
When your Reaction Tells on You
Some people can disagree without losing control. Others hear one uncomfortable truth and immediately make the person delivering it the problem. That difference matters. In this episode of Here’s the Caveat! , I go after offense, reaction, control, and the leadership test that shows up when something touches the ego. Here’s the Caveat… Disagreement tests the idea. Offense often tests the person. If your reaction starts demonstrating the behavior you are denying, your defense has developed a credibility problem. This is When Offense Becomes Evidence.






