
ADHD IS | Routines & Ridiculous Habits - Why We Do What We Do (And Why It Matters)
In this episode, Linda Monahan ADHD coach, business mentor, Taurus queen and lover of a good routine dives into the hilarious, relatable and downright ridiculous quirks that come with ADHD. From birthday boundaries to laundry systems, from “my chair” energy to needing every detail of a plan, this episode explores how ADHD shows up in everyday life… and how those quirks impact business, relationships and emotional wellbeing. This is a warm, honest, laugh‑out‑loud episode that helps ADHD women and creative entrepreneurs feel seen, validated and a little less alone. Key Takeaways (ADHD • Life • Business) 1. ADHD people overdeliver for others and underdeliver for themselves. You say it plainly: ADHDers are phenomenal workers for clients but often neglect their own admin, marketing and systems. “They go above and beyond for other people. It’s themselves they neglect.” 2. Birthday boundaries are real and they matter. You’re not making people feel better for forgetting your birthday. ADHDers often remember everything for others, so the lack of reciprocity hits differently. 3. The “special chair” phenomenon is universal. ADHD brains love familiarity, predictability and sensory safety even if it looks ridiculous from the outside. “Do you have a chair in the house that you sit in? I do… and I don’t feel right if I’m not sitting in that chair.” 4. Walking on the ‘right side’ is not optional. This is sensory regulation, not stubbornness. When the environment feels wrong, the body feels wrong. 5. Routines aren’t boring, they’re survival - well they are a bit boring! Your laundry system is a decade-long masterpiece of gamification, habit stacking and ADHD-friendly structure. “Do not f*** with my process because there is going to be trouble.” 6. ADHD brains need details early and often. Loose plans = anxiety. Clear plans = safety. “Who do you think you’re talking to? I need to know all the details now.” 7. Recording on the ‘wrong day’ feels physically off. ADHD time‑anchoring is real, routines create stability. 8. Judging people for not liking coffee or Heat is a personality trait. And honestly? It’s hilarious. 9. The dopamine death when someone tells you to do something you were already going to do. This is peak ADHD. “You’ve ruined it. You f***ed all the dopamine. It’s gone.” 10. ADHD quirks aren’t flaws, they’re patterns. And when you understand them, you can build a business that works with your brain, not against it. 🎟️ Event Mentioned Full‑day ADHD Business Event — May 27th, Bray, Co. Wicklow 100 pieces of content • Roadmap for your big goal • Mental health tools • Strategy & clarity Tickets available now ⬇️⬇️⬇️ https://thehabitboss.com/take-space-event Be part of an amazing group of people within The Small Steps Accountability Circle ⬇️⬇️⬇️ https://thehabitboss.com/smallstepscircle













