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Welcome to the Humble Rising Podcast! Each week, host Arivee Vargas has conversations with badass, inspirational women sharing their own stories and actionable strategies on how to have fulfilling careers and lives. The journey to get there isn't linear or easy. Let's help you get clear on the life and career you really want and deserve now, and help you overcome the challenges and roadblocks that get in your way. From fear, disappointment, and self-doubt, to purpose, resilience, career clarity and transitions, we tackle it all. Be inspired, get motivated, and get ready to rise.

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June 11, 2026Episode 15440 min

154. Why High Performers Struggle to Lead People: Tinna Jackson

Tinna Jackson is a nationally recognized executive strategist and leadership coach with over 28 years of experience in high-stakes political, nonprofit, and corporate arenas. As a former Deputy Chief of Staff in the U.S. Senate and C-suite executive at a national political committee, she brings unmatched expertise in emotional intelligence, power dynamics, and executive positioning. Today, she works with senior leaders and mission-driven organizations to drive clarity, influence, and results-delivering not just advice, but action. In this candid conversation, Arivee and Tinna explore what Tinna learned after more than two decades working in national politics. From her early days as an executive assistant to serving as Deputy Chief of Staff in the U.S. Senate, Tinna witnessed firsthand how leadership decisions shape workplace culture, team performance, and the careers of the people who serve under them. Tinna shares the leadership patterns she observed again and again: talented professionals being promoted without the emotional intelligence or self-awareness needed to lead people effectively. Together, Arivee and Tinna unpack why so many leaders avoid difficult conversations, how lack of self-awareness erodes trust within teams, and what authentic leadership actually looks like in practice. They also dive into the inspiration behind Tinna's book, The Power Play Journal, a reflection and strategy guide built around real-world leadership challenges and the lessons she gathered throughout her career. This episode is a powerful reminder that leadership isn't just about authority or results—it's about accountability, communication, and the ability to create an environment where people can do their best work. You'll learn: Why professional success doesn't automatically translate into effective leadership The hidden cost of leaders who avoid feedback and difficult conversations How self-awareness and emotional intelligence shape team culture and trust Why authentic leadership requires transparency, consistency, and humility Practical ways leaders can deliver feedback without damaging relationships The leadership lessons that inspired The Power Play Journal and its 32 "battle-tested" strategies This episode is especially valuable for executives, managers, and emerging leaders navigating the complexities of leading people—whether in politics, business, or nonprofit organizations. If you've ever worked for a difficult boss, struggled with giving honest feedback, or wondered what truly separates great leaders from ineffective ones, this conversation offers both clarity and practical insight. Because leadership isn't about having power. It's about how you show up for the people who trust you to lead. Show Notes: CONNECT WITH TINNA info@tinnajackson.com https://tinnajackson.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/tinna-jackson/ https://www.instagram.com/iamtinnajackson Pivot to Power Group Coaching Program: https://www.pivottopower.live/welcome Book - The Power Play Journal: https://thepowerplayjournal.com/ GET ARIVEE'S BOOK: Your TIme to Rise: Unlearn Limiting Beliefs, Unlock Your Power, and Unleash Your Truest Self GET A SIGNED COPY AT H.O.L.A. BOOKS: https://www.hola-books.com/products/your-time-to-rise?_pos=1&_sid=e3d7f9db4&_ss=r Grab your FREE Boundary Toolkit: 3 Proven Strategies to Reclaim Your Time, Boost Your Energy and Feel in Control in just 7 Days. Click here to get it now. Grab more FREE resources and learn more about Arivee's programs: https://www.ariveevargas.com/ Instagram: @ariveevargas LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/ariveevargas/

