The Imperfect Cafe

Hosted by Darryl Stickel

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Jun 2026

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If you are perfect this podcast is not for you. welcome to the Imperfect cafe with your host Dr. Darryl Stickel. Pulling from his rich life experiences and deep knowledge, Darryl dives into the complex topics of trust, relationships, and leadership in today's increasingly uncertain world. Darryl has focused his life’s work on building trust and his superpower lies in his ability to teach leaders, teams and organizations how to understand, diagnose and act to remedy trust problems. Tune in to learn how to rebuild the foundations of trust, cut through the noise, and navigate hostile environments with grace and resilience.

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June 7, 20261 hr 9 min

44: Lessons From the Deep With Jon Rennie

Most leaders are caught in a trap of flawed beliefs, believing they must have all the answers, stay perfect, or control everything. But what if true leadership is about vulnerability, trust, and love? In this eye-opening episode, John Rennie, a former Navy submarine officer turned leadership mentor, shares game-changing insights from decades of military and corporate experience on resilience, team cohesion, handling conflict, and creating cultures where failure is a stepping stone, not a threat. You'll discover how submarine life taught John the importance of deep relationships, trust, and the power of having tough conversations, lessons that transform corporate teams and leadership styles today. We break down practical strategies like Fridays on the Floor to foster connection across silos, building a shared mission, and cultivating benevolence, those secret ingredients that turn teams into allies committed to a common purpose. We also explore the critical role of vulnerability in leadership, how admitting mistakes, showing authentic emotion, and trusting your experts can elevate your influence. Plus, John shares how adopting a growth mindset, encouraging experimentation, and rewarding helpful behaviors lead to innovative, resilient organizations even amid swift change and disruptive challenges. This episode is essential for middle managers, entrepreneurs, and executives who feel constrained by corporate rules, yet crave authentic connection and high-performing teams. If you’ve ever wondered how to lead with more courage, compassion, and clarity, this conversation could redefine your leadership approach and unlock your team’s full potential. John Rennie, a decorated Navy submarine officer and bestselling author, offers rare insights into leadership built on love, trust, and humanity, proving that the best leaders aren’t afraid to be real. Perfect for anyone committed to leading with integrity in unpredictable times. Hit play and start transforming your influence today."Talk to us"The Imperfect CafeThank you for tuning in to another insightful episode of the Imperfect Cafe brought to you by Darryl Stickel at Trust Unlimited, where we explore the dynamics of trust in today's multifaceted landscape.For more thought-provoking discussions, expert insights, and practical tips on navigating the intricacies of trust, visit our website at www.trustunlimited.comOr visit and follow Darryl or Thomas on LinkedIn to keep up to date on our services and events focused on Building Trust and deepening relationships.Remember to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on your favorite platform to help us reach more listeners like you.Stay tuned for our next episode as we continue our journey towards understanding and fostering trust in an ever-evolving world. Until next time, trust wisely, trust boldly, trust unlimited.

