131: Ray Offenburger on The Retirement Paradox: Why Successful People Fail at Retirement
Ray Offenburger, CFP®, joins Gabe McManus to talk about a problem he sees again and again in people who did everything right: they saved for 40 years, and now they are afraid to spend it. Ray explains how his own parents never lost a dime in 2008, yet watched the income from their "safe" CDs fall by nearly 80%, and how facing his father's long illness and his mother's Parkinson's diagnosis without a real plan moved him from a back-office analyst job into retirement planning. He walks through what he calls just-in-case paralysis, why he invests every dollar based on its job and its timeline, and how the widow's penalty can cut a surviving spouse's income while pushing her into a higher tax bracket. Ray also shares the client stories behind his book, The Retirement Paradox: Why Successful People Fail at Retirement , including a retiree who found himself standing at the refrigerator at 9 a.m. with no idea what to do with his day. About Ray Offenburger Ray Offenburger is a Certified Financial Planner® who specializes in retirement planning for professionals and their families. He started his career in financial analysis, reporting, and auditing, and moved to the advice side of the business after helping his parents through the 2008 financial crisis and, later, their health crises. His practice is built on a patient, collaborative approach that puts coordination ahead of consolidation and long-term relationships ahead of transactions. A graduate of Seton Hall University and a former educator, Ray lives in Ocean County, New Jersey, with his wife. He is the author of The Retirement Paradox . What We Cover How 2008 cut his parents' CD income by nearly 80% even though they never lost a dime, and why that sent Ray from crunching numbers to sitting at clients' kitchen tables What his father's illness and his mother's Parkinson's diagnosis taught him about the difference between a balanced portfolio and an actual plan Just-in-case paralysis, and the client in a heat wave who needed permission to spend $600 on a hotel room Risk tolerance versus risk capacity, and why Ray gives every account a job and a timeline before deciding how to invest it The widow's penalty: how a surviving spouse can lose $24,000 of income and still move from the 12% to the 22% tax bracket, and what couples can do while both spouses are alive Why Social Security may be your largest retirement asset, and why you shouldn't pick your filing date because your brother-in-law did Toxic generosity, from open-ended support for adult children to unplanned donations, and why it's fine to let your planner be the bad guy The retiree at the refrigerator door, and why the people who retire best have a reason to wake up in the morning Coordination: the trust that did nothing because no accounts were ever moved into it, and the "diversified" accounts at five firms that all held the same investments Resources Mentioned The Retirement Paradox: Why Successful People Fail at Retirement by Ray Offenburger Connect with Ray Offenburger Book Website: theretirementparadoxbook.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/ray-offenburger Support the show







