Buying More House Than You Need: Was It Worth It Three Years Later?
In 2023, we stretched to upgrade into a larger home we didn't need. Three years later, I sat down with my wife to talk through the whole experience and answer the question everyone keeps asking us: was it worth it? The short version is that we found a unicorn. A home on a large lot at a relatively low price point, fully remodeled and landscaped, with a view of the Golden Gate Bridge. In 24 years of hunting for property in San Francisco, I'd never seen anything like it at that price. So we had to buy it, even though it meant selling a chunk of stocks and bonds and blowing up our passive income. In this episode, my wife and I get honest about both sides. The joy of watching our kids run around an enclosed front yard with zero fear of traffic. The peace of finally being off the property ladder. And the part that still stings: the $1 million to $1.5 million in stock gains we likely gave up by turning investments into a house we live in every single day. If you're sitting on big gains and tempted to upgrade into more home than you need, this one is for you. What We Cover Why we upgraded into a home we technically didn't need, and how long it took to convince my wife Finding a unicorn property, large lot, full remodel, Golden Gate Bridge view, at a price I still can't believe The real opportunity cost of selling stocks and bonds to buy a home, and the dads I know who left 10X and 20X gains on the table Pros and cons of stretching to buy, and the six months we spent living paycheck to paycheck afterward The biggest surprise: how cheap maintenance has actually been versus the 1% rule of thumb Why a large, usable lot can matter more than a view once you have active kids Using a home upgrade as a form of decumulation, spending down wealth to actually enjoy it What we'd do the same, and the one thing we might do differently next time Deeper Dives Mentioned In This Episode Blew Up Our Passive Income And No Longer Financially Independent Embrace Living Paycheck To Paycheck A Great View Or A Big Lot Enjoying A Home With An Enclosed Front Yard The Best Time To Own The Nicest House You Can Afford Paying for A Home Inspection Is Worth The Cost Companion Post Read the full written breakdown, including our three-year maintenance costs and my checklist for anyone planning to upgrade into a home they don't need: Whether Upgrading To A Home You Don't Need Is Worth It . Subscribe If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe to the Financial Samurai podcast on Apple or Spotify, and join 60,000+ readers by signing up for my free weekly newsletter at FinancialSamurai.com so you never miss a thing.