May 24, 20261 hr 1 min

43: Looking at Success with Chip Baker

Most of us struggle with making mistakes—and often feel like they define us. But what if those missteps aren't just errors, but essential steps toward growth and connection? Chip Baker's inspiring story proves that embracing imperfection and fostering relationships can unlock unexpected success and impact. At 27 years in education and a creator of 27 books, including bestsellers, Chip reveals how his journey from a small Texas town to global influence was driven by one core principle: it's okay to not be perfect. He shares powerful insights on turning adverse childhood experiences into tools for motivation, emphasizing that our struggles can be our saving grace when approached with faith, purpose, and empathy. With humor and wisdom, Chip discusses practical frameworks like EERA (Environment, Experiences, Relationships, Actions) to help us understand ourselves and others better. You'll discover: how resilience is built through practice and Reps, why leaders must embrace mistakes as growth opportunities, and the importance of leading with love and genuine connection. Chip also dives into the significance of storytelling, community, and understanding diverse backgrounds, highlighting how shared vulnerability can dissolve barriers and build trust. Whether you're a leader, educator, or someone seeking personal growth, this episode empowers you to see setbacks as stepping stones and to inspire others by doing the same. The stakes are clear: ignoring the power of imperfection and connection costs us opportunities to serve, lead, and love fully. But embracing it opens doors to deeper understanding, stronger relationships, and a strong impact. If you're ready to shift your mindset and step into your purpose, flaws, failures, and all, this episode is your guide. Perfect for leaders, educators, and anyone committed to growth, Chip Baker's compelling stories and practical strategies will reshape how you view mistakes and influence your life's journey. Remember, growth happens when you get out there, try, and keep going—reps make us better. Tune in and start transforming setbacks into your greatest strength.[Why this works: This description hooks listeners with the universal fear of mistakes but immediately reframes it as a growth tool, sparking curiosity. It highlights concrete frameworks and themes of connection, resilience, and faith—all appealing to a broad yet targeted audience seeking inspiration and practical life principles. The call to action encourages listening to embrace imperfection, ensuring high engagement and relevance.]"Talk to us"The Imperfect CafeThank you for tuning in to another insightful episode of the Imperfect Cafe brought to you by Darryl Stickel at Trust Unlimited, where we explore the dynamics of trust in today's multifaceted landscape.For more thought-provoking discussions, expert insights, and practical tips on navigating the intricacies of trust, visit our website at www.trustunlimited.comOr visit and follow Darryl or Thomas on LinkedIn to keep up to date on our services and events focused on Building Trust and deepening relationships.Remember to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on your favorite platform to help us reach more listeners like you.Stay tuned for our next episode as we continue our journey towards understanding and fostering trust in an ever-evolving world. Until next time, trust wisely, trust boldly, trust unlimited.

May 10, 202644 min

42: Microdosing Vulnerability for Better Relationships

In part two of their discussion around vulnerability, Darryl Stickel and his son Thomas Stickel sit down to look at vulnerability in a more applied sense.While vulnerability can feel like a big, bad dragon waiting to bite your head off, it does not have to be scary or even a big concept. In this episode, get some real-world examples of how to microdose vulnerability so that you share but don't scare. Learn some key phrases you can use and get some insight into how to get off to a good start with a new team. How to build better relationships with your customers and how to be more effective at leading teams and how to get better at sales."Talk to us"The Imperfect CafeThank you for tuning in to another insightful episode of the Imperfect Cafe brought to you by Darryl Stickel at Trust Unlimited, where we explore the dynamics of trust in today's multifaceted landscape.For more thought-provoking discussions, expert insights, and practical tips on navigating the intricacies of trust, visit our website at www.trustunlimited.comOr visit and follow Darryl or Thomas on LinkedIn to keep up to date on our services and events focused on Building Trust and deepening relationships.Remember to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on your favorite platform to help us reach more listeners like you.Stay tuned for our next episode as we continue our journey towards understanding and fostering trust in an ever-evolving world. Until next time, trust wisely, trust boldly, trust unlimited.

April 26, 202643 min

41: A Look at Vulnerability With Drake the Guide Dog

Vulnerability is often viewed as a scary word. We can associate the word with being attacked or immediately get defensive when we hear the word.On this episode of The Imperfect Cafe, Darryl and his son Thomas will explore vulnerability, what it means, how we are vulnerable on a daily basis, and what the benefits of being vulnerable can be.They will do this by talking about the situation involving Darryl's guide dog Drake. Drake goes everywhere with Darryl and has become a big part of Darryl's life. Drake provides a great look at how vulnerability works and why it is necessary."Talk to us"The Imperfect CafeThank you for tuning in to another insightful episode of the Imperfect Cafe brought to you by Darryl Stickel at Trust Unlimited, where we explore the dynamics of trust in today's multifaceted landscape.For more thought-provoking discussions, expert insights, and practical tips on navigating the intricacies of trust, visit our website at www.trustunlimited.comOr visit and follow Darryl or Thomas on LinkedIn to keep up to date on our services and events focused on Building Trust and deepening relationships.Remember to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on your favorite platform to help us reach more listeners like you.Stay tuned for our next episode as we continue our journey towards understanding and fostering trust in an ever-evolving world. Until next time, trust wisely, trust boldly, trust unlimited.

