
Safety Standards for In-Home Care Providers with Brit Ashe
Home care providers — nannies, doulas, and in‑home caregivers — perform some of the most intimate, demanding, emotionally complex work in our entire labor system. Yet as this episode reveals, they do it in environments with no structured protections, no oversight, and no psychosocial safety framework whatsoever. Dr. I. David Daniels speaks with Brit Ashe, a seasoned nanny and doula whose 14 years in private homes — including international placements — have shown her how deeply unsafe and unregulated this work can be. Ashe describes unpredictable client behavior, verbal aggression, power imbalances, job creep, isolation, and the constant pressure to “just deal,” all without HR, safety officers, or any formal mechanism to report harm. “There is no safety. At some point you ask yourself: how much more abuse do I have to take just to keep my job?” — Brit Ashe Together, they explore why psychosocial harm in private homes remains invisible, how domestic workers are excluded from traditional labor protections, and why caregivers often absorb stress that isn’t theirs — even as they’re expected to provide stability for the youngest and most vulnerable members of society. Ashe also introduces her emerging Safety & Autonomy Standards, a first‑of‑its‑kind effort to define what safe, ethical, and sustainable in‑home care work should look like. She shares insights from her Domestic Workers Experience Project and her vision for a future where caregivers are protected, respected, and supported. This episode is eye‑opening, humanizing, and essential for anyone who cares about worker safety, child development, governance, or the future of care work in America. If we want safe, stable, high‑quality care, we must start by protecting the people who provide it.