April 18, 2026Episode 1531 hr 20 min

153. Memory, Legacy & the Power of Story

What if history is not just something we inherit, but something we actively shape? Dominique Luster is a storyteller and advocate dedicated to illuminating the rich narratives of the Black diaspora. With more than a decade of experience in cultural heritage and archives, she works at the intersection of history, memory, and justice. After serving as the Teenie Harris Archivist at the Carnegie Museum of Art, Dominique founded The Luster Company in 2021 to help ensure that Black stories are not only preserved, but celebrated. Through her consulting and speaking, Dominique helps organizations uncover and share hidden histories while amplifying the voices of the Black community. Her clients have included The King Center, the J. Paul Getty Foundation, Denver Public Library, and numerous nonprofits. She is also known for her widely viewed TED Talk on the power of archives and is a sought-after keynote speaker at women's leadership conferences. In this conversation, Dominique and I unpack the true power of storytelling, memory, and legacy. What begins as a discussion about archives expands into a rich dialogue about identity, entrepreneurship, cultural narratives, and the courage to claim your own story. Dominique shares how she stumbled into archival work while working at the University of Kentucky, and how history is shaped by who tells the story. From oral histories with Black elders in the U.S. South to challenging the narratives we were taught in school, she explores the tension between fact, memory, and interpretation, and why critical thinking matters now more than ever. Together, the conversation moves beyond documentation into something even deeper. The "dash" between your birth date and death date represents the story you live and how it will be remembered. You will also hear an honest exploration of entrepreneurship, including the messy middle that no one talks about. Dominique opens up about doubting her own entrepreneurial identity, leaving her job, crashing, returning to traditional work, and building again with clarity and resilience. This episode weaves together archives, business, legacy, and mindset into one powerful reminder. If you do not participate in writing your story, someone else will. You will learn: Why history is more interpretation than we realize The difference between documented facts and lived memory How oral histories preserve dignity, identity, and truth Why critical thinking matters more than memorizing history The emotional weight of preserving stories from marginalized communities What entrepreneurship actually looks like behind the scenes How limiting beliefs disguise themselves as facts Why consistency, not intensity, creates real momentum The importance of protecting your incubation season as a founder How to intentionally shape your legacy before someone else does This episode is especially for: Women of color reclaiming and documenting their narratives Founders and aspiring entrepreneurs navigating self-doubt Leaders thinking about impact beyond titles and roles Anyone questioning the stories they were taught and the stories they tell themselves History does not just live in textbooks. It lives in recipes, protests, kitchen tables, contracts, businesses, and brave decisions. And the dash between your dates is yours to write. Show Notes: CONNECT WITH DOMINIQUE- Website: https://www.thelustercompany.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-luster-company Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelustercompany?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Books: https://www.betterworldbooks.com/product/detail/relentless-pursuit-of-me-upending-the-unicorn-effect-9781967071982/new https://www.betterworldbooks.com/product/detail/brave-women-at-work-lessons-in-letting-go-9781737275190/new GET ARIVEE'S BOOK: Your Time To Rise: Unlearn Limiting Beliefs, Unlock Your Power, Unleash Your Truest Self https://www.amazon.com/Your-Time-Rise-Unlearn-Limiting/dp/B0D7FNPHS2 Grab your FREE Boundary Toolkit: 3 Proven Strategies to Reclaim Your Time, Boost Your Energy and Feel in Control in just 7 Days. Click here to get it now. Join Arivee's community to get inspiration, motivation, and actionable strategies to your inbox. This community gets first access to all of Arivee's programs. We're focusing on how to live that one beautiful precious life that you were meant to live- with meaning, joy, aliveness, and fulfillment. Grab more FREE resources and learn more about Arivee's coaching programs: https://www.ariveevargas.com/ Instagram: @ariveevargas LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/ariveevargas/