April 12, 20261 hr 14 min

40: The Science and Spirit of Human Potential with Dr. Ron Stotts

Most leaders and everyday people alike are trapped in a cycle of fear, control, and self-limitation—yet the key to unlocking their true potential lies in vulnerability and conscious awareness. Dr. Ron Stott, a pioneering expert in human development, shares his remarkable journey from loss and chaos to mastery of mind, body, and spirit, illustrating how profound self-transformation can catalyze both personal and organizational success.In this transformative episode, Dr. Stott reveals why many of us are unknowingly sabotaging our growth and how childhood beliefs shape our current limitations. You'll discover how shifting inner beliefs unlocks higher states of consciousness, enhances leadership abilities, and fosters authentic connection—critically needed in today’s uncertain world. We break down powerful frameworks like internal/external locus of control, the importance of developing the emotional right brain, and the impact of vulnerability as a source of strength rather than weakness.We explore practical strategies to help leaders and individuals bravely step into vulnerability, reduce inner uncertainty, and build the foundation for lasting change. Dr. Stott emphasizes that trust, self-awareness, and intentional relationships are the true currencies of influence. Whether you're a coach, executive, or anyone striving to lead a more fulfilled life, this episode delivers actionable insights to embrace imperfection, cultivate resilience, and tap into your highest potential.This episode is essential listening for those committed to personal growth, leadership evolution, and creating a more conscious, connected world. It’s about transforming fear into empowerment and realizing that true power resides within, when we dare to be real, vulnerable, and loving.Dr. Ron Stott is a renowned psychologist, author, and international speaker known for his innovative work in consciousness development, leadership, and holistic well-being. His unique approach integrates psychology, spirituality, and bodywork, guiding thousands worldwide to live more authentic and impactful lives. If you're ready to break free from limiting beliefs and step into your highest self, this episode is your catalyst. Join us in discovering why vulnerability is the ultimate strength—and how it can transform your leadership, relationships, and life."Talk to us"The Imperfect CafeThank you for tuning in to another insightful episode of the Imperfect Cafe brought to you by Darryl Stickel at Trust Unlimited, where we explore the dynamics of trust in today's multifaceted landscape.For more thought-provoking discussions, expert insights, and practical tips on navigating the intricacies of trust, visit our website at www.trustunlimited.comOr visit and follow Darryl or Thomas on LinkedIn to keep up to date on our services and events focused on Building Trust and deepening relationships.Remember to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on your favorite platform to help us reach more listeners like you.Stay tuned for our next episode as we continue our journey towards understanding and fostering trust in an ever-evolving world. Until next time, trust wisely, trust boldly, trust unlimited.

March 29, 20261 hr 8 min

39: Mastering Change with Dr. Russell Thackery

Dr. Russel Thackery is an expert on change management and has helped many organizations work through organizational change. Change does not have to be big and scary, and we hope you'll join us as Darryl Stickel sits down with Russel to discuss how to better approach change."Talk to us"The Imperfect CafeThank you for tuning in to another insightful episode of the Imperfect Cafe brought to you by Darryl Stickel at Trust Unlimited, where we explore the dynamics of trust in today's multifaceted landscape.For more thought-provoking discussions, expert insights, and practical tips on navigating the intricacies of trust, visit our website at www.trustunlimited.comOr visit and follow Darryl or Thomas on LinkedIn to keep up to date on our services and events focused on Building Trust and deepening relationships.Remember to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on your favorite platform to help us reach more listeners like you.Stay tuned for our next episode as we continue our journey towards understanding and fostering trust in an ever-evolving world. Until next time, trust wisely, trust boldly, trust unlimited.

March 15, 202635 min

38: How Can I Overcome Addiction?

