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Dad, it's Paige is a podcast where generational boundaries are crossed, assumptions are challenged, and the conversations we often avoid take center stage. Hosted by David - a seasoned class action litigator and proud Boomer - and his daughter, Paige - a behavioral scientist and part-time relief worker from the Zoomer generation - this podcast is the next evolution of the acclaimed Zoomers 2 Boomers series.

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October 13, 20261 hr 0 min

Dr. Jane Fleishman: Dad, We Really Need to Talk About Sex, Aging, LGBTQ Elders, and Why Desire Doesn’t Retire

Dr. Jane Fleishman is a sexuality educator, researcher, and author of The Stonewall Generation . After a 30-year career in medical education, Jane retired at 55 and immediately enrolled in Widener’s PhD program in human sexuality, becoming the oldest person in her cohort and discovering a passion for challenging stigma around older adults, LGBTQ elders, and sexual rights. She shares how growing up in a liberal Jewish family, coming out in her early twenties, and seeing her mother actively try to understand her identity shaped her path toward advocacy, education, and research. We get into the realities of sex and aging: why older adults are wrongly labeled as either hypersexual or completely asexual, what actually happens inside assisted living communities, and why staff need sexual-wellness policies instead of scrambling to “hide” resident relationships. Jane breaks down changes in aging bodies, why fantasy and slow sex matter, how LGBTQ elders show remarkable resilience, and how the failures of U.S. sex education leave both young and old without basic knowledge about desire, consent, and communication. She also explains how assisted living can feel like “college for older adults” and why desire never really goes away, it just evolves. Episode Highlights: Misconceptions about older adults as either oversexed or totally asexual What actually happens in assisted living communities around sex and relationships Why sexual-wellness policies are scarce—and why they matter LGBTQ elders’ resilience and surprisingly low internalized homophobia The impact of the AIDS crisis across three generations of queer people How fantasy, outercourse, and slow sex support aging bodies The staggering gaps in U.S. sex education and lack of training for medical providers What sex means in later life: feeling younger, feeling desired, and shifting from “getting” to “giving” Connect with Dr. Jane Fleishman Dr. Jane’s Website Dr. Jane’s LinkedIn Dr. Jane’s Facebook Dr. Jane’s YouTube

August 25, 202653 min

Dr. Joe Kort: Dad We Really Need to Talk About Straight Men Having Gay Sex

In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Joe Kort , a board-certified clinical sexologist, therapist, author, and founder of the Center for Relationship and Sexual Health in Royal Oak, Michigan. For over 40 years, Dr. Kort has worked with individuals and couples on sexual health, trauma, mixed orientation marriages, and LGBTQIA+ issues.He shares how growing up gay in the 1970s, coming out to his family, and meeting a supportive therapist as a teenager led him into this work. From there, we explore some of his most talked-about areas of practice: straight-identified men who have sex with men, the difference between sexual orientation and erotic orientation, and why behavior alone doesn’t define identity.We also talk about the realities of mixed orientation marriages, how couples sometimes stay together, when they don’t, and why it’s crucial that therapists avoid pushing their own bias about whether a couple “should” separate. Dr. Kort also discusses trauma, conversion therapy, internalized homophobia, and how erotic shame shows up in the therapy room.Toward the end of the episode, he opens up about being in a neurodivergent relationship, his viral TikTok content on autism and relationships, and what he wishes he’d told his younger therapist self about work, pace, and burnout as he moves into his sixties. Episode Highlights: Growing up gay in the 70s and finding a life-changing therapist Sexual orientation vs. erotic orientation Why some straight men have sex with men Mixed orientation marriages: when and how they can work The impact of trauma, sexual abuse, and conversion efforts Men’s loneliness, shame, and emotional expression Neurodivergent couples and redefining “normal” in relationships Connect with Dr. Joe Kort: Dr. Joe Korts Website Smart Sex Smart Love Podcast Dr. Joe Korts Facebook Dr. Joe Korts TikTok

July 7, 202653 min

Ella Overbye: Dad, it's Paige...we really need to talk about kids having a heart crushing love affair with their teacher