April 2, 2026Episode 15248 min

152. Becoming Her: Faith, Identity & the Courage to Evolve - Simone Knego

What if the version of you that feels most aligned is also the one that requires the most courage? Simone Knego is an international speaker, award-winning author, and confidence expert who helps high achievers reconnect with their worth and lead more meaningful lives. Her best-selling book, The Extraordinary UnOrdinary You and her globally ranked podcast, Her Unshakeable Confidence, which she co-hosts with her daughter, have inspired audiences around the world. A two-time TEDx speaker featured on ABC, NBC, CBS, Entrepreneur, and Yahoo News, Simone is also the creator of the REAL Method—a framework for building lasting confidence from the inside out. Her second book, REAL Confidence, launched in February and offers a practical guide to quiet self-doubt and lead with clarity and self-respect. From summiting Mt. Kilimanjaro to raising six children and navigating the beautiful chaos of everyday life, she brings authenticity, perspective, and heart to everything she does. In this heartfelt and transformative conversation on the Humble Rising Podcast, Simone joins the show to explore faith, identity, personal growth, and the bravery it takes to evolve. Simone opens up about the seasons that stretched her, including moments of doubt, reinvention, and stepping away from expectations that no longer fit. She reflects on surrendering control allowed her to grow into a more grounded, confident version of herself. This episode moves beyond surface-level success and into the inner work of becoming. It is a conversation about shedding labels, healing old narratives, and understanding that growth often requires letting go before stepping forward. You will learn: Why personal evolution can feel lonely before it feels liberating How faith and discernment guide major life transitions The difference between external success and internal alignment Why obedience to your calling requires courage How to release identities that no longer serve you The role of community and mentorship during seasons of change Why becoming is an ongoing process, not a final destination This episode is especially for: Women navigating identity shifts and life transitions Leaders seeking deeper alignment between faith and ambition Professionals feeling called to something more Anyone learning to trust who they are becoming Because growth is not always loud. Sometimes it is quiet, intentional, and deeply personal. And becoming her is less about changing who you are, and more about fully stepping into who you were always meant to be. Show Notes: CONNECT WITH SIMONE- https://realconfidencebook.com Toolkit https://simoneknego.com FB- https://www.facebook.com/SpeakerSimoneKnego IG- https://www.instagram.com/simoneknego/ LI- https://www.linkedin.com/in/simoneknego Amazon - https://geni.us/ExtraordinaryYou https://www.youtube.com/@her_unshakeable_confidence GET ARIVEE'S BOOK: Your Time To Rise: Unlearn Limiting Beliefs, Unlock Your Power, Unleash Your Truest Self https://www.amazon.com/Your-Time-Rise-Unlearn-Limiting/dp/B0D7FNPHS2 Grab your FREE Boundary Toolkit: 3 Proven Strategies to Reclaim Your Time, Boost Your Energy and Feel in Control in just 7 Days. Click here to get it now. Join Arivee's community to get inspiration, motivation, and actionable strategies to your inbox. This community gets first access to all of Arivee's programs. We're focusing on how to live that one beautiful precious life that you were meant to live- with meaning, joy, aliveness, and fulfillment. Grab more FREE resources and learn more about Arivee's coaching programs: https://www.ariveevargas.com/ Instagram: @ariveevargas LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/ariveevargas/

March 16, 2026Episode 15141 min

151. Redefining Success: Leadership & Owning Your Voice

What does it really mean to lead as a woman of color in spaces that were not built with you in mind? Monisha Longacre is the founder and CEO of Productivity 101 and a productivity strategist who helps busy professionals and organizations get more done without burning out. After years balancing a demanding leadership role, a growing family, and the nonstop pressure of "doing it all," she began developing practical systems to manage her time, energy, and priorities more intentionally. Today, Monisha shares those lessons through her book Practical Productivity, keynote speaking, workshops, and consulting work. Her mission is simple: help people work smarter so they can accomplish what matters most and still have time for the life they love. In this powerful and honest conversation on the Humble Rising Podcast, Monisha joins the show to unpack leadership, ambition, identity, and the quiet strength it takes to rise without losing yourself. Her journey moves through corporate spaces, personal pivots, and the internal work required to claim authority in rooms where you may be underestimated or overlooked. Monisha shares the defining moments that shaped her leadership style, including navigating high expectations, "imposter syndrome", and the pressure to overperform. She speaks candidly about learning to separate external validation from internal confidence and how redefining success on her own terms transformed both her career and her well-being. This conversation goes beyond titles and promotions. It explores visibility, boundaries, self-trust, and what it takes to build a career rooted in alignment rather than approval. You will learn: How high-achieving women internalize pressure to prove themselves The difference between confidence and constant performance How to advocate for yourself without shrinking or apologizing Why boundaries are a leadership skill, not a liability How to navigate "imposter syndrome" in competitive environments The cost of tying your worth to productivity Why redefining success is essential for long-term fulfillment How to own your voice in rooms where you are the only one This episode is especially for: Women of color navigating corporate leadership Professionals balancing ambition with personal well-being Emerging leaders stepping into bigger visibility Anyone questioning whether their version of success truly belongs to them Because leadership is not about becoming who the room expects. It is about becoming fully who you are. And when you define success for yourself, you stop chasing it and start living it. Show Notes: CONNECT WITH MONISHA Read: Practical Productivity: A Guide to Surviving Life's Juggling Act Download: priorigami: the art of productivity LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/productivity-101 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/productivity101/ GET ARIVEE'S BOOK: Your Time To Rise: Unlearn Limiting Beliefs, Unlock Your Power, Unleash Your Truest Self https://www.amazon.com/Your-Time-Rise-Unlearn-Limiting/dp/B0D7FNPHS2 Grab your FREE Boundary Toolkit: 3 Proven Strategies to Reclaim Your Time, Boost Your Energy and Feel in Control in just 7 Days. Click here to get it now. Join Arivee's community to get inspiration, motivation, and actionable strategies to your inbox. This community gets first access to all of Arivee's programs. We're focusing on how to live that one beautiful precious life that you were meant to live- with meaning, joy, aliveness, and fulfillment. Grab more FREE resources and learn more about Arivee's coaching programs: https://www.ariveevargas.com/ Instagram: @ariveevargas LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/ariveevargas/

