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