Fast rising international star, Ella Overbye joins us to talk about the movie Dreams [can we add links to the movie and trilogy], a critically acclaimed Norwegian movie in the Love-Sex-DreamsTrilogy. Dreams is a coming of age story about 17-year old Johannes’s [Ella’s character] massive crush on her female French teacher. The movie explores a young girl’s first love, sexuality, and self-discovery, as well as the support she receives from her parents as she works through this emotional quandary. The film made history by becoming the first Norwegian film to win the prestigious Golden Bear at the Berlin Film Festival. Ella discusses her journey into acting, which began at age 14, her breakout roles, and the emotional process of portraying a young girl consumed by first love. She explains the uniquely Norwegian word forgap, which describes an intense infatuation that can completely take over your life. Ella and Paige swap stories about their own unforgettable crushes and the outrageous things they did in the name of love. Funny, candid, and refreshingly down-to-earth, Ella shares the unforgettable moment she learned Dreams had won the Golden Bear, reflects on how Norway's film industry differs from Hollywood, and explains how she balances school with an increasingly busy acting career. She also previews her upcoming series Escaping Bolivia, a harrowing thriller inspired by true events, along with the physical and emotional transformation the role demanded. Episode Highlights How Ella got started in acting at age five and landed her first major film role at twelve The creative process behind Dreams and portraying first love from a young girl’s perspective Working with director Dag Johan Haugerud across multiple projects What it felt like to learn Dreams won the Golden Bear at the Berlin Film Festival Differences between Norwegian film culture and Hollywood celebrity culture Preparing for emotionally demanding roles while balancing school and personal life Behind the scenes of Escaping Bolivia and transforming for a true-crime inspired series Connect with Ella Overbye: Ella’s Instagram IMDb Connect With David and Paige: Dad It's Paige Website

November 11, 20251 hr 0 min

Dei Lynam: Dad, it's Paige...we really need to talk about female sportscasters

Paige and David dad sit down with Dei Lynam , a Philadelphia sports broadcasting legend with a career that spans decades of NBA coverage, radio hosting, and groundbreaking moments for women in sports media. The daughter of former NBA coach Jim Lynam , Dei grew up courtside, literally,and turned that early exposure into an impressive career as a producer, anchor, and reporter for networks like Comcast SportsNet and NBA Entertainment. From covering Allen Iverson’s prime years to creating Emmy-winning content, Dei has seen it all. Dei joins Paige and her dad to talk about her path from holding microphones in Trail Blazers huddles at 15 to becoming one of the most respected voices in Philadelphia sports. The trio dives into the evolution of sports broadcasting, the impact of social media on journalism, and what it takes to stay relevant in an ever-changing industry. Dei also shares candid reflections on growing up in a basketball family, navigating a male-dominated field, and her experiences with legends like Kobe Bryant and Yao Ming. Episode Highlights: Growing up in a basketball family: How her father Jim Lynam’s coaching career shaped her love of sports. Breaking barriers: Dei’s journey as one of the few women in sports broadcasting in the ’80s and ’90s. Covering NBA icons: Personal stories about Kobe Bryant, Allen Iverson, and Charles Barkley. Behind the scenes at NBA Entertainment: Creating the “I Love This Game” campaign and earning an Emmy. Philly fandom: What makes Philadelphia sports culture so passionate and sometimes brutal. The rise of women’s basketball: Caitlin Clark, Paige Bueckers, and the WNBA’s surge in popularity. Gambling and the game: Dei’s take on how betting has changed the landscape of professional sports. Staying relevant: How she adapted from TV to radio to social media, and what young broadcasters need to know. Her advice to aspiring journalists: Be prepared, be versatile, and most importantly listen. Listen to this episode of Zoomers 2 Boomers for a thoughtful and entertaining conversation that bridges generations and perspectives through the lens of sports, culture, and connection. Connect With Paige & David Bitterman: David’s LinkedIn Paige’s LinkedIn Listen To Zoomers 2 Boomers: Listen on Apple Listen on Spotify Connect With Dei Lynam: Dei’s LinkedIn Dei’s X Account Dei’s Instagram