February 20, 20261 hr 26 min

150. From Financial Stress to Financial Peace

What if financial stress isn't really about money—but about the stories we've been carrying for years? In this deeply honest and empowering conversation, Arivee sits down with Erika Dox-Martinez, Financial Wellness Coach and founder of Blissful Vida, to unpack the emotional, cultural, and psychological layers behind how we earn, spend, save, and avoid money. Erika shares her personal journey—from earning six figures while living paycheck to paycheck, to becoming debt-free, building wealth, and ultimately betting on herself as an entrepreneur. Together, Arivee and Erika explore how money trauma, childhood experiences, cultural beliefs, and shame quietly shape our financial decisions—often without us realizing it. This episode goes far beyond budgets and spreadsheets. It's a conversation about healing your relationship with money, reclaiming financial agency, and understanding that financial wellness is deeply connected to self-worth, safety, and freedom. You'll learn: Why high-achieving women can still feel anxious and avoidant about money How money stories and money trauma are formed—and how to rewrite them The difference between "good money habits" and true financial peace Why investing in yourself isn't an expense, but a long-term strategy How financial clarity creates real choice—in careers, relationships, and life What it means to build a Blissful Vida rooted in values, not guilt or scarcity This episode is especially for professional women—particularly Latinas and women of color—who make good money but still feel stressed, uncertain, or disconnected from their finances. If you've ever thought "I should be further along," felt shame around your spending, or avoided looking at your accounts altogether—this conversation will meet you with compassion, truth, and practical wisdom. Because you don't just deserve more money. You deserve peace, choice, and a life that feels fully yours. Complimentary Shift Your Money Mindset Workbook:www.myblissfulvida.com/arivee CONNECT WITH ERIKA Schedule a Free Financial Clarity call with Erika here: https://thehub-api.mastermind.com/widget/bookings/blissful-vida-call LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erika-dox-martinez Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/myblissfulvida/ GET ARIVEE'S BOOK: Your Time To Rise: Unlearn Limiting Beliefs, Unlock Your Power, Unleash Your Truest Self https://www.amazon.com/Your-Time-Rise-Unlearn-Limiting/dp/B0D7FNPHS2 Grab your FREE Boundary Toolkit: 3 Proven Strategies to Reclaim Your Time, Boost Your Energy and Feel in Control in just 7 Days. Click here to get it now. Join Arivee's community to get inspiration, motivation, and actionable strategies to your inbox. This community gets first access to all of Arivee's programs. We're focusing on how to live that one beautiful precious life that you were meant to live- with meaning, joy, aliveness, and fulfillment. Grab more FREE resources and learn more about Arivee's coaching programs: https://www.ariveevargas.com/ Instagram: @ariveevargas LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/ariveevargas/

