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The Fulfilled Leader with Jean Balfour

The Fulfilled Leader with Jean Balfour

Hosted by Jean Balfour - I Coach Senior Leaders to Build Emotional Resilience & Find Fulfillment

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119

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May 2026

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About the show

For leaders who want to thrive - not just survive. Leadership can be lonely, overwhelming, and emotionally draining. But it doesn’t have to be. Join Master Certified Coach Jean Balfour as she brings honesty, depth, and warmth to conversations about what it really takes to lead with resilience, clarity, and purpose. In The Fulfilled Leader , Jean explores the inner world of leadership—the doubts, the burnout, the self-sabotage - and the transformative practices that help leaders feel more grounded, empowered, and fulfilled. You’ll hear practical insights from neuroscience, psychology, coaching, and real leadership experience. Whether it’s solo reflections or conversations with inspiring guests, this podcast is your space to pause, reflect, and grow. Listen every week and watch the way you lead, and live your life, transform forever. New episodes every week. Subscribe now and join a global community of leaders who are redefining success from the inside out.

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May 29, 2026Episode 11739 min

How to Stay Present and Calm Under Pressure - Helen Williams

Anxiety is everywhere at the moment, but the most exhausting part is not always what’s happening in the world. It’s what happens inside us when our mind sprints into the future and our nervous system hits panic, shutdown, or people pleasing. We sit down together to bring mindfulness back to earth as something practical, body based, and usable in real life, especially at work when pressure is rising and roles are stretching. Helen Williams, a mindfulness teacher and therapist, shares what she notices across cultures: our autonomic nervous system often runs the show through fight, flight, freeze, or fawn. We talk about how to recognise your default pattern, why “just think positive” fails, and how the smallest moment of awareness creates the space to choose a response. If your thoughts feel like traffic, you don’t have to climb into every car. We also swap simple grounding tools you can try immediately: a hand on the chest with a quiet “come here”, short check ins prompted by phone timers, walking without headphones, gratitude walks, and sensory practices that calm the body fast. We explore why uncertainty is so hard, how constant news can amplify worry, and how self compassion transforms “why me” into genuine support and connection with others. If you want a realistic mindfulness toolkit for anxiety, workplace stress, and modern overwhelm, press play. Subscribe, share with someone who needs steadiness right now, and leave us a review. What’s one tiny practice you’ll try today?Sign up to my weekly newsletter.Book a free strategy call: https://calendly.com/jean-balfour/30minLearn more about my work: https://jeanbalfour.com/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeanbalfour/

May 14, 2026Episode 11624 min

Turn Worry at Work into Practical Action - A 4-Step Process

We live in worrying times. Whether it's job security, the impact of AI, or simply the overwhelming feeling of having too much to do, worry at work is something most of us are experiencing right now. But worrying rarely leads anywhere helpful, and often makes things worse. In this episode, Jean shares a four-step process that has genuinely helped her navigate a particularly challenging period, along with the neuroscience behind why we worry in the first place.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE• Why worry exists  - and why our brains are wired to do it, even when it's not helping us.• The neuroscience of the task positive and default mode networks, and how to use both to your advantage.• A four-step process for working with worry rather than against it.• How self-compassion changes our relationship with the worries we're carrying.• What to do with the worries you genuinely can't control.WHY THIS MATTERSWorry is our brain's attempt to solve a problem - but left unchecked, it exhausts us and stops us functioning at our best, usually at exactly the time we need to. This episode reframes worry not as something to push down or ignore, but as something to work with thoughtfully. With the right tools, it's possible to move from anxious rumination to creative, generative action.TAKEAWAYYou don't have to let worry take over. By externalising it, meeting it with compassion, and taking purposeful action where you can, you can reclaim your focus and your energy  - even in challenging times.RESOURCES AND LINKSFull article + four-step process + journaling prompts: https://jeanbalfour.substack.com/Sign up to my weekly newsletter.Book a free strategy call: https://calendly.com/jean-balfour/30minLearn more about my work: https://jeanbalfour.com/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeanbalfour/

