She Can Share

Hosted by Melissa Lea Hughes

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The She Can Share podcast is for Christian women entrepreneurs who are looking to authentically share their business and faith online to make a kingdom impact. Melissa is a mama, TikTok Influencer, Author and Speaker who specializes in helping women live out their purpose by sharing their God-given gifts through video content on social media. Each week she will bring you practical tips on topics like surrounding business, motherhood, faith and how to go after the dreams and desires God has put on your heart. It’s time to start openly and honestly expressing your voice, talents, gifts and abilities with others to share Christ with the world!

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November 11, 2026Episode 19430 min

Ep:(194) Expansion Syndrome Part 2 with Jan Touchberry

Sometimes the seasons that make us feel the most vulnerable are the very seasons where God is doing His deepest work in us. In Part 2 of my conversation with my friend Jan Touchberry, we're going deeper into the heart of Expansion Syndrome and what it looks like to grow into the identity God has called us to embrace. We talk about the wilderness seasons, the painful process of pruning, and how God can meet us in our insecurities with His love. We also explore why the things we've been told are “too much” or “not enough” might actually be part of our God-given design. Plus, I share why constantly consuming more information can keep us stuck and why we need to start taking action with what we already know. In this episode, you'll discover: How God uses wilderness seasons to deepen our intimacy with Him. Why your edges and unique personality traits can be your superpower. How to stop seeing yourself through the filters of insecurity. Why taking action matters more than waiting until you feel fully qualified. Why planting the seed is your responsibility, but the fruit belongs to God. If you've been holding back because you feel unqualified, afraid, or unsure of what comes next, I hope this conversation encourages you to trust God with the process. You don't have to see the whole picture to take the next step. Keep planting, keep growing, and don't shrink back from the life He's inviting you into. Get your copy of Expansion Syndrome through the link in the show notes! EXPANSION SYNDROME IS OUT NOW! LinkExpansion Syndrome: When Your Calling Is Greater Than Your Identity: Lea Hughes, Melissa, Andress, Tamra: 9798992810165: Amazon.com: Books Get Your Copy of Firebrand Book Here! https://fitinfaithmedia.com/firebrand Ready to expand your message? Check out my free guides and resources: https://melissaleahughes.com/free-guides From Story to Strategy to Execution, get a FREE Brand Clarity Call by filling out this form: Book your free Brand Clarity Call Connect with Me: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissaleahughes Melissa's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissaleahughes/ Rise Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/risesocialmediaagency/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.harrington.758 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@melissaleahughes

November 4, 2026Episode 19328 min

Ep:(193) Expansion Syndrome Part 1 with Jan Touchberry

Episode 193: Expansion Syndrome Part 1 with Jan Touchberry Sometimes the very thing making you feel unqualified is actually an invitation to grow into who God created you to be. In this conversation with my friend Jan Touchberry, we’re unpacking a concept I call Expansion Syndrome—and why what we often mistake for imposter syndrome might actually be part of stepping into our God-given purpose. When God calls us into something bigger than our current identity, it can feel uncomfortable, overwhelming, and even a little scary. But that doesn't mean we're in the wrong place. We talk about learning to depend on God instead of relying on our own qualifications, recognizing the desires He places in our hearts, and surrounding ourselves with people who encourage us to grow rather than shrink back. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why imposter syndrome might actually be a sign of expansion. How God uses uncomfortable seasons to deepen our dependence on Him. How to recognize when you're growing into a new version of yourself. Why your God-given desires aren't necessarily selfish or self-promoting. How the right voices can encourage you to step into your calling. If you've been feeling stretched beyond what you think you're capable of, this conversation is for you. Grab a copy of my new book, Expansion Syndrome, and join us as we explore what it means to grow into the identity God has called you to embrace. Find the book through the link in the show notes! EXPANSION SYNDROME IS OUT NOW! LinkExpansion Syndrome: When Your Calling Is Greater Than Your Identity: Lea Hughes, Melissa, Andress, Tamra: 9798992810165: Amazon.com: Books Get Your Copy of Firebrand Book Here! https://fitinfaithmedia.com/firebrand Ready to expand your message? Check out my free guides and resources: https://melissaleahughes.com/free-guides From Story to Strategy to Execution, get a FREE Brand Clarity Call by filling out this form: Book your free Brand Clarity Call Connect with Me: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissaleahughes Melissa's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissaleahughes/ Rise Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/risesocialmediaagency/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.harrington.758 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@melissaleahughes

October 28, 2026Episode 1921 hr 4 min

Ep:(192) The Growth You Never Asked For with Pam Vredevelt (Part 2)