February 13, 2026Episode 14959 min

149. The Quiet Crossroads (Part One) A Season of Recalibration

As we begin a new season of The Humble Rising Podcast, I want to acknowledge something that feels impossible to ignore: we are living through deeply unsettling times. What's happening in the United States right now is painful, alarming, and disorienting. And while this podcast has always been a space for growth, clarity, and empowerment, it's also a space for honesty. We can hold joy and grief at the same time. We can celebrate cultural wins, community resilience, and personal growth—and name the fear, anger, and exhaustion many of us are carrying. This solo episode is for those of you who feel like you're standing at a quiet crossroads. Maybe you're in between seasons of your career or life. Maybe you've achieved what you once worked so hard for—and now you're asking yourself, "What am I doing all this for?" Maybe nothing is "wrong," but something feels off. In this episode, I talk about what change really looks like when it's not dramatic or obvious—when it shows up as restlessness, numbness, dissatisfaction, or a growing sense that what once fit… doesn't anymore. You'll also hear: Why feeling unsettled doesn't mean something is wrong with you How to assess where you actually are (without rushing to fix it) The difference between external validation and internal alignment Small, practical actions you can take to begin moving forward—without burning it all down This episode is an invitation to pause, tell yourself the truth, and take one intentional step toward alignment—even if clarity hasn't fully arrived yet. If you're in the messy middle, questioning what's next, or quietly craving something different, this conversation will meet you right where you are. SIGN UP FOR ARIVEE'S YOUR TIME TO RISE RESET - a 4-week interactive experience that starts MARCH 4th, 2026. Learn more here: https://cart.ariveevargas.com/time-to-rise-reset GET ARIVEE'S BOOK: Your Time To Rise: Unlearn Limiting Beliefs, Unlock Your Power, Unleash Your Truest Self https://www.amazon.com/Your-Time-Rise-Unlearn-Limiting/dp/B0D7FNPHS2 Grab your FREE Boundary Toolkit: 3 Proven Strategies to Reclaim Your Time, Boost Your Energy and Feel in Control in just 7 Days. Click here to get it now. Join Arivee's community to get inspiration, motivation, and actionable strategies to your inbox. This community gets first access to all of Arivee's programs. We're focusing on how to live that one beautiful precious life that you were meant to live- with meaning, joy, aliveness, and fulfillment. Grab more FREE resources and learn more about Arivee's coaching programs: https://www.ariveevargas.com/ Instagram: @ariveevargas LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/ariveevargas/

December 18, 2025Episode 1481 hr 6 min

148. The Courage to Create Your Own Path with Trinette Faint

Trinnette Faint is a writer, award-winning actress, model, author, and creative entrepreneur whose work spans storytelling, filmmaking, and community building. She is the founder of Floor 51 Productions and Chez Faint, and the author of two novels, Collette's Caleb and MidCoast Star. A lifelong creative with a dynamic, multidisciplinary career, Trinnette is committed to telling bold, emotionally resonant stories that center women living fully, freely, and on their own terms. Her career reflects a blend of artistry, reinvention, and deep self-trust. Most recently, Trinnette wrote, produced, co-directed, and stars in her short film Party Pants—a sharp, heartfelt exploration of aging, identity, and the expectations placed on women. The film has already earned her the Best Actress award from the Berlin Indie Film Festival and continues to position her as a storyteller offering depth, humor, and a refreshing honesty about the realities of womanhood. In my conversation with Trinette, she takes us through her nonlinear journey—from navigating racism and impossible beauty standards as a model in the 80s fashion world, to working as Matt Damon's assistant, to building a career in photography, writing, and ultimately filmmaking. Her story is a masterclass in staying open, following your curiosity, and allowing one experience to lead to the next—even when the outcome doesn't look like what you could have imagined. We explore the power of saying yes, what it's like when things don't unfold they way you planned, and the magic that emerges when you refuse to let rejection define you. Trinnette shares how leaving a toxic tech job, surviving personal loss, and investing in herself—financially, emotionally, and creatively—led her to reclaim her voice and step fully into her artistry in her fifties. For any woman who has ever questioned her path, felt "behind," or wondered whether it's too late to begin again, this episode offers both grounding and revelation: you can choose differently at any time. Trinnette's journey is powerful reminder that the life you're meant to live often sits on the other side of a single brave step. -SHOW NOTES- GET ARIVEE'S BOOK: Your TIme to Rise: Unlearn Limiting Beliefs, Unlock Your Power, and Unleash Your Truest Self Grab your FREE Boundary Toolkit: 3 Proven Strategies to Reclaim Your Time, Boost Your Energy and Feel in Control in just 7 Days. Click here to get it now. Join Arivee's email community for inspiration, motivation, and actionable strategies from Arivee in your inbox. This community gets first access to all of Arivee's coaching programs. We're focusing on how to live that one beautiful precious life that you were meant to live- with meaning, joy, aliveness, and fulfillment. Grab more FREE resources and learn more about Arivee's programs: https://www.ariveevargas.com/ Instagram: @ariveevargas LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/ariveevargas/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AriveeVargas -CONNECT WITH TRINETTE- Award-winning "Party Pants": https://www.imdb.com/title/tt38219223/?ref_=nm_ov_bio_lk https://trinettefaint.com/ Instagram: @Trinette.faint YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@trinettefaint