April 27, 2026Episode 11519 min

Feeling Lost at Work? You're Not Alone

Have you been feeling stuck, lost, or uncertain about what comes next in your work or career? You're not alone - and there's a name for what you're experiencing.In this episode, Jean shares her own journey through what Jim Collins calls the fog — the disorienting period that follows a significant life or career change. Honest, personal, and at moments quite extraordinary, this is a conversation about resilience, trust, and the quiet process of emergence.Jean draws on ideas from Jim Collins, William Bridges, Martha Beck, and Lisa Miller, and shares a remarkable real-life experience of synchronicity that helped her find clarity.You'll also find practical tools to help you navigate your own fog — including reflection prompts, small steps to take, and questions worth sitting with.Books mentioned:What Makes a Life — Jim CollinsManaging Transitions — William BridgesThe Way of Integrity — Martha BeckThe Awakened Brain — Dr Lisa MillerThe Happiness Trap — Russ HarrisFind the full article + journalling prompts: jeanbalfour.substack.comSign up to my weekly newsletter.Book a free strategy call: https://calendly.com/jean-balfour/30minLearn more about my work: https://jeanbalfour.com/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeanbalfour/

October 22, 2025Episode 11448 min

Leading with Compassion Through Crisis: A Conversation with Elaine Robinson

In this moving and deeply human conversation, Jean welcomes  Elaine Robinson, Principal of Sir Manasseh Meyer International School in Singapore. With over 25 years in education, Elaine has led schools across the UK and internationally with vision, courage, and compassion.Elaine shares openly about her leadership journey, from navigating the complexities of leading a school community through COVID-19 to facing her own profound personal loss while continuing to lead with authenticity, grace, and care.Together, Jean and Elaine explore what it truly means to be a compassionate leader  - one who holds space for both accountability and humanity, structure and softness, courage and vulnerability.In This EpisodeYou’ll hear about:The power of compassionate leadership and how it transforms school cultures.How to hold people accountable with kindness and clarity.The importance of creating safe and bold spaces for teachers, students, and staff to bring their whole selves to work.The role of community and teamwork in sustaining leadership through challenge.Elaine’s deeply personal story of leading through her husband’s illness and loss, and what it taught her about resilience, faith, and compassion for self.Sign up to my weekly newsletter.Book a free strategy call: https://calendly.com/jean-balfour/30minLearn more about my work: https://jeanbalfour.com/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeanbalfour/

October 2, 2025Episode 11334 min

Solving the 10 Toughest Leadership Problems with Dr. Katie Best

In today’s episode, I’m joined by Dr. Katie Best, a leadership coach, consultant, and author whose career has been shaped by asking one central question: what are the problems leaders struggle with most — and how can we solve them?Katie is the founder of Katie Best Associates, she teaches on the MBA Essentials Programme at the London School of Economics, and is a Visiting Senior Research Fellow at King’s College London. Most recently, she became an author with her new book The 10 Toughest Leadership Problems.Her journey into writing the book began, not in a quiet academic office, but in the middle of the pandemic. Katie began mapping out the recurring challenges she’d seen across decades of coaching and executive education. What she noticed was powerful: no matter the industry or seniority, leaders kept coming with the same tough problems. Out of that work, the SOLVE framework was born.In This Conversation we trace Katie’s journey from consultant and educator to author, and explore the big themes in her book:Personal Effectiveness  -  Why leaders today are carrying jobs that are simply “too big,” and how to tell the difference between organizational overload and self-imposed pressure.Influence  - How the art of influence has shifted in flatter, matrixed organizations, and why relationships and trust are more persuasive than data alone.Managing Performance  - Reframing those dreaded “difficult conversations” as an act of service and growth, rather than conflict.Culture and Values  - What it means to “just be a good human” in pressured workplaces, and how to recover when leaders get derailed.Leadership is hard -  and yet it can also be deeply fulfilling. Katie reminds us that fulfillment comes when leaders find roles and organizations where they can bring their authentic selves to work, and be valued for what they uniquely contribute.Her book is both a handbook for solving problems and a guide to building resilience. By working through the challenges, leaders don’t just fix what’s broken — they grow skills that carry into every part of their work and life.ResourcesDr. Katie Best’s book: The 10 Toughest Leadership Problems Learn more about Dr Katie Best👉 Subscribe to The Fulfilled Leader wherever you listen to podcasts, and if you enjoy this episode, share it with a colleague or friend navigating their own leadership journey.Sign up to my weekly newsletter.Book a free strategy call: https://calendly.com/jean-balfour/30minLearn more about my work: https://jeanbalfour.com/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeanbalfour/