Grief and growth can happen at the same time, even when you wish you could skip the hard part entirely. In Part 2 of my conversation with Pam Vredevelt, we’re talking about how to navigate grief while continuing to show up for your family, business, and calling. As Christian women in business and leadership, it can be tempting to push through our pain or feel guilty when good things happen in the middle of a difficult season. But what if we could make room for both the heartache and the joy? Pam shares practical ways to process grief, become more emotionally aware, and have honest conversations with God. We also talk about finding life-giving ways to serve others, embracing seasons of pruning, and trusting that God can bring redemption even through our deepest losses. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why grief and joy can coexist, and why you don’t have to choose one over the other. How to process difficult emotions through prayer, journaling, and honest conversations with God. What it means to keep growing and flourishing while walking through a hard season. How serving others can help bring perspective and renewed purpose. Why God’s presence can be a source of joy even when life feels devastating. If you’re walking through a season you never asked for, I hope this conversation reminds you that you don’t have to rush your healing or put your calling on hold. God can meet you in the middle of the pain and help you grow through it. Connect with Pam Vredevelt: Find Pam’s information and resources in the show notes. And come back for Part 2 as we continue this conversation about grief, healing, and the growth God can bring from seasons we never would have chosen. Pam Vredevelt is an Author, Licensed Professional Counselor, and Inspirational Speaker Pam’s reputation as a sought-after counselor, popular conference speaker, and best-selling author is built on her ability to explore real life issues with authenticity, warmth, and humor. Compelling stories, engaging faith, and perceptive insight give Pam the rare ability to inspire and empower audiences with practical tools for long lasting change. Grab a Copy of Mending Miracles Here: https://pamvredevelt.com/ Instagram: instagram.com/supportmendingmiracles Facebook: facebook.com/authorpamvredevelt LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pam-vredevelt-96a1b539 Get Your Copy of Firebrand Book & Expansion Syndrome: https://fitinfaithmedia.com/firebrand https://melissaleahughes.com/expansionsyndrome Ready to expand your message? Check out my free guides and resources: https://melissaleahughes.com/free-guides From Story to Strategy to Execution, get a FREE Brand Clarity Call by filling out this form: Book your free Brand Clarity Call Connect with Me: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissaleahughes Melissa's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissaleahughes/ Rise Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/risesocialmediaagency/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.harrington.758 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@melissaleahughes Firebrand Rapid Fire with Laura Jenkins: We’re also sharing a short Firebrand Rapid Fire conversation with Laura Jenkins, who opens up about burnout, resilience, faith, and how her journey inspired her adaptogen coffee brand. Get your Tikvah Supernaturals Coffee at https://tikvahsupernaturals.com and connect with Laura on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/lauraslezinger/ .

October 21, 2026Episode 19143 min

Ep:(191) The Growth You Never Asked For with Pam Vredevelt (Part 1)

Episode 191: The Growth You Never Asked For with Pam Vredevelt (Part 1) Sometimes the hardest seasons are the ones we never saw coming. And when you're a woman who leads a business, cares for a family, and shows up for everyone else, it can be easy to keep moving without giving yourself permission to grieve. In this episode of SHE CAN SHARE, I’m joined by Pam Vredevelt, a therapist with over 40 years of experience and the author of 17 books, including Mending Miracles. Pam shares her deeply personal journey through loss and how God met her in the middle of heartbreak. Together, we unpack what grief really looks like, why staying busy doesn’t make it disappear, and how we can begin healing without putting pressure on ourselves to move on before we’re ready. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why grief can come from more than losing a loved one, including unexpected changes, job loss, and shattered dreams. How naming your emotions can help you understand what’s happening inside. Practical ways to process grief through prayer, journaling, and honest conversations with God. Why healing happens best in relationships and how to support someone without trying to fix them. How to give yourself grace when your healing journey doesn’t follow anyone else’s timeline. If you’re walking through a season you never expected, I hope this conversation reminds you that you don’t have to rush your healing. Even in the darkest grief, God can still be planting seeds of new life. Connect with Pam Vredevelt: Find Pam’s information and resources in the show notes. And come back for Part 2 as we continue this conversation about grief, healing, and the growth God can bring from seasons we never would have chosen. Pam Vredevelt is an Author, Licensed Professional Counselor, and Inspirational Speaker Pam’s reputation as a sought-after counselor, popular conference speaker, and best-selling author is built on her ability to explore real life issues with authenticity, warmth, and humor. Compelling stories, engaging faith, and perceptive insight give Pam the rare ability to inspire and empower audiences with practical tools for long lasting change. Grab a Copy of Mending Miracles Here: https://pamvredevelt.com/ Instagram: instagram.com/supportmendingmiracles Facebook: facebook.com/authorpamvredevelt LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pam-vredevelt-96a1b539 Get Your Copy of Firebrand Book: https://fitinfaithmedia.com/firebrand Ready to expand your message? Check out my free guides and resources: https://melissaleahughes.com/free-guides Get Your Copy of Expansion Syndrome: https://melissaleahughes.com/expansionsyndrome From Story to Strategy to Execution, get a FREE Brand Clarity Call by filling out this form: Book your free Brand Clarity Call Connect with Me: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissaleahughes Melissa's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissaleahughes/ Rise Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/risesocialmediaagency/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.harrington.758 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@melissaleahughes

