
325 - Vietnam War Children Reunited: He Found Their American Fathers After 30 Years with Brian Hjort
What would you do if you walked into a park in Saigon and found hundreds of young people your own age living under the trees, rejected by the only country they had ever known, all because of who their fathers were? In 1992, Brian Hjort, a young blacksmith from a small town in Denmark, faced exactly that moment. He met the Amerasians, children born to Vietnamese and Filipino mothers and American servicemen during the Vietnam War, and he made a choice that would shape the rest of his life: he refused to look away. In this powerful episode of Comfort to Courage, Brian takes us from Saigon's Amerasian Park to a violent, overcrowded refugee camp in Bataan, Philippines, where he tracked down a friend with nothing but a photo and a refugee number. With no funding, no internet, and no plan, he typed letters on his parents' typewriter to the US Military Records Center, waited months for answers, and found his first father in Oklahoma. That one reunion grew into Father Founded, a nonprofit that sends DNA tests around the world, reconnects fathers, children, and siblings, and has been featured in the New York Times, the Washington Post, and on the BBC. Brian shares the heartbreak of fathers who refuse contact, the joy of a 2018 airport reunion in Houston, and the stubborn "give up doesn't exist" mindset that has carried him for more than three decades. This episode is for anyone who has ever felt a pull toward something bigger than themselves but wondered if they were qualified, funded, or ready enough to start. Brian is proof that you do not need a title, a budget, or a perfect plan to change lives. You just need to say yes to the person standing in front of you. Plus, Jen opens the show with a Badassery Bestowment on managing your time like the asset it is. Hit play, and get ready to rethink what one ordinary person can do. 5 Powerful Takeaways How a 20-something blacksmith with no funding or training found his first American father using only a typewriter, a military records request, and relentless follow-up Why DNA testing through services like 23andMe and Ancestry has become the key to reuniting Amerasians with fathers when names, ages, and addresses were often fake The raw truth about the fathers who block contact, and why Brian says you can find a father but you cannot promise love The unforgettable Houston airport reunion that turned years of dead ends into a true American dream story for three generations Brian's Courage Challenge: seek out people who do not look, think, or live like you, start a conversation, and leave judgment at the door 00:00 Courage Is Contagious 01:33 Badass Time Management 04:50 Meet Brian Hjort 06:50 Father Founded Today 09:05 Mission And Who They Help 13:01 Growing Up In Denmark 14:22 First Trip To Saigon 16:59 Amerasian Park Discovery 19:57 Refugee Camp In Philippines 22:24 Finding The First Father 24:18 Early Days No Money 24:52 Shoestring Father Searches 25:54 Media Spotlight Momentum 26:54 When Fathers Refuse 28:47 A Reunion That Changed Lives 32:30 How To Find And Support 34:34 Courage Challenge Comfort Zone 36:04 Badass Book And Advice 38:57 Doubt Aspiration And Strength 45:24 Defining Success And Farewell About the Guest Brian Hjort is the founder of Father Founded, a nonprofit dedicated to helping Amerasians, the children of Vietnamese and Filipino mothers and American servicemen, find the fathers they never knew. Raised in Slagelse, Denmark, and trained as a blacksmith, Brian first encountered Amerasians on the streets of Saigon in 1992 and has spent more than three decades reuniting families across Vietnam, the Philippines, the United States, and Europe. His work has been covered by the New York Times, the Washington Post, the BBC, and media outlets around the world, and he has contributed to documentary films screened at international film festivals. Today he leads a team of staff and volunteers across four countries who send free DNA tests worldwide and help fathers, children, and siblings reconnect. Brian is also building a new YouTube channel sharing human stories from his journey to inspire others to make a difference in their own communities. Resources & Websites Mentioned Father Founded: https://www.fatherfounded.org Brian Hjort on Facebook (search Brian Hjort) Brian's YouTube channel, From Slagelse to Saigon Book: Vietnamerica by Thomas A. Bass Connect With Jen Josey To learn more about Jen Josey, visit https://www.therealjenjosey.com/ If you enjoy Jen's Witty Shirts, shop the whole collection at https://www.shopwittygoods.com/ New episodes drop every Monday Morning at 6am EST. See you next time.