November 27, 2025Episode 14759 min

147. How to Escape the Burnout Trap - Michelle Niemeyer

In this episode, I talk with Michelle Niemeyer—speaker, coach, and former attorney—about how high achievers can work with their energy instead of against it. After more than 30 years in law, running her own firm, and serving in public office, Michelle faced a rare autoimmune diagnosis that forced her to slow down and rethink everything about success, productivity, and well-being. That turning point led her to create The Art of Bending Time, a framework that helps professionals stay sharp and successful without sacrificing their health or joy. Michelle now helps leaders and teams prevent burnout, strengthen focus, and find sustainable ways to thrive. In this conversation, we get real about what burnout actually is (and isn't), why overworking isn't the same as achieving, and how to shift from constant doing to intentional, energized flow. What You'll Learn: How to recognize burnout before it breaks you – The subtle signs high performers often miss, like losing joy in your work, feeling detached, or resenting what once lit you up. How to make flow your time multiplier – The health, rest, and mindset shifts that help you do in two focused hours what used to take two distracted days. How to protect your focus and your hours – Simple, realistic ways to eliminate distractions, reduce "time sucks," and reclaim your creative or billable energy. How to rebuild joy on purpose – Using Michelle's clarity exercise and daily "wins" practice to retrain your mind to notice what's good, fuel motivation, and reconnect with what makes you feel alive. If you are a lawyer at a law firm or a professional in a very high pressure environment, please pay close attention to what Michelle shares. Listen twice if you need to. Here is my conversation with Michelle Show Notes: GET ARIVEE'S BOOK: Your TIme to Rise: Unlearn Limiting Beliefs, Unlock Your Power, and Unleash Your Truest Self Grab your FREE Boundary Toolkit: 3 Proven Strategies to Reclaim Your Time, Boost Your Energy and Feel in Control in just 7 Days. Click here to get it now. Join Arivee's women empowering women email community for inspiration, motivation, and actionable strategies from Arivee in your inbox. This community gets first access to all of Arivee's coaching programs. We're focusing on how to live that one beautiful precious life that you were meant to live- with meaning, joy, aliveness, and fulfillment. Grab more FREE resources and learn more about Arivee's programs: https://www.ariveevargas.com/ Instagram: @ariveevargas LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/ariveevargas/ CONNECT WITH MICHELLE LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-melin-niemeyer/ Signup for The Art of Bending Time FREE community to find clarity exercise and other tools: https://www.michelleniemeyer.com/offers/dmNrobgd/checkout OR Text CLARITY to 33777