October 14, 2026Episode 19040 min

Ep:(190) A Vulnerable Episode From Me to You

Life doesn’t always wait for you to feel ready, healed, or put together before it asks you to keep moving. In this episode of She Can Share, I’m letting you into a really vulnerable season of my life. Right now, some beautiful things are happening—my book is launching, doors are opening, and God is expanding my influence—while at the same time, I’m walking through one of the most painful seasons of my life. Somehow, the joy and the grief are existing at the same time. I’m sharing what God has been teaching me about grief, showing up when you feel messy, and not believing that you have to wait until everything is perfect before you move forward. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why you can experience grief and beautiful things at the same time How to give yourself permission to feel your emotions instead of stuffing them down Why being in a difficult season doesn’t disqualify you from what God has called you to do What Jeremiah 29 taught me about prospering and expanding even in exile Why God may still be calling you to show up, serve others, and build while you’re hurting What it really means to “do it messy” when you’re the messy one You don’t have to wait for life to be perfect to do the thing God has called you to do. Sometimes, you have to show up right in the middle of the mess—and trust that God is there with you. If you’re walking through a hard season right now, I hope this episode reminds you that you are not disqualified, forgotten, or alone. There is still hope in Christ, even here. Get Your Copy of Firebrand Book: FitinfaithmediaFirebrand | F.I.T. in Faith Media More actions Ready to expand your message? Check out my free guides and resources: MelissaleahughesFree Guides More actions Get Your Copy of Expansion Syndrome: MelissaleahughesExpansionSyndrome More actions From Story to Strategy to Execution, get a FREE Brand Clarity Call by filling out this form: Book your free Brand Clarity Call Connect with Me: TikTok: TiktokMelissa Lea Hughes's Creator Profile More actions Melissa's Instagram: Instagraminstagram.com/melissaleahughes More actions Rise Instagram: Instagraminstagram.com/risesocialmediaagency/?hl=... More actions Facebook: Facebookfacebook.com/melissa.harrington.758 More actions Youtube: YoutubeMelissa Lea Hughes More actions Firebrand Rapid Fire with Paula White We’re also joined by Paula White for a special Firebrand Rapid Fire segment, where she shares more of her story, perspective, and the lessons behind her journey. Connect with Paula and learn more about her work: Website: Symmetrical Solutions Instagram: @symmetricalsolutions

October 7, 2026Episode 18918 min

Ep:(189) This is Holding you Back

Sometimes the thing standing between you and the next step isn’t a lack of ability—it’s the voice in your own head telling you that you can’t. In this episode of She Can Share, I’m getting real about the thoughts and limiting beliefs that have held me back—and might be holding you back too. From worrying about what people will think to telling yourself you’re not good enough, not smart enough, too much, too shy, or simply not ready, these thoughts can quietly keep us from sharing the gifts, dreams, and messages God has placed inside us. In this episode, you’ll discover: How fear of other people’s opinions can keep you from stepping out Why negative self-talk can become one of the biggest things holding you back How to recognize and challenge limiting beliefs The difference between knowing your weaknesses and allowing them to define you Why God calls us to move beyond fear and step forward with boldness How to “mother yourself” with encouragement instead of constantly criticizing yourself You have something to say. You have something to give. And there may be someone on the other side of your message who needs to hear it. So stop letting what other people might think—or what you’ve been telling yourself—keep you stuck. Take it to the Lord, challenge those limiting beliefs, and take the next step. If this episode encouraged you, I’d love to hear from you. Send me an email and let me know what you’re taking away from this episode, and don’t forget to leave a review! Get Your Copy of Firebrand Book: https://fitinfaithmedia.com/firebrand Ready to expand your message? Check out my free guides and resources: https://melissaleahughes.com/free-guides Get Your Copy of Expansion Syndrome: https://melissaleahughes.com/expansionsyndrome From Story to Strategy to Execution, get a FREE Brand Clarity Call by filling out this form: Book your free Brand Clarity Call Connect with Me: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissaleahughes Melissa's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissaleahughes/ Rise Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/risesocialmediaagency/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.harrington.758 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@melissaleahughes

