
59. You’re Not Scared of Showing Up. You’re Scared of What It Says About You.
Most business owners assume they need to feel more confident before they can become more visible. But what if confidence isn’t really the problem?In this solo episode, I explore what may actually be sitting underneath your reluctance to share your opinions, speak on camera, pitch yourself for opportunities or step into the spotlight.Because you might feel completely confident in the work you do, while still worrying about what showing up will make other people think about you.Will they think you’re arrogant? That you’re showing off? That you’ve got too big for your boots?I share how our past experiences can quietly teach us that being visible, loud or “too much” isn’t safe, and how our brains create clever protective patterns to help us avoid judgement.We’ll look at why perfectionism, endless preparation, waiting for the right time and championing everyone except yourself may not be character flaws at all. They may simply be ways of protecting yourself from being truly seen.This is exactly the kind of work we’ll explore inside Brave, my new 2 week audio experience for business owners who want to understand what’s really holding them back from showing up.Rather than forcing yourself through another exhausting visibility challenge, you’ll receive a short, powerful audio each day, grounded in evidence-based positive psychology and designed to fit easily around your life. Brave begins on 22 June 2026 and this is the lowest price it will ever be.Find out more and join us here.Connect with Vicki:Take the visibility archetype quizFollow me on Instagram: @iamvickiknightsCheck out my websiteReady to work together?Book a branding photo shoot with meFind out about my visibility coachingFind out more about The Visibility Retreat Grab The Confidence Toolkit for just £15Get my self-paced course, UNCOVER YOUR MAGIC (Use the code SHOWING UP for 10% off)Mentioned in this episode:Brave pre-roll Join Brave, my new 2 week audio experience to help you understand what’s really stopping you from showing up and start taking braver visibility action. We start on 22nd June 2026. https://vickiknights.co.uk/brave