September 26, 2025Episode 11224 min

Seven Strategies to Strengthen Your Influence at Work

Influencing others at work can often feel like one of the most challenging parts of leadership. Whether it’s navigating difficult relationships, persuading colleagues to collaborate, or aligning a team around a new direction, influence is at the heart of how leaders get things done. In this episode, Jean explores what it really means to influence others with respect and integrity.What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeWhy influencing is a core leadership skill that extends beyond formal authority.The shift from command-and-control leadership to today’s matrixed, collaborative workplaces.A three-step framework for influencing effectively:Clarify your goal – create a vision that inspires, not just a process-focused objective.Understand the current state – stand in the shoes of the person or group you’re seeking to influence.Choose the right action – select an influencing strategy that fits the context and respects others.Seven practical strategies for influence, from using logic and data to building relationships, creating impact, bargaining, and even knowing when to (carefully) lean on authority.How to approach influencing as a human skill rooted in empathy, respect, and adaptability.Why This Matters Too often, leaders approach influence by pushing their own agenda. This episode reframes influence as a relational process, one that can reduce sleepless nights, improve collaboration, and help you achieve outcomes while strengthening trust.Takeaway Influence is not about forcing or persuading, it’s about listening, connecting, and shaping outcomes in ways that benefit everyone involved. With practice, you can become a more confident and effective influencer, no matter your role.Sign up to my weekly newsletter.Book a free strategy call: https://calendly.com/jean-balfour/30minLearn more about my work: https://jeanbalfour.com/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeanbalfour/

September 18, 2025Episode 11126 min

Taming the Inner Critic: How to Stop Rumination and Self-Doubt at Work

In this episode of The Fulfilled Leader, Jean Balfour explores one of the most common challenges leaders face, negative thinking, rumination, and self-doubt. Whether it shows up as imposter syndrome, constant worry, or replaying conversations in your head, these thought patterns can drain your energy and undermine your confidence.Jean explains why our brains are wired to focus on the negative, how this evolutionary mechanism once kept us safe, and why it so often works against us in the modern workplace. She shares insights from neuroscience, personal stories from her own journey with anxiety and rumination, and practical strategies you can use to shift your relationship with negative thinking.What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeWhy small triggers at work can send us spiraling into self-doubt.The three evolutionary drivers behind our brain’s negativity bias.How constant rumination impacts our energy, confidence, and leadership.The role of the amygdala in amplifying worry and fear.Why awareness is the first step to change—and how to practice it.Practical tools for “unhooking” from negative thoughts, including writing them down, reframing them, and even playful strategies like singing them out loud.How to hold onto the positive and let go of what doesn’t serve you.Resources and ReferencesThe Happiness Trap by Russ Harris (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy)Rick Hanson’s work on the “Velcro for negatives, Teflon for positives” brain metaphorPractices for mindfulness, distraction, and self-compassionTakeaway Negative thinking never fully disappears—it’s part of being human. But you can change your relationship with it. By learning to observe, unhook, and reframe your thoughts, you free up energy and confidence to lead with greater calm and fulfillment.Sign up to my weekly newsletter.Book a free strategy call: https://calendly.com/jean-balfour/30minLearn more about my work: https://jeanbalfour.com/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeanbalfour/

