
Episode 336: Yana Fry - Masculinity, Absent Fathers, and the Manosphere
Ask most people to define healthy masculinity and you get adjectives. Yana Fry gives you behaviour. A man who is stable and consistent. Who does what he said he would do, shows up when he said he would show up, and finishes what he starts. She had to go and find that definition, because nobody handed it to her. Her parents divorced when she was eight, after her father spent twenty years married to her mother and then fell in love with her mother’s best friend. Her older brother could not carry it, and the drinking that started around then has gone on for decades. Yana spent years, fifteen of them in therapy, working out what she had never been shown at home. Which is exactly why her position on angry men is worth sitting with. She has watched the comments fill with hostility beneath a reel about women and marriage after forty. She has looked into where the loudest voices online came from and kept finding the same house: an absent father, or a violent one, and pain nobody ever named. When I asked what she would say if one of those men sat across from her, she did not reach for an argument. She would ask how he is doing. We also get into something I run into constantly in my own coaching work — men who will tell me things they will never tell their wives. Her answer to that was not the one I was expecting, and it puts the responsibility somewhere uncomfortable. For anyone who has stopped believing this conversation can still be had honestly. Contact Yana to collaborate: FREE 9 Love Archetypes Quiz™️ https://links.revenuetide.ai/widget/quiz/hO7ES6jvOk383RFQTRRW Website: https://yanafry.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yanafry/