October 28, 20251 hr 12 min

Brandon Bush: Dad, it's Paige...we really need to talk about life on the road with a rock band

In this intergenerational conversation, Grammy-nominated musician and composer Brandon Bush joins the show to reflect on his dynamic, genre-spanning music career. From touring globally with Train and Sugarland to scoring theater and podcasts, Brandon shares how a childhood performance before Dolly Parton sparked a lifelong pursuit of musical storytelling and artistic success. The episode explores how music creation, performance, and production have evolved, while also diving into the emotional and technical craft behind live shows, session recording, and musical theater. Brandon also offers a behind the scenes story of the production of a chart-topping woman country artist—whose discretion and humility are a contrast with her musical “girls rule” story narrative, the unique creative synergy he shares with his brother Kristian Bush, and how field recording in nature transformed his relationship with sound. Grounded, generous, and deeply insightful, Brandon speaks candidly about staying creative, protecting well-being, and building a meaningful artistic life. Key Highlights from the Episode From Suzuki to Stadiums: Brandon recalls his earliest musical memory—sharing a stage with Dolly Parton at just 4 years old—and how it shaped his lifelong path in music. How He Joined Train: A chance studio connection led to a last-minute call-up that became a years-long touring and recording gig with Train. Session Life Explained: Brandon demystifies the role of session musicians, producers, and the behind-the-scenes process of recording hit songs—down to how long a track actually takes to capture. Scoring Nature: Grief led Brandon to explore field recording and composing from natural soundscapes, culminating in his meditative project Sitka . From Fog Machines to Footlights: His transition into musical theater unlocked a new creative layer, where subtle emotional cues replaced bombastic stage effects. The Rise to Stardom, how one of his unpaid interns became a chart-topping artist—and why emotional intelligence played a key role. Working with Family: Brandon opens up about his creative relationship with his brother Kristian Bush, the push-pull of sibling collaboration, and how they divide dreaming and doing. Connect With Paige & David Bi derman : David’s LinkedIn Paige’s LinkedIn Listen To Zoomers 2 Boomers: Listen on Apple Listen on Spotify

September 30, 202554 min

Kevin Ali: Dad, it's Paige...we really need to talk about making it big without a big label

This week on Zoomers 2 Boomers , Paige and her dad welcome Kevin Ali , an independent rap artist from South Central Los Angeles whose music blends Caribbean roots, West Coast influences, and the lyrical traditions of hip hop’s legends. Inspired by artists like Nas, Kendrick Lamar, J. Cole, and Tupac, Kevin has spent years sharpening his freestyle skills, producing beats, and building his catalog while holding fast to integrity in an industry often driven by trends and quick hits. The conversation dives deep into Kevin’s journey — from learning to freestyle in high school and teaching himself Method Man’s flow, to crafting songs centered on self-worth and storytelling. Along the way, Kevin shares candid thoughts on the state of modern rap, the pressures of social media, and why developing authentic artistry matters more than chasing virality.You’ll also hear Kevin’s perspective on ghostwriting, beat-making, and what it takes to build a supportive creative community. His upcoming project Poetic Chaos promises to channel the raw honesty, lyrical sharpness, and self-reflection that define his style. This Week on Zoomers 2 Boomers: Kevin’s journey from reggae-infused childhood in South Central to finding his voice in hip hop Learning to freestyle using Method Man as a model — and the grind that made it stick Why Nas tops his list of lyrical inspirations, and the jazz lineage behind his sound The central theme of self-worth in Kevin’s music, and how he hopes listeners see their own value Hip hop vs. rap today — where mainstream culture drifts, and what’s been lost in the shift Honest takes on ghostwriting, Drake vs. Kendrick, and the culture of “hit chasing” The creative process behind beat-making, from live instrumentation to FL Studio sampling How streaming, TikTok trends, and algorithm shifts are shaping (and straining) the industry Poetic Chaos — Kevin’s new project that tackles jealousy, integrity, and the fight to stay authentic Connect With Paige & David Bitterman: David’s LinkedIn Paige’s LinkedIn Listen To Zoomers 2 Boomers: Listen on Apple Listen on Spotify