September 12, 2025Episode 11015 min

School Stories That Shape Your Leadership

Have you ever thought about how your school experiences continue to shape you as a leader today? From the sound of the classroom bell to the sting of a teacher’s red ink, our memories from school and college often run deeper than we realise.In this reflective episode of The Fulfilled Leader, Jean invites you to pause and explore the surprising connections between your early educational experiences and how you now show up at work, in leadership, and in life.Drawing on her own journey of revisiting childhood schools in New Zealand, Jean shares stories that reveal how formative those years still are. She then guides you through questions and practical reflections to help uncover your own patterns, strengths, and stories that may still be influencing your leadership today.In this episode, you’ll explore:How early experiences of belonging or exclusion affect the way you connect with colleagues.The power of a teacher’s words, both encouraging and discouraging, and how they echo into adulthood.Why hidden stories from school can hold you back or quietly propel you forward.Ways to reframe old narratives so they serve your leadership now.Journaling prompts and practices to loosen the hold of unhelpful memories.This episode is an invitation to reflect gently on your past. By bringing awareness to how your school years shaped you, you gain the freedom to choose what stories to keep, what to reshape, and what to finally release.Because while our early experiences matter, they don’t have to define us forever. With awareness, compassion, and curiosity, you always have the power to choose anew.Sign up to my weekly newsletter.Book a free strategy call: https://calendly.com/jean-balfour/30minLearn more about my work: https://jeanbalfour.com/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeanbalfour/

September 5, 2025Episode 10926 min

Overcoming Overwhelm: Practical Strategies for Leaders

Overwhelm seems to be everywhere right now. In fact, LinkedIn’s Chief Economist Karin Kimborough recently shared that posts mentioning overwhelm have increased by 82% this year. With so many leaders and professionals struggling, Jean revisits this topic with fresh eyes and shares practical ways forward.In this episode, Jean Balfour explores:Why overwhelm is so widespread right now, including the impact of AI, workload, and hidden fears at work.The less obvious causes of overwhelm that I often see in coaching, like perfectionism, people-pleasing, emotional overload, unfinished projects, and constant task-switching.Her own journey with overwhelm, what drained her energy, and what restored it.A range of practical strategies to help you move from stuck and stressed into energy and enjoyment.You’ll hear about:The hidden stories we tell ourselves that fuel overwhelm.The role of unfinished tasks and “cognitive shifting” in draining our focus.How to identify what feeds you and what depletes you at work.The power of completion, time blocking, and building in breaks.Why connecting with “glimmers” those small moments of joy, matters.The surprising link between creativity and reducing anxiety.How to scale your sense of overwhelm and track progress over time.Simple team practices that can make overwhelm an acceptable and solvable conversation at work.This episode is both compassionate and practical. It’s about understanding that overwhelm has many causes,not just workload, and about finding hope, small shifts, and strategies that really make a difference.May you find rays of sunshine in these overwhelming times.Sign up to my weekly newsletter.Book a free strategy call: https://calendly.com/jean-balfour/30minLearn more about my work: https://jeanbalfour.com/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeanbalfour/

August 28, 2025Episode 10842 min

Navigate Career Transitions with Confidence - Vanessa Iloste & Vanessa Teo

In this episode of The Fulfilled Leader, Jean is joined by senior HR leaders Vanessa Iloste and Vanessa Teo, co-hosts of the Career Transitions podcast. Together, they share insights from five seasons of conversations with leaders and experts on navigating the uncertainty of change.We explore the habits that help leaders thrive in transitions, from listening and observing first, to building trust one step at a time. Vanessa and Vanessa also reflect on the challenges of cross-cultural moves, the importance of empathy in the future of work, and strategies for reinventing yourself without losing confidence.Whether you’re stepping into a new role, changing industries, or simply rethinking your career, this conversation will help you approach transitions with curiosity, courage, and humanity.Career Transitions on SpotifyCareer Transitions Podcast on AppleCareer Transitions Podcast on LinkedInVanessa Teo on LinkedInVanessa Iloste on LinkedInSign up to my weekly newsletter.Book a free strategy call: https://calendly.com/jean-balfour/30minLearn more about my work: https://jeanbalfour.com/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeanbalfour/

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