November 13, 2025Episode 14651 min

146. Your Money Isn't the Problem—It's Your Relationship With It: Alejandra Rojas

In this episode I brought in Alejandra Rojas—a finance expert and founder, certified TRAUMA OF MONEY™ practitioner, and founder of Brown Way To Money, who is on a mission to advocate for women's voices in reclaiming their financial narratives so they can achieve financial independence. In this episode, Alejandra goes straight to the heart of why so many professional women (especially women of color) feel stuck with money despite "doing everything right." Alejandra shares her path from corporate and burnout to reclaiming her health, clearing debt, and helping others transform their relationship with money through context, culture, and compassion—not shame. We unpack what traditional financial advice gets wrong for so many, especially communities of color, how financial trauma quietly shapes our decisions, and the subtle signs to watch for. Alejandra walks us through her B.R.O.W.N. framework and you'll learn Why tools (budgets, goals, investing) though important, are unlikely to work without cultural and generational context Everyday signs of financial trauma and how to start tracking your money stories with voice notes or journaling What it actually means to "own your voice" in business and in money How to design a step-by-step strategy your brain can follow Ways to normalize and sustain success If you've ever thought, "I'll just make more so I never have to think about money," this one will lovingly call you in—and show you what to do next. Show Notes: GET ARIVEE'S BOOK: Your TIme to Rise: Unlearn Limiting Beliefs, Unlock Your Power, and Unleash Your Truest Self Grab your FREE Boundary Toolkit: 3 Proven Strategies to Reclaim Your Time, Boost Your Energy and Feel in Control in just 7 Days. Click here to get it now. Join Arivee's women empowering women email community for inspiration, motivation, and actionable strategies from Arivee in your inbox. This community gets first access to all of Arivee's coaching programs. We're focusing on how to live that one beautiful precious life that you were meant to live- with meaning, joy, aliveness, and fulfillment. Grab more FREE resources and learn more about Arivee's programs: https://www.ariveevargas.com/ Instagram: @ariveevargas LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/ariveevargas/ CONNECT WITH ALEJANDRA Website: www.brownwaytomoney.com and www.alejandrar.com Moving thorough mindset layers: https://stan.store/Moneymindsetexpert/p/moving-through-beliefs-with-money-sequence LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alejandrar2019 IG: @moneymindsetexpert

October 8, 2025Episode 1451 hr 17 min

145. Honoring Your Season: Friendship, Growth, and Letting Go of the Chase

In this conversation, I sit down with two of my besties and fellow Boston College alumni, Carla Breton and Diana Isern. They joined the podcast (episodes 65 and 66: Women Sharing Life Lessons) a few years ago, and they're back! We've been with each other for years through careers, motherhood, creative work, and everything in between—and this conversation felt like being back at one of our retiros/retreats. There's plenty of laughter and fun, and there's real talk about what life has been like for us. We talk about what it really looks like to chase your dreams and honor your values & your season of life, while parenting and growing as people. How do you know when to say yes or no to opportunities? How do you tell the difference between resistance and a true need for rest? How do you keep showing up for your passions, even when life feels full? How do you really stop the productivity chase and focus on being in the process? We discuss the importance of friendship, community, and family— and the resourcefulness of our Latino culture. This conversations reminded me how powerful it is to grow alongside people who really know you—the ones who've seen every version of you and still call you higher. It's about friendship that holds you accountable and gives you grace. I hope this episode feels like a reminder that you don't have to rise alone—and that the best kind of success is the one rooted in connection, joy, and staying true to yourself. Show Notes GET ARIVEE'S BOOK: Your TIme to Rise: Unlearn Limiting Beliefs, Unlock Your Power, and Unleash Your Truest Self Grab your FREE Boundary Toolkit: 3 Proven Strategies to Reclaim Your Time, Boost Your Energy and Feel in Control in just 7 Days. Click here to get it now. Join Arivee's women empowering women email community for inspiration, motivation, and actionable strategies from Arivee in your inbox. This community gets first access to all of Arivee's coaching programs. We're focusing on how to live that one beautiful precious life that you were meant to live- with meaning, joy, aliveness, and fulfillment. Grab more FREE resources and learn more about Arivee's coaching programs: https://www.ariveevargas.com/ Instagram: @ariveevargasLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/ariveevargas/ CONNECT WITH DIANA ISERN https://www.linkedin.com/in/dianaisern/ CONNECT WITH CARLA BRETON https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-breton-3024522a/