September 23, 202553 min

David Schactman: Dad, it's Paige...we really need to talk about where organs actually come from

This week on Zoomers 2 Boomers , Paige and her dad sit down with David Shactman, a Harvard-trained healthcare policy expert, longtime Brandeis University faculty member, and now a novelist. Over the course of his career, David studied the U.S. healthcare system from the inside — shaping policy, testifying before Congress, and co-authoring the book The Power, Politics, and Universal Health Care. Today, he’s turned his attention to fiction, using storytelling to shed light on the hidden realities of privilege, systemic injustice, and the gray zones of medicine. His debut novel, Mortal Choice, is a gripping thriller that weaves together healthcare, morality, and suspense — offering a new way to explore topics he spent decades analyzing through data. In this episode, David shares his winding path from business and real estate to Harvard’s Kennedy School and into the world of health policy, before reinventing himself as a novelist. The conversation covers the dark realities of the black market for kidneys, the moral questions surrounding organ sales, and the challenges of writing healthcare issues into compelling fiction. You’ll also hear David’s reflections on generational responsibility, the state of healthcare today, and why he believes the next generation has the chance to fix what his didn’t. This Week on Zoomers 2 Boomers: David’s journey from Brookline, MA to Harvard and Brandeis University Calling a strike at Columbia Business School during the Vietnam War era How a career in real estate led to policy work at the Kennedy School Inside stories of U.S. healthcare reform and the near-pass of Nixon’s plan The billion-dollar black market for kidneys and its global impact The plot and moral dilemmas at the heart of Mortal Choice The challenges and lessons of shifting from nonfiction to fiction writing Why David believes Boomers failed — and his hope that Zoomers can do better Connect With David Shactman: Website Books Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Bluesky Connect With Paige & David Bitterman David’s LinkedIn Paige’s LinkedIn Zoomers 2 Boomers Podcast Listen on Apple Listen on Spotify

August 26, 202558 min

Henry Alonso Myer: Dad, it's Paige...we really need to talk about how to run a TV show with a huge fan base

In this conversation, Paige and David engage with Henry Alonso Myers , television writer, producer, and current executive producer and showrunner of Star Trek: Strange New Worlds.Myers shares his journey from growing up between Spain and upstate New York to studying film, breaking into the industry, and eventually becoming a leading voice in contemporary television. He reflects on his career path from staff writer to executive producer, the evolution of television across decades, and how science fiction can be a vehicle for telling stories about humanity, hope, and moral complexity. The discussion dives deep into Myers’ creative process, the challenges and joys of running a show like Star Trek, and how generational shifts in entertainment consumption shape storytelling today . Episode Takeaways: Henry Alonso Myers’ unique upbringing in Spain and Ithaca shaped his love for storytelling and film. Early access to community TV and cinema sparked his interest in writing and producing. His career path moved from independent film in New York to script reading in Hollywood before breaking into television. Insights into the progression from staff writer to executive producer across series like Charmed, Ugly Betty, Chuck, Covert Affairs, and The Magicians. How Star Trek: Strange New Worlds approaches each episode like a standalone “movie of the week.” The role of showrunners in balancing writing, production, and creative vision. Why Myers considers himself a “professional viewer” when evaluating scripts, actors, and edits. The importance of hopeful storytelling in science fiction and the conscious ethos of Star Trek. How television has transformed from the TiVo era to streaming, and where he sees it going next. Myers’ personal philosophy: creative joy comes from the work itself, not external validation. Connect With Henry Alonso Myers IMDb Profile Star Trek: Strange New Worlds Connect With Paige & David Bitterman David’s LinkedIn Paige’s LinkedIn Zoomers 2 Boomers Podcast: Listen on Apple Listen on Spotify

April 1, 202557 min

Amy Alcott: Dad, it's Paige...we really need to talk about practicing golf with cans of Campbell's soup