September 30, 2026Episode 18831 min

Ep:(188) How to Live Set Apart In Your Business

There are seasons when following God means being willing to walk a little differently than everyone around you. In this episode, I’m talking about what it really means to live set apart in your business—and why being set apart doesn’t always feel comfortable. Sometimes God calls us into lonely places, pruning seasons, and moments where we have to trust Him before we can see what He’s doing. We’ll talk about what happens when God expands your influence, why expansion can sometimes feel lonely, and how to stay grounded in God’s presence when you’re making big decisions in your business, brand, or calling. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why being set apart can require you to become comfortable with uncomfortable seasons How God uses pruning and solitude to prepare us for greater influence Why expansion doesn’t always mean adding more—it can mean letting go How to trust God when you feel alone, misunderstood, or uncertain about your next step Why seeking God first matters when you’re making major business and life decisions How to recognize that God’s presence—not the outcome—is where your victory begins And remember, being set apart doesn’t mean being abandoned. God is with you in the lonely places, the valley seasons, and the mountaintops. Get Your Copy of Firebrand Book: https://fitinfaithmedia.com/firebrand Ready to expand your message? Check out my free guides and resources: https://melissaleahughes.com/free-guides Get Your Copy of Expansion Syndrome: https://melissaleahughes.com/expansionsyndrome From Story to Strategy to Execution, get a FREE Brand Clarity Call by filling out this form: Book your free Brand Clarity Call Connect with Me: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissaleahughes Melissa's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissaleahughes/ Rise Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/risesocialmediaagency/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.harrington.758 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@melissaleahughes Firebrand Rapid Fire with Misty O’Fiel I’m also joined by Misty O’Fiel for this episode’s Firebrand Rapid Fire segment! Misty shares what she’s learned through seasons of hardship, grief, faith, and stepping into the next chapter God has for her. If you’re walking through a season where you feel like you’re between what was and what’s next, this conversation will encourage you to keep trusting God and take the next brave step. Connect with Misty: Rise & River — https://riseandriver.org/ Take a little time to listen, reflect, and ask God where He may be inviting you to live—and lead—more set apart in this season.

September 23, 2026Episode 18733 min

Ep:(187) Elimination Comes Before Expansion

Sometimes the biggest step toward what God has next for you is deciding what you’re finally ready to let go of. As we move into the final quarter of 2026, I’ve been thinking about what’s working, what isn’t, and what might need to be eliminated in order to make room for expansion. Because expansion doesn’t always mean adding more clients, more content, more opportunities, or more responsibilities. Sometimes, it requires subtraction first. In this episode, we’re talking about the things we may have outgrown but are still carrying—old habits, obligations, relationships, business models, roles, or even identities. I’ll share why elimination isn’t necessarily failure; sometimes, it’s obedience. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why expansion often requires subtraction before addition How to recognize what is draining your energy or no longer producing fruit The difference between what is familiar and what is actually fruitful Why something God blessed in one season may not be something He’s asking you to carry into the next How to make room for the calling God is expanding you into Why trusting God sometimes means stepping into the uncomfortable space between what you’re releasing and what comes next And because you don’t need to carry everything into your next season, I want to encourage you to prayerfully ask: What needs to go? Ready to expand your message? Check out my free guides and resources: https://melissaleahughes.com/free-guides Get Your Copy of Expansion Syndrome: https://melissaleahughes.com/expansionsyndrome From Story to Strategy to Execution, get a FREE Brand Clarity Call by filling out this form: Book your free Brand Clarity Call Connect with Me: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissaleahughes Melissa's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissaleahughes/ Rise Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/risesocialmediaagency/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.harrington.758 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@melissaleahughes Meet Jade Smith Jade Smith is a business owner, mom, homeschooler, worshiper, and operations expert who helps business-owner moms build the support they need to create a more sustainable lifestyle. In this episode’s Firebrand Rapid Fire segment, Jade shares about her journey through the fire, learning to trust God, and discovering how God uses our stories and experiences to reveal our calling. Connect with Jade: Laughing Over Tomorrow Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3z3KJksARULLK8E00pi8em?si=9eef395ea9d14c65 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laughingovertomorrow/ Check out the Firebrand book here: https://fitinfaithmedia.com/firebrand Want to hear more from Jade? Check out the Rapid Fire segment and hear why she says, “The fire is a good place to be.”