In these uncertain times addiction has become something we are more and more aware of. Whether that's to our phones, alcohol, social media, or opioids. Join Darryl Stickel and his son Thomas as they look to explore what addiction is, what causes it, and some ways for people to overcome their addictive behaviours and start redefining what good looks like in their personal lives. "Talk to us"The Imperfect CafeThank you for tuning in to another insightful episode of the Imperfect Cafe brought to you by Darryl Stickel at Trust Unlimited, where we explore the dynamics of trust in today's multifaceted landscape.For more thought-provoking discussions, expert insights, and practical tips on navigating the intricacies of trust, visit our website at www.trustunlimited.comOr visit and follow Darryl or Thomas on LinkedIn to keep up to date on our services and events focused on Building Trust and deepening relationships.Remember to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on your favorite platform to help us reach more listeners like you.Stay tuned for our next episode as we continue our journey towards understanding and fostering trust in an ever-evolving world. Until next time, trust wisely, trust boldly, trust unlimited.

March 1, 20261 hr 2 min

37: Setting Boundaries and Managing Your Time with Cathleen O'Sullivan

Cathleen O'Sullivan is a time management expert and an entrepreneur. We hope you'll join us on the Imperfect Cafe as Cathleen and Darryl discuss interesting topics such as how to more effectively manage your time, safety, and its importance, how setting boundaries can make you more reliable, and so much more! We hope you'll make the time to listen to this incredible conversation."Talk to us"The Imperfect CafeThank you for tuning in to another insightful episode of the Imperfect Cafe brought to you by Darryl Stickel at Trust Unlimited, where we explore the dynamics of trust in today's multifaceted landscape.For more thought-provoking discussions, expert insights, and practical tips on navigating the intricacies of trust, visit our website at www.trustunlimited.comOr visit and follow Darryl or Thomas on LinkedIn to keep up to date on our services and events focused on Building Trust and deepening relationships.Remember to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on your favorite platform to help us reach more listeners like you.Stay tuned for our next episode as we continue our journey towards understanding and fostering trust in an ever-evolving world. Until next time, trust wisely, trust boldly, trust unlimited.

February 15, 202650 min

36: How Can I Build Deeper Relationships?

On this episode of the Imperfect Cafe, Darryl Stickel sits down with his long-time friend, Eric Lott, to discuss the nature of relationships in our modern world. Listen for some insights on how to build deeper connections and some good ideas as to why we might struggle to build these relationships in the first place, especially in our digital age, where we are so connected yet so far apart. This is an issue near and dear to us on the Imperfect Cafe, and we hope you'll join us for this discussion. "Talk to us"The Imperfect CafeThank you for tuning in to another insightful episode of the Imperfect Cafe brought to you by Darryl Stickel at Trust Unlimited, where we explore the dynamics of trust in today's multifaceted landscape.For more thought-provoking discussions, expert insights, and practical tips on navigating the intricacies of trust, visit our website at www.trustunlimited.comOr visit and follow Darryl or Thomas on LinkedIn to keep up to date on our services and events focused on Building Trust and deepening relationships.Remember to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on your favorite platform to help us reach more listeners like you.Stay tuned for our next episode as we continue our journey towards understanding and fostering trust in an ever-evolving world. Until next time, trust wisely, trust boldly, trust unlimited.

February 1, 20261 hr 17 min

35: Breaking Down Integrity with Dr. Tony Simons

On this episode of the Imperfect Cafe, Darryl Stickel sits down with his good friend Dr. Tony Simons. Dr. Simons is one of the world's leading experts on integrity, and he and Darryl are set to work through what integrity means and what it looks like in practice. Integrity is one of those concepts that many enjoy but not everyone fully understands. We hope you'll join us at the Imperfect Cafe for this interesting and thoughtful breakdown of the concept of Integrity!"Talk to us"The Imperfect CafeThank you for tuning in to another insightful episode of the Imperfect Cafe brought to you by Darryl Stickel at Trust Unlimited, where we explore the dynamics of trust in today's multifaceted landscape.For more thought-provoking discussions, expert insights, and practical tips on navigating the intricacies of trust, visit our website at www.trustunlimited.comOr visit and follow Darryl or Thomas on LinkedIn to keep up to date on our services and events focused on Building Trust and deepening relationships.Remember to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast on your favorite platform to help us reach more listeners like you.Stay tuned for our next episode as we continue our journey towards understanding and fostering trust in an ever-evolving world. Until next time, trust wisely, trust boldly, trust unlimited.