356. The Soul Contract vs. the Achievement Wound: Three Questions to Ask Before You Quit
About eight years ago, Taylor Swift sat on her couch waiting for the Grammy nominations, and they weren't what she'd hoped for. She could have quit, disappeared, or chased the applause harder. Instead, she decided she'd make a better record. On this solo episode of the Game On Girlfriend® podcast, I break down what that moment reveals about two forces that drive high-achieving women. The achievement wound is the part of you that's always looking for outward applause. Your soul contract, on the other hand, is the thing you would do even if no one else knew about it. Knowing which one is driving gives you a choice before you take your next step. If you've ever stared at a quiet inbox or a disappointing bank balance and wondered whether it's time to quit, this one's for you. By the end, you'll have three questions to ask yourself in that moment, plus a journal prompt to help you see what's truly yours to deliver. Watch the documentary moment I reference, plus the full show notes → https://sarahwalton.com/soul-contract-vs-achievement-wound/ WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: The two ways this moment can go sideways: caving, or clenching and white-knuckling a process that isn't working Why a soul contract often asks you to expand, not just perform The "what" vs. the "how," and why the universe may nudge you to change your method, not your mission How to tell whether you love the work or the applause Why grief points you back to your soul contract, and dread points you toward outside approval How to take your next step from an internal place of knowing A personal story of applying this in a real work and family moment How to stop waiting for validation before you act JOIN THE ABUNDANCE ACADEMY If you love this type of work and you're ready to keep expanding, join us inside the Abundance Academy. It's 12 months of living inside of wealth consciousness, with me and a community of women on divine assignment who cheer each other on as they work through their soul contracts. I read every single application personally, and I can't wait to read yours. Apply here → https://sarahwalton.com/abundance-academy/ STANDING AT YOUR OWN CROSSROADS? Maybe you're at your own "should I quit or double down?" moment right now. If so, let's talk. As a gift to Girlfriends, I offer a 30-minute discovery call. We'll talk about where you are right now and what might be getting in the way. Book here: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=13047670&appointmentType=2244195 FREE GIFT FROM SARAH Get Sarah's Freedom Calculator and discover how much your business needs to make to finally be free. Download at https://sarahwalton.com/freedom LEARN FROM SARAH Explore Sarah's online courses and free resources to start building your business with confidence. Online Courses: https://sarahwalton.com/online-courses Free Resources: https://sarahwalton.com/free-resources CONNECT WITH SARAH Website: https://sarahwalton.com/podcast YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheSarahWalton Instagram: https://instagram.com/thesarahwalton ABOUT SARAH WALTON Sarah Walton is a wealth consciousness coach, strategic advisor, podcast host, and mentor who helps women entrepreneurs build businesses they love. Her mission is simple: to put more money in the hands of more women. She's the creator of the Abundance Academy, The Art of Receiving, and the Game On Girlfriend® podcast. Sarah teaches authentic, heart-centered business strategies because when women have more financial power, they don't just keep it — they use it to take care of their families, support their communities, and build something bigger than themselves. RELATED GAME ON GIRLFRIEND® EPISODES YOU'LL LOVE: Episode 352: The Achievement Wound — Why Success Never Feels Like Enough — In this solo episode, I name the achievement wound, share where it starts, and walk through the signs high-achieving women miss. It's a natural follow-up, since the achievement wound is what keeps us waiting for applause — https://sarahwalton.com/achievement-wound/ Episode 300: 300 Episodes and Counting: Why Your Dreams in Progress Matter More Than Perfect Timing — After 300 episodes, I share why consistency beats perfectionism and how to keep going when you want to quit on your dream — https://sarahwalton.com/dreams-in-progress-300-episodes Episode 346: Certainty Is a Skill (And You Can Learn It) — Certainty and confidence aren't the same thing. I explain how to build certainty in your business before you have proof, so it pairs well with trusting what's yours to deliver — https://sarahwalton.com/certainty-vs-confidence-in-business/ LOVE THE SHOW? 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