In this conversation, Paige and David sit down with Amy Alcott, a World Golf Hall of Fame member and one of the most accomplished players in LPGA history. Born in Kansas City and raised in Santa Monica, Amy's 35-year professional career yielded 29 LPGA Tour victories, including 5 major championships. Known for her creative shot-making and "go for the pin" style of play, Amy pioneered the iconic tradition of winners jumping into "Poppie's Pond" at the Kraft Nabisco Championship (now the Chevron Championship) and has since transitioned into golf course design, working with renowned architect Gil Hans on projects including the course for the 2016 Olympics in Rio de Janeiro. Amy shares her journey from a golf-obsessed child hitting balls into soup cans in her front yard to becoming one of the sport's greatest players. She discusses her early development under coach Walter Keller, her competitive mindset, the challenges women faced in a male-dominated sport, and her philosophy on handling pressure and maintaining consistency. Amy also reflects on her post-touring career in golf course design, her coaching experience at Harvard-Westlake School, and the evolution of women's golf from her pioneering days to the global phenomenon it has become today. Episode Takeaways: Amy began playing golf at age 7 after watching golf shows on TV, despite no one in her family playing the sport. Her father cut down a golf club with black duct tape for her first practice club, and she turned her front yard into the "Alcott Golf and Country Club" with soup cans as targets. She was coached primarily by Walter Keller, who taught her indoors hitting into a net in front of a mirror without video equipment. Amy won the U.S. Girls' Junior Championship and California State Championship before turning professional immediately after high school. She initiated the iconic tradition of jumping into the lake (now known as "Poppie's Pond") after winning the Kraft Nabisco Championship in 1988. Her "go for the pin" playing style and willingness to be herself in a traditionally conservative sport helped change women's golf. Amy emphasizes that consistency, not just winning, defines greatness in golf: "Consistency is greatness. Winning is just a byproduct." She discusses the challenges women faced in golf's male-dominated culture and the progress made in women's sports. After her touring career, Amy transitioned to golf course design, including working on the course for the 2016 Olympics in Rio. She advises new golfers to start with used clubs, find a teacher they connect with, and focus on fundamentals rather than expensive equipment. Connect With Amy Alcott: Amy's World Golf Hall of Fame Profile Connect With David and Paige: David’s Linkedin Paige’s LinkedIn Follow Zoomers 2 Boomers Podcast: Listen on Apple Listen on Spotify

February 11, 20251 hr 4 min

Anne Buckle: Dad, it's Paige...we really need to talk about the music writing scene in Nashville

From Harvard to Nashville: The Musical Journey of Anne BuckleIn this conversation, Paige and David sit down with Anne Buckle , a Nashville-based singer-songwriter and multi-instrumentalist whose music blends Appalachian roots with indie Americana. A Harvard graduate with a master’s in arts and education, Anne’s path has been anything but conventional—spanning diplomacy, education policy, and ultimately, a thriving career in music. Anne shares her journey from classical violinist to Americana artist, the influence of her Appalachian roots, and how she transitioned from government work to a life of songwriting and performance. She also discusses the evolution of country music, the shift towards independent artists, and the importance of persistence in the music industry. Episode Takeaways: Anne Buckle’s Appalachian heritage and family ties to the Carter Family influenced her musical style. She began as a classically trained violinist before expanding to multiple instruments. Her early career included work in education policy and diplomacy, including the creation of Tennessee Promise. The turning point in her career came while working in Paris, realizing she wanted to be a creator, not just a facilitator of culture. The transition from classical music to Nashville’s improvisational style required a complete shift in approach. Anne toured with The Chicks and has collaborated with artists like David Archuleta. She emphasizes the increasing role of independent artists in the music industry and the decline of reliance on major labels. The importance of persistence in the music business—Anne aims for 100 rejections a year as a mindset shift to keep going. The challenges women face in country music and her efforts to champion female artists. Connect With Anne Buckle: Annes Website Annes YouTube Annes Music Anne Instagram Connect With David and Paige: David’s Linkedin Paige’s LinkedIn Follow Zoomers 2 Boomers Podcast: Listen on Apple Listen on Spotify