September 16, 2026Episode 18637 min

Ep:(186) The Bad Mom Lie with Theresa Todd

Episode 186: The Bad Mom Lie with Theresa Todd A bad moment doesn’t make you a bad mom—but sometimes shame can make it feel that way. In this episode, I’m joined by my friend Theresa Todd, host of The BAD Mom Show, for an honest conversation about motherhood, identity, shame, and what it looks like to step into your God-given authority as a mom. Theresa opens up about growing up with the belief that she was “the bad one” and how that eventually turned into perfectionism, performance, and constantly trying to prove her worth. We talk about how those same patterns followed her into motherhood and what happened when God began showing her that she didn’t have to earn her value through how well she performed. We also dive into the difference between guilt and shame, how to recognize the lies we’ve believed about ourselves, and how renewing our minds with God’s truth can change the way we lead our homes. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why attaching your worth to your performance can create a cycle of shame The difference between guilt and shame—and why shame attacks your identity How to recognize your triggers and get curious about what’s underneath them Why motherhood is one of the most important mantles of leadership How God’s Word can help you challenge the lies you’ve believed about yourself What it looks like to take spiritual authority and boldly speak truth over your family Motherhood was never meant to be a performance you have to perfect. You are already loved, chosen, and equipped by God for the family He has entrusted to you. If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “I’m a bad mom,” I hope this conversation reminds you that one hard moment does not define who you are. You can receive grace, renew your mind, and lead your home from a place of identity instead of shame. Connect with Theresa and learn more about The BAD Mom Show and the resources she offers for moms who want to grow in confidence, faith, and leadership. IG: https://www.instagram.com/thetheresatodd/ www.thetheresatodd.com Want more free resources to help you grow your business and overcome what’s holding you back? Grab my free guides for getting booked on stage, my Social Media Workbook, and understanding what’s driving your imposter syndrome here: 🎁 https://melissaleahughes.com/free-guides Get Your Copy of Expansion Syndrome: https://melissaleahughes.com/expansionsyndrome From Story to Strategy to Execution, get a FREE Brand Clarity Call by filling out this form: Book your free Brand Clarity Call Connect with Me: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissaleahughes Melissa's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissaleahughes/ Rise Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/risesocialmediaagency/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.harrington.758 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@melissaleahughes

September 9, 2026Episode 18538 min

Ep:(185) What Happens When God Gives You Influence?

Influence sounds exciting—until you realize it comes with responsibility. There’s a difference between being popular and actually making an impact. And when God begins expanding your influence, your business, your platform, or your reach, there’s a deeper question to consider: Are you ready to steward what He’s entrusted to you? In this episode, I’m talking about what happens when God gives you influence and why growth isn’t just about becoming more visible. It’s about integrity, consistency, humility, courage, and being willing to show up even when nobody is watching. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why influence is not the same thing as popularity What it really means to steward your time, voice, business, and platform Why God may ask you to show up consistently before anyone is watching How visibility can bring fears of criticism, judgment, and being misunderstood Why your message needs to be accessible to the people who need it How the parable of the talents challenges us to stop hiding what God has given us Sometimes expansion means becoming visible in ways you’ve never been visible before. But you don’t have to have everything figured out—you simply need to faithfully use what God has placed in your hands. If you’re ready to grow your influence while staying grounded in who God has called you to be, this episode is for you. Ready to expand your business and free the founder? If you’re approaching six figures or already in the 7–8 figure range and know you need more support, check out the expansion offer in the show notes and book a call with my team. Want more free resources to help you grow your business and overcome what’s holding you back? Grab my free guides for getting booked on stage, my Social Media Workbook, and understanding what’s driving your imposter syndrome here: 🎁 https://melissaleahughes.com/free-guides From Story to Strategy to Execution, get a FREE Brand Clarity Call by filling out this form: Book your free Brand Clarity Call Connect with Me: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissaleahughes Melissa's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissaleahughes/ Rise Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/risesocialmediaagency/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.harrington.758 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@melissaleahughes Firebrand Rapid Fire Segment: Continue the Conversation with Theresa Todd Loved hearing Theresa’s story in this special Firebrand Rapid Fire segment? Connect with her through The BAD Mom Show and join the BAD Mom Society, a free community created to encourage women in motherhood, leadership, and their God-given calling. Connect with Theresa Todd: Instagram: @thetheresatodd Facebook: @thetheresatodd Website: www.thetheresatodd.com Check out the Firebrand book here: https://fitinfaithmedia.com